jQuery.validator.addMethod("inf_field_Phone1", function(value, element) { // no phone number is a good phone number (the field is optional) if (value.length == 0) { return true; } // if the phone number field is not empty, it has to follow the fixed format if(!/^33 \(0\)\d \d\d \d\d \d\d \d\d$/i.test(value)) { // ten digits starting with zero if (/^0(\d)(\d\d)(\d\d)(\d\d)(\d\d)$/.test(value)) { value = value.replace(/^0(\d)(\d\d)(\d\d)(\d\d)(\d\d)$/, "33 (0)$1 $2 $3 $4 $5"); $(element).val(value); // also update the form element return true; } } return /^33 \(0\)\d \d\d \d\d \d\d \d\d$/i.test(value); }, 'Please enter your phone number in the following format: 33 (0)1 23 45 67 89'); Stephen Hussey, Author at Get The Guy

Lust vs. Love: What’s the Difference?

couple kissing in bedroom

You want to grab and kiss him every second you’re walking down the street. He can’t help but sneak a touch whenever you’re walking up a flight of stairs front of him.

Even though you’re out with friends, all you can think about is ripping each other’s clothes off when you get home.

But how do you know if it’s lust vs. love?

In this article, we’ll take a look at the definitions of both, so that you can tell whether it’s purely a physical connection or something deeper…

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7 Signs You’re In A One Sided Relationship

couple bored at lunch

You ask your friends, “Is this normal?”

It’s not that he’s necessarily a bad guy. But you feel deep in your gut that something is wrong. Like he’s just a passenger along for the ride, and you’re always the one driving the car.

You keep wondering if you’re being over-dramatic, but you can’t help but feel something isn’t right.

Is he being unreasonable? Or are you expecting too much?

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4 Things You Can ACTUALLY Learn To Be Better At Dating and Relationships…

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One of the harsh truths about getting older is realizing that so many things in life can’t be learned.

No amount of grinding will summon up a sublime talent for poetry or a gift for music. You can’t study enough physics and be capable of the insights of Albert Einstein, or swim enough lengths and evolve into whatever land-sea hybrid creature Michael Phelps is.

But that’s ok. Life is better when you bet on your natural strengths anyway.

What about love though?

People often ask me: “Do you really think that attraction and being good at relationships can be taught to everyone?”

(This is their polite way of asking: “Does the stuff you teach actually help anyone?”)

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Do You Have Any Of These Annoying Girlfriend Habits?

Even if a guy is crazy about a woman (in a good way), it doesn’t mean there aren’t things she does that also drive him insane (in a bad way).

Ok, it’s one thing to have a few bad habits.

But some behaviors are deadly kryptonite that KILL men’s attraction for you and make him want to hit the “ignore” button whenever he sees your name on his caller ID.

So let’s look at the top 7 annoying girlfriend habits that make him pull away so that you don’t fall into these traps…

1. Judging him constantly

woman annoyed with her boyfriend

He dresses wrong. He watches too many movies. He has the wrong opinions on politics, art, and life in general (i.e. not yours).

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How To Know If You’re In The Best Relationship Of Your Life

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Love has a funny way of sneaking up on you.

Sure, the Disney movies make us believe that it’s all lightning bolts to the heart and falling head over heels with a dashing prince, but in truth, sometimes you don’t realise you’re in an amazing relationship until you stop and think about it.

The truth is: love is in the small things.

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9 Warning Signs That You’re In A Toxic Relationship

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Do you feel like you’re always apologizing even though you didn’t do anything wrong?

Does the guy you’re dating constantly make you feel insecure, or criticize you whenever you succeed?

Do you get called labels like “childish” or “jealous”, even when you’re behavior is totally reasonable?

If the answer to these questions is yes, you may have walked into a toxic relationship without even realizing it. 

To find out whether your relationship is doing more harm than good, look for some of these 9 signs…

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7 Signs You’re Falling In Love With Your Best Friend


couple smiling at each other

You both go to watch the latest comic book movie together (he likes DC, you like Marvel). You spend hours discussing your dreams, books you love, the kind of house you’d like to live in one day. You text him most nights before you go to sleep.


This guy is your best friend.

Maybe he’s been close to you for a long time. Or maybe only in the last 6 months. But now you’re starting to think of him in a romantic way.

So how do you know if you’re actually falling in love with your best friend?

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Are You Lying To Yourself About The Relationship?

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When we’re teenagers, we all dream about the idea of having a “boyfriend” or “girlfriend”.

It just sounds so grown up, so cool, so romantic.

To have someone with whom you share this private world, where you get to share your secrets, go on adventures, and of course, kiss until your lips get sore.

But the problem is, some of us are addicts.

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Why Arguing In Relationships Is Good

man and woman arguing

Does having fights always mean you have an unhealthy relationship?

We’ve been taught so often that arguments are bad, that any kind of disagreement with your partner can easily make you doubt everything.

But what if it isn’t true? What if arguing could be a sign of health, instead of sickness?

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Does Your Relationship Have Long-Term Potential?

couple laying on leaves

You try to write a checklist of the guy you want to date:

  • Tall and handsome
  • Successful career
  • Takes you on romantic dates
  • Incredible in bed

These are all perfectly good qualities.

But it doesn’t tell you if this man is true relationship potential (well ok, who doesn’t want a man that knows what he’s doing in the bedroom). [click here to continue…]