Exactly What to Say When He Pulls Away

What are the real signs a man is losing interest?

  • He sends less frequent texts… check.
  • He’s less available for dates… check.
  • A feeling of “distance” in the way he speaks… check.

You feel like there’s nothing you can do. But there is a confident, powerful response you can use in this situation that makes him 5x more attracted to you. Just watch this video.

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  1. Clara66 says:

    This came at just the right time. So I used the text and got my answer! He replied, “you’re right I have been feeling confused, so it’s probably for the best you take some space”. Not a great answer but it confirmed my intuition that it was going down the pan, and made me feel slightly better that I’d got him to admit it and stop stringing me along.

  2. Sheila lavin says:

    Ive been seeing a guy for 5 wks now and he told me on new years, hes liked me since last summer..and hes been going to the same local bar every weekend just to hopefully run into me..so weve had 2 official dates 1st one i iniated.which weve had a great time…hes very shy i guess within the last couple years,we dont text each other very often in between our dates and ive iniated mist of our conversations but hes always been very receptive each time and hes told me these things when hes had the liquid courage.but on superbowl sunday something didnt seem right, he seemed distracted and ive felt uneasy thru out the day like he wasnt really into being there with me, like he was just staying because he had to stay for me, i just felt like thats how he felt..i finally left and went home..i text him when i got home saying i made it, because it was snowing really good,and then i said thanks for letting me hang out with him and if he wanted to leave he could have, he didnt have to stay..i havent heard from him since..i text him friday just saying hi and i hoped he had a good week and no response and nothing since..ive been wanting to text him and ask whats up,and ask him did i do or say anything wrong but im affraid to…do you think this technic would help?

    • Nila says:

      Hi Sheila

      Just read your comment. It’s a tough one what you have just experienced. Seems like he doesn’t want to know. I’ve had dates with guys where I never really hear from them unless they are interested. And the ones who are really interested do and will keep in touch with you. Sometimes I think you have to go with your gut feeling.

      And it’s not even that we are doing anything wrong because we can only be ourselves.

  3. A. says:

    Do you have to say that line exactly? It sounds like a breakup. ‘Space’ is sometimes a euphemism. She altered it because her intention (I think?) wasn’t to break up with him. I would only use that line verbatim if I never wanted to see the guy again.

    And I’m dead serious. When I take space, I’m like the other lady, I’m out. During that space things change. Even if he comes back, I’m out. So she modified it not just for him but for her so she could keep room for him in her heart.

    But if I don’t modify it? I may as well be telling him to lose my number.

  4. tigress866 says:

    Hi Matt…

    I personally hate red velvet cupcakes, but that black and red shirt on you is amazing so you make up for it!!

    Keep being cheeky!


  5. Emilia says:

    We need more Matthew Hussey’s in the world – picnics and cupcakes just missing the champagne! ;-)

  6. Wendy says:

    I love this advice, Matt. I can see that it is strong enough to give the guy reason to re-think the situation, or at the very least the girl walks away with her head held high and with her dignity and confidence intact.
    I also love the classiness of your bringing luscious cupcakes for the lady contest winners.

  7. Bridget says:

    In my situation he wasn’t actually pulling away, but I still love this, ” I’m feeling some confusion from you, which is totally fine, but I’m going to take some space because I don’t want to get closer to someone who’s not sure what they want.”

    I WISH I had this JUST the other day because I was searching for the words and ended up texting, “… I enjoy (spending time with you), but I think if we continue my emotions are going to get involved and I’m going to end up getting my feelings hurt.”

    I think both convey the same meaning, but I think the way Matt put it was a bit more eloquent and puts a little more into the meaning. I really HESITATED a LOT before pressing send because I felt SO vulnerable actually expressing this to him.

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