Frequently Asked Questions – Dating Solutions

There’s nothing I love more than having a conversation with you.

When I create my dating advice videos and blogs, I am speaking to YOU.

As personal as our relationship is to me, it’s also a reality that I get thousands of emails every day. Often it’s just not possible for me to respond personally.

But know this: It is always my mission to get you the answers you need so you can achieve the love life of your dreams as quickly as possible.

When you’re frustrated about being single, hurting from a breakup, or just confused about men’s behavior, I know it can feel like you’re the only woman who’s ever gone through your exact situation.

I promise you, you’re not.

In the many years I’ve been coaching women around the world, I have heard it all.

That’s why I’ve worked tirelessly to create a wide range of programs – from quick-reference eBooks on attraction and communication to in-depth video coaching on confidence and commitment – to answer everything that’s on your mind so you can find and keep your Mr. Right.

And if you want a live coaching experience with me, I even offer that, too.

Read on to find the perfect solution to your dating question…

Frequently Asked Dating Questions

1. Matt, can I get personal advice from you?
2. Can I have a one-on-one discussion with someone on the Get the Guy team to get advice on my specific situation?
3. I’m over 60. Does your advice still apply to me?
4. What kind of woman needs dating advice from you? Isn’t this stuff obvious?
5. I feel like I’m always saying the wrong thing and messing up my chances with guys! Can you please tell me what to say – and text – to get men to approach me, ask me out, share their feelings, and commit to a relationship?
6. I’m single and my love life needs a major jump-start. Where should I begin?
7. I’m dating a guy but I want a commitment. How can I get him to take our relationship to the next level?
8. What’s your opinion on long-distance relationships? Can they work?
9. My ex and I broke up, but I still think he might be The One. Is there any hope of getting him back and, if so, how do I do it?
10. My love life isn’t working no matter what I try (and that’s not the only area in my life where I’m unhappy). Matt, can I get in-depth training from you personally?

1. Matt, can I get personal advice from you?

Due to my extremely busy schedule including live events and media appearances, I am no longer able to offer one-to-one coaching. When I did, my rate was $10,000.00 an hour. However, my incredible 5-Day Retreat experience offers intensive training in a live setting with me that costs nowhere near one hour of my private coaching fee, and promises 10 years of personal growth. There is an application process, and I hand-select a small group of women to attend. To learn more about this life-changing experience, click here.

2. Can I have a one-on-one discussion with someone on the Get the Guy team to get advice on my specific situation?

As I said in my note above, as unique as your situation may feel, I promise I offer in-depth solutions to it in (at least!) one of my coaching programs. So try a program out, and if you don’t find it has the advice you need to transform your love life, simply take me up on my 60-day, risk-free 100% money-back guarantee.

Now if you’re still interested in working with my Get the Guy team in a more intimate setting, check out my Matthew Hussey Retreat Program (see FAQ above, or click here for more information).

3. I’m over 60. Does your advice still apply to me?

Absolutely. My techniques will transform your love life no matter what your age. People think that the rules suddenly change after a certain point, but they don’t. Men still want the same things at sixty that they did when they were thirty. I’ll teach you to finally understand the male mind and communicate in the ways guys respond to like magic, and you’ll drive men even wilder this time around!

4. What kind of woman needs dating advice from you? Isn’t this stuff obvious?

Ah, I see we have a skeptic here…and yet you’re checking out my page! Not to worry, your secret is safe with me ;) Seriously, though. The women in our Get the Guy community are some of the most intelligent, beautiful, loving, kind, special women you will ever come across. In other words, they’re just like you.

Some are high-achieving “career women” who need help finding balance in order to make their love lives a priority. Others seek my advice to create a more fulfilling life outside of their pursuit of Mr. Right.

Some women still haven’t found the romantic relationship they dream of… and others have great partners but can’t seem to figure out how to love themselves.

