In this week’s episode of LOVELife, I take a question from Jasmine on the best way to talk to a guy about STDs. We discuss the right way to have the “getting tested” talk without scaring him off.
Will Insisting On A Condom Scare Him Off?
- Relationship & Dating Blog | Matthew Hussey
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- Relationship & Dating Blog | Matthew Hussey
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If people would stop sleeping around we wouldn’t have to worry about STDs. I was actually talking to some ladies today about this and I feel there’s way too much emphasis on the sexual part of a relationship and I think it’s sad. Wait until you know this is someone sooo special. Don’t get me wrong I’m not saying sex is bad however it can be sooo much better when there’s that deep connection.
Thank you for talking about this topic. I’ve always been worried that if I ask a guy to get tested, I’ll scare him off and he’ll lose interest in me. Now I know that the right guy won’t mind it.
Love your candour on this one! Excellent topic and excellent answers!
Making decisions out of a fear of losing something guarantees the biggest loss of all. Self abandonment. ‘Check yo self, before you wreck yo self.’ Girrrrrrl, run it.
This is a general comment, not one aimed at this specific post. You and Stephen must have the most amazing parents in the world. To have two children who have their heads where you do speaks volumes.
Hi Leonor, I don’t know if you ever got an answer to this, but if not, read the Get the Guy book! They go into detail about this topic. :)