jQuery.validator.addMethod("inf_field_Phone1", function(value, element) { // no phone number is a good phone number (the field is optional) if (value.length == 0) { return true; } // if the phone number field is not empty, it has to follow the fixed format if(!/^33 \(0\)\d \d\d \d\d \d\d \d\d$/i.test(value)) { // ten digits starting with zero if (/^0(\d)(\d\d)(\d\d)(\d\d)(\d\d)$/.test(value)) { value = value.replace(/^0(\d)(\d\d)(\d\d)(\d\d)(\d\d)$/, "33 (0)$1 $2 $3 $4 $5"); $(element).val(value); // also update the form element return true; } } return /^33 \(0\)\d \d\d \d\d \d\d \d\d$/i.test(value); }, 'Please enter your phone number in the following format: 33 (0)1 23 45 67 89'); What Men Think | Get The Guy

What Our Parents Forgot To Tell Us About Falling In Love

*WARNING: STRONG LANGUAGE AND MAN TIED UP!*

Watch this video first, the whole way through, then check out my article below for why I think hidden within it is one of the most important lessons we can learn for our love lives.

I can’t remember a single relationship I’ve ever had which didn’t hurt at some point. The hurt that comes from an argument where things are said that are hard to take back. The hurt that comes from feeling jealous, feeling like I somehow wasn’t enough. The hurt that comes from missing someone when they go away, even for a day or two. The hurt that comes from worrying you might lose someone.[click here to continue…]

How Men Think – Secrets Behind The Male Psychology

In my years of coaching I’ve seen men muck up the most extraordinary chances with women, I’ve think what is it about the male female divide that is so mystifying for the other. Today I’d like to look at ways women misinterpret common male behaviour in order to explain how men think.

Why Men Cheat

Why do some men who are deeply in love with their girlfriends cheat on them? The female answer is “he can’t have really loved her”.

The true answer is he did, he truly loved her, he was just terrified that he was no longer an alpha male now that he had settled down, and therefore not attractive to the opposite sex.

Understanding this is the first step to understanding how men think and why.

The Psychology of the sexes

It is frequently assumed that men think more logically than women, and there is some truth in this, but it is more common for men to think in a primal way. Evolutionarily it is important for a man to have sex with as many women as possible as this increases the likelihood of producing children.

Women are the opposite evolutionarily speaking.

The best chance they have of healthy children is if the man stays with them, provides and protects.

Everything you ever need to know when asking why men think the way they do is contained in this idea.

A man’s value in the eyes of the world is closely linked with his ability to attract women and when this stops (when he enters a relationship) his self esteem drops and sometimes the woman subconsciously looses interest.

Use the psychology of men to your advantage!

How can this theory of how men think be applied to more everyday scenarios? When a man comes up to you in a bar, he is looking for sex first off.

Everything you do and say has to convey far higher value so he starts to see you as more than just sex, someone that he wants to invest time and love in.

Once you understand how men think and why you start to see why you can’t sleep with a man on the first date, because you have to bypass this base instinct.

Why do men think the way they do? Millions of years of evolution. The good news is once you understand how men think you can control it and use it to your advantage.

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10 Things You Didn’t Know About The Male Mind

If you’ve ever wanted to know what goes on inside the male mind, this is what happens:

1. The male mind isn’t afraid of commitment