Where do you meet men??
I believe good people are everywhere. In the video I want to demonstrate that to you, firstly by telling you some of the unusual places I’ve met people, and then by asking you and conducting a little experiment…
Where do you meet men? Where was the last place you met a quality guy?
Let me know in the comments below.
I want you to think of this as an experiment where the more comments we get, the better this is going to be. I’m then going to draw on all of your comments in my next video and let you know the results.
Be specific about where you were, what the location was, and what type of location it was.
Were you taking a class, doing one of your hobbies, were you grabbing a coffee, shopping…tell us!
Retweet this, get it to your friends, share it on your Facebook, pass it on to as many people as possible, and encourage them to comment too.
The more comments we get, the more effective this is going to be. So I can’t wait to read yours!
Matthew x
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I met my husband of 10 years by being introduced by a mutual guy friend. I had been trained by my parents to be a “high value woman,” as Matthew calls it, and found that friends would introduce me to guy friends as a girl they ought to meet. I cannot say enough about the things Matt and his team teach. I stumbled across one of his videos about 6 months ago on you tube and decided to watch thinking it would be entertaining drivel, utterly un-useful, the way these sorts of videos almost always are. I was shocked to find the principles were spot on and now I subscribe to the blog because I find his advice so helpful as a person even though I’m married and not looking for anyone. My husband, a CEO of a nonprofit, has even incorporated bits of Matthew’s advice on leadership into a document he has created for himself to re-read every month that helps him be a great manager.
Thank you, Matthew and team! Keep working on being high value women, ladies. It pays off in every aspect of your life!
Thanks Carolyn! It is indeed a good piece of advice. I also strive to be a high-value woman! Well I know I am one! ;)
The last time I met interesting guy on holiday on the beach in Stegna. I talked to him a few times and he seemed to be a nice guy, but unfortunately, it didn’t work out.
I met a great guy in a civil organization about reforestations areas; they were doing an annual event so I went with a good friend of mine and then they put a contest about planting a tree (a big tree) so, I was checking a group of three guys who didn’t win in time but they did a great job, they won the third place and gave them all a special price.
When I get closer to congratulate them all groups, this guy came and ask me if I was also in the group cuz’ he hasn’t saw me in like any reforestation day or event like that, so I just told him “I was curious and came, saw the event on Facebook” and then he gift me his own bag with a bracelet of the team :) it was really cool. I mean we didn’t even knew each other and it was great, but I forgot to ask his number (my mistake again).
That was one.
:)
My boyfriend was with me in the same class .
At the beginning we was just friends … But after a year , we knew each other really closely .. At that point we had deep converststions , and spending time together was a thing we both waited for. We fell in love !
My last boyfriend I met at the Local Farmers market. I was shopping with a friend, she ran into him and introduced us. We interacted at the local bar about a week later.
I met a few guys (including my ex which I was in a relationship for 9 years) through mutual friends. It’s not the “I will match you with my firend” type of thing, but just a gathering of people (less than 10) where everybody gets to talk with everyone there. Since they are friends with your friends there is already a filter, so you know the person is not a total jerk. If things are not working out, you still get more friends!
Even if it sounds weird :D – sanatorium! I were there to visit my old friend and met him – my future boyfriend.
The last guy I meet.. I meet him at my work. I work for a retail store and he complimented me on how beautiful I was. I flirted back and before I knew it I had his #. The other guy that I meet before him. I meet him through a family member at a bar it was my 1st time going there when we first meet. It’s 10 minutes away from where I leave. The bar is alright..it has a dance floor and area to mingle. This guys is someone I really liked. After some time I real started feeling things for him and I wanted more. He didn’t and I walked away.. After afew months we started talking again and right now we are seeing each other again but, I do have my guard up. I real like him and would love for him to fall for me and trust me, his going to have to show me he really cares for me before making my next move. And looking like a fool.
I met a guy once at a hostel in Scotland. He was travelling with a group of friends and it was a real pity that we both had to move on the next day.
I met a guy through a walking group I was in for a while, and the last guy I dated, I met him at an arty stylish cafe in Newcastle. Nothing has lasted more than a few weeks as yet, but I live in hope.