Some women have overcome tremendous personal struggles like loss and divorce to get back into the “dating game” … and others need help finding motivation to face the fears that hold them back from the life they want.

I’m proud to say that what I teach these incredible women goes far beyond just tips, tricks or even “dating advice;” I give them the tools they need become their most “high value” selves so they can create a lasting relationship with a man who is truly worthy of them.

Oh, and we have a lot of fun around here too. I hope you’ll join us. :)

5. I feel like I’m always saying the wrong thing and messing up my chances with guys! Can you please tell me what to say – and text – to get men to approach me, ask me out, share their feelings, and commit to a relationship?

My copy-and-paste simple, done-for-you communication guide, How to Talk to Men, puts the power in your hands to get men to do absolutely anything you want them to do, just by saying simple, easy-to-use phrases that work like magic. Use these Secret Scripts in every possible situation with men – from attraction to commitment and beyond – to get the exact results you want with zero work on your part!

» Click Here to Download the Secret Scripts

6. I’m single and my love life needs a major jump-start. Where should I begin?

My foundation coaching product, Attract Any Man, teaches you the techniques to find, attract and keep the man you want. You’ll learn the secrets to understanding men, minimizing rejection, and becoming the high-value woman men want to fall in love with.

» Click Here to Learn How to Get the Guy

7. I’m dating a guy but I want a commitment. How can I get him to take our relationship to the next level?

The ultimate guide to transforming a relationship from casual to committed, Keep the Guy is my groundbreaking step-by-step training. You’ll learn the 3 secrets to lasting commitment, the communication tools that make your relationship breakup-proof, and the keys to keeping your guy uncontrollably devoted to you.

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8. What’s your opinion on long-distance relationships? Can they work?

Long-distance relationships are not inherently good or bad. But they are always challenging.

What makes it really difficult is that being away from your partner means missing some of the most important parts of intimacy – i.e. physical touch, being close, spending time in each other’s company having experiences together.

To give long-distance a good shot, you have to:

  1. Have a plan for when you will next see each other – You need a date when you know for sure you’ll be together again, and it needs to be at least once every couple of months.
  1. Both of you have to make the effort – If one person is doing all the work, they’ll become resentful. If you both aren’t committed to making it work, it WILL FAIL. Period.
  1. Be EMOTIONALLY close even if you’re not physically close – It’s important not to act distant just because there is distance between you. Share your concerns and day-to-day issues with your partner, express your feelings, introduce them to friends when you talk on Skype. Stay a part of each other’s world and be open and honest about everything.
  1. Don’t make every conversation about how much you miss each other – You can’t spend all of your relationship being miserable just because you’re apart. Stay positive and focus on things you CAN or WILL do together in the near future.

Hopefully, long-distance isn’t something you have to do forever. It’s often a temporary period couples have to go through until one person can move or has a career change. It’s important not to immediately give up on something amazing if you can find a way to hold it together until you’re close again.

To learn more about long-distance relationships and how to make a commitment last, check out my video coaching program Keep The Guy.

9. My ex and I broke up, but I still think he might be The One. Is there any hope of getting him back and, if so, how do I do it?

My completely done-for-you, 5-step program Get Him Running Back to You takes all of the guesswork out of getting your ex back. You’ll get an easy-to-follow plan including copy-and-paste scripts of exactly what to say over Facebook, text, and phone. I’ll teach you how to flip the script so your ex feels like he’s WINNING you back, not the other way around. And the best part is that the techniques I teach you will keep the spark alive!

» Click Here to Get Your Ex Back Fast

10. My love life isn’t working no matter what I try (and that’s not the only area in my life where I’m unhappy). Matt, can I get in-depth training from you personally?

The Matthew Hussey Retreat is the pinnacle of my training coaching for women who are serious about transforming their lives. Join me in paradise for five days of intensive training and get 10 years’ worth of life-changing results in your love life, career, and relationships.

» Click Here to Learn More About This Exclusive Live Training With Matthew