Where do you meet men??
I believe good people are everywhere. In the video I want to demonstrate that to you, firstly by telling you some of the unusual places I’ve met people, and then by asking you and conducting a little experiment…
Where do you meet men? Where was the last place you met a quality guy?
Let me know in the comments below.
I want you to think of this as an experiment where the more comments we get, the better this is going to be. I’m then going to draw on all of your comments in my next video and let you know the results.
Be specific about where you were, what the location was, and what type of location it was.
Were you taking a class, doing one of your hobbies, were you grabbing a coffee, shopping…tell us!
Retweet this, get it to your friends, share it on your Facebook, pass it on to as many people as possible, and encourage them to comment too.
The more comments we get, the more effective this is going to be. So I can’t wait to read yours!
Matthew x
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hmm, never met a guy that is normal… They are just standing in a corner looking at you, but dosen’t approach. and they are either scared of falling in love, arrogant idiots, or just boring and never talk. So I don’t think there are any guys left soon :( So would really love to hear where to find them. But there actually was one..In USA he seemed sweet and smiled, seemed funny around other. but didin’t talk to me. but I love american guys atleast. feel more connection to them atleast then here in scandinavia :/
Wohoo, Scandinavian girl! Ok, so I’ve HATED boys then guys then men all of my life, my brothers and guyfriends and dad included. Simply because they generally are less socially skilled than women (because society doesn’t demand them to be to the same extent as women). However, I did find a guy that proved me wrong. And he was the type of guy I least expected to make an impression on me, in every way. So there are guys, people, out there that will just turn your world upside-down and make you fall in love against your will. I promise.
I like the last thing you said. Well… say where you met him :)
They stare because you are most likely hot. Guys are idiots & really insecure & mainly just stare if u are hot. Ok, try smiling, that should help. Smiling & eye contact. Also, try to meet guys online. Sometimes they’re more brave when it’s not in person
The last two, and best boyfriends I’ve had, I met one in my favorite antique shop and the other at a bus stop.
HI Matt,
I haven’t fallen in love with anyone yet.
Weekly Bowling League in New York City at a local alley
Hi,
This is a great idea! Thanks for sharing.
x
!!TANGO!! Thurs-Sunday you will find me out at Salsa Socials and Milongas (Tango Socials). This really helps out the “How man guys are you meeting each day/week question! In MIAMI, FL, my experience with “quality men” has been horrible to non-existent If I go to regular bars or danceclubs. However, at these more “formal”, but high-energy dance socials, guys are ususally more “disciplined” as they must actually know how to lead a partner in a LA/Mambo. Theres a HUGE variety of cultures and races to experiment with. The power of touch makes things more interesting because you are on multiple “3 minute dates” in a close embrace. My last 3 relationships have been with men found in these socials!
I met two people recently. One on the airplane departure segment of a flight from NYC to Miami, FL. The other one at a charity mixer at a photography studio.
Met a great guy off Match.com 2011. He was attentive at first said all the right things told me I was the ‘one’ then a few months down the line of dating him he would go ‘missing’ I could not contact him either , then he would get in touch telling me he had been suffering from stress or had to go away on Business hence why phone had no signal crap. Despite these stories. I went back with him. I loved him. In fact I went back twice. (Yeah I know) I discovered why he had gone missing the previous year as a pattern was forming. Basically I found out lots about him. Not only was he screwing women but guys too!! He likes eastern european women they accept all his sweet nothings. He pays for them to visit him for sex. He travels to their hometown too again for sex. How sad is he eh?! I am very proud that I found this out in time before I got in too deep. I loved him very much. I thought he loved me too. This guy is dangerous has no thought for anyone else apart from himself. I believe the reason he is this way is he is struggling with his sexuality. I know he is bi – sexual he has denied all of it. Nothing wrong with being bi but in a relationship you should know surely? Had he of been honest with me I would of forgive him. He just cannot be trusted with his lies and trail of deceit I feel sorry for anyone who gets into a relationship with him.
Hi, I go the first year in high school and I have never had a boyfriend. But a few weeks ago a saw a boy a like. :) We have talked to each other on the internet two times, and I write to him sometimes but he don´t answer. Why? Is he scared or don´t like me as much as I like him so he won´t answer me or what??? Please I want help! I don´t know what´s going on! :(
At work! Particularly if you work in a moderate to large office or in an occupation where you regularly meet new people you should always try to look cute at work; it makes you feel fabulous and confident. After work drinks is another gold mine of yummy, intelligent, suited-up lads! :-)
That’s a good one. Cute at work is a must!
The last time I met an amazing guy, strangely was when I traveled to the top of the world ;).
I was in Sweden for a year and decided to go to the arctic circle to see the Northern Lights. So in this small town for away from any form of civilizations, that only has like a hundred inhabitants, totally covered with meters of snow, there he was… this amazing, nice, funny, sweet and beautiful guy working there as an activity supervisor. We had a lot in common, same hobbies, same humor, same expressions. He was so gentle and caring…a knew at the first sight that this could be the man of my dreams!
Unfortunately, after a couple of days, I had to go back home, and I know that I will never see him again. But it totally worth it.
Yes, sometimes you have to go to the edge of the world to meet the man of your life ;)
First guy I ever liked I met almost a year ago over a dating app (speedflirt). Unfortunatley he didn’t want a long distance relationship.
Second guy I’ve ever liked works in my favorite club (Nefertiti) in Gothenburg, Sweden, and I first noticed him a couple of months ago and asked him if he wanted to dance. He said no, but took my number and has now started to text me.
A good male friend gave me his email as I needed to get primary research on extreme biking sports & arranged to meet him to interview about his downhill biking in exchange for a drink at a open roof bar. After I’d asked all the questions he bought a round & we chatted for the rest of the night. We ended up going out for several months. Things didn’t work out, but we’re still friends.
Since him every guy I have met has a girlfriend initially then promptly splits with her asks & me out, but I never say yes because I know these types guys will do the same to me! Frustrating!
I have found that being and feeling myself as the best woman whatever place is perfect, because the perfect men just appears in my experience.
Tanya has the best comment on here! Love yourself and be yourself and don’t be afraid to show it and the guys who are “perfect for you” will just happen to be stick around.
so. i met one boyfriend in sydney on the street. the other one i met in a high end club in new york… apart from that me, too, i only meet idiots and taken men. and if they are not idiots they are perverts or super- unattractive! so, no idea really. i meet guys everywhere, just NEVER any interesting ones.
The last great guy I met was at work. I work as a waitress for a company that send me to all different places. For New Years eve I was working in Eindhoven, Holland at a dance party. I saw a really nice guy, but we dint really talk.
I met him again at my next job, a new years reception, while we where getting dressed. I said hi to him and asked him if he was working for the same company as I was because I saw him at New Years. He clearly did not rember me, however he was impressed that I did rember him (either that or the fact that I was standing in my undies). We worked together for the first hour, in which he started making little flirtatious remarks, until I got relocated. We started talking again over drinks after the job and he said I should call the campany so I could work the next job as well. I said I couldent make it as I had other plans, but im sure we will meet again…
I’ve met all of my dates through Junior Farmers. It’s a provincial organization that has local clubs. We all had similar interests but the issue always ended up being that we were in different points in our lives and wanted different things from a relationship. The fact that there’s a long distance involved didn’t help either. With the exception of one, all of them were good quality guys that treated a girl well.
Hy Everybody! :-) I meet this boyfriend that I’m seeing now on the Internet, more specific on POF( plenty of fish). My last boyfriend I meet him on Internet aswell so I personally think that when you live in a big city like London Internet dating is a good ideea! What I realise with girls sometimes is that they don’t give a chance to the men…… Girls give them a chance to show you who they really are!!!!!
Last couple of guys a met were in one of my favorite bars where people not only drink, but get to dance and interact as well. But I actually had some interesting acquaintances in the last couple of months. I met this guy in the bus, while I was on a vacation, and after that I dated the receptionist from my hotel. Both of those times I wasn’t looking for a date, but I guess things happen, when you’re relaxed.
wow, this has really made me think, thanks Matthew. The last 2 guys I’ve been involved with are neighbours!So awkward but I’m friends with both of them now and they both have found new g/f’s. Before that pretty much every guy I’ve met through work/business scenarios.Trying online dating but not much luck so far, I don’t fancy them but trying to be less superficial and really chatting at gym/social situations.Pre=ordered your book and giving that a try.Wouldn’t mind your phone number Matt?Lol.xx
I’m in my last year of high school and this is the year we have dance lessons for the prom and the prom itself. Because there are so little guys at our school girls usually ask guys to be their dance partner. So I’m really shy and I really didn’t know what to do so at first I only asked one guy I knew, but he already had a dance partner. I kind of gave up after that, even though I knew that if I wanted to dance at the prom I would have to ask other guys. I then kind of noticed a guy in one of my classes. After a few days I saw him in the school halway, went up to him and asked him if he had a dance partner. He told me he didn’t have one so I asked him if he would be my dance partner and he said yes. It was kind of awkard at first between us, but now we get along really well. He is one of the sweetest and nicest guys I’ve ever met. We talk almost everyday now and for many hours. I’m in love with him, but don’t dare to tell him, especially after he told me he was almost in a relationship with another girl (she then went out with another guy) just a few months ago. We also went out for a couple of drinks(I think it was around that time, when that girl went out with the other guy).I’m glad I got the courage to ask him and I’m going to do my best to make him like me. :)If he doesn’t then I at least got to meet a great guy with whom I can be good friends.