I met my last boyfriend at a arts club. We are both artists and have so much in common, however after a few months he started to show no interest in sex whatsoever and then after a year or so he started to criticize sex so much that we only had sex once or twice every year during the first couple years. We have now been together for seven years as friends only (he became my best friend) since he sees ‘sex as evil’ and unnecessary, but I still love him very much. By the way, I am free to have sex with other guys which I have done sometimes, but I am not luck in finding someone who loves me for who I am and wants to commit and have a normal relationship with me. I am tired of internet dating advices that tells women how they should behave like this or that or do this and that to men in order for them to feel attracted to you or wanting a commitment with you and really would like to listen to what men should be doing to build a loving a lasting relationship with a women or a more meaningful explanation on what men want and the reasons beyond their behaviour and the ways in which that could improve without putting too much weight or blame on the women’s part. Also, the internet dating is full of wankers and time wasters! It has let me down!
I met the last guy at college. I’m a memeber of the history club on campus and he happened to be the president of the club. We’d had a couple conversations within history club stuff and then he friended me on facebook and it took off from there.
This video looks great! Getting all Hollywood, eh? ;)
I met my last boyfriend in the waiting room at the mechanics. Didn’t work out because I’m far more educated and makes far more money. (I drive a BMW, he drives a $500 car.) But I take it as a lesson that I should go to places with people who are more on my level. (Should quit going to the gym at the community centre and pay for expensive membership huh?!)
Money doesn’t matter to me, but it always matter to the guy. :(
It matters to you
The last guy I dated seriously I met through Greek activities at college. We had auditions for the Greek show competitions and he was at my house singing with his guitar. So cheesy haha. Lately though I’ve met some great guys through friends – not where I’ve been set up, but have just casually been introduced to other people from visiting my friends at other colleges. And like one previous comment mentioned, that gives you a bit of a filter bc you know if your friends are friends with them, they can’t be too bad. One at a party my friends boyfriend hosted, and one at an urban bar for my best girlfriend’s 21st birthday. I’ve found that I generally get along better with guys who are a couple, if not several years older than me.
I met my last bf at Walmart parking lot in a small town called “Kewanee” in Illinois, USA. he pulled over and same as us while we are cruising and once we park and saaw each other into the eyes. The sparks was just right there and you knew it :)
I meet and volunteered at the local Volunteer Fire Department for 25 years. I lost my husband – he went missing presumed dead in military service. 10 years later a nice family guy that I had volunteered with and who is now one of the leaders got a divorce. We already had a solid long term friendship and it was he that wanted to take it to the next level. The boyfriend before that I was introduced to by a mutual friend, another I meet online. Most are nice guys but either unready or unwilling to have long term relationships plus one was a trucker who did not want to stay in touch regularly.
I meet nice guys every day at work…unfortunately they are all under the age of 5. Seriously though…I have a feeling I know where this is heading. Spoiler alert…they are everywhere if you open your eyes and if you open yourself up to them if that makes sense.
I met a guy at one of the local yuppie travel groups where I joined alone to meet interesting people – even single guys. It didn’t work out, but he is one quality guy! :D
The last guy i met that i actually really liked was in a bar at about 4am in the morning. My friend introduced us, so we hung out and got on like a house in fire. Nothing actually happened because he was leaving to go back home to Canada two days after, but we have still kept in touch even though this was about two years ago. We’ve become really good friends,and in my mind this is the last time i met a quality guy. Sadly where i live at the moment makes it hard to meet decent, available guys! I always wondered what might happen if we had met earlier.
I met a guy at the busstation who seemed interesting, and we went on a date a couple of weeks later. He turned out to be ten years younger than me, and a muslim so we weren’t exactly looking for the same things in a relationship, but we had a nice conversation and I was pleased with myself because I had been able to make something happen with a guy I liked. I used to be one of those girls who wait to be chosen in stead of choosing the men they want to date, and this showed me that I can change that and date men I actually like.
At the local swimming pool. We had both taken our kids swimming – mine dragged me out, over the Christmas break. Tall, Dark, Buff and Handsome stared at me with his jaw on the floor. I couldn’t believe a man could stare at me so blatently (especially since I was not feeling comfortable with myself in my swimsuit). But he drew me in and I asked him something casual about the swim times and it went from there. We couldn’t take our eyes or attention off of each other. We were like magnets – still are, chemistry is so thick we can’t even breath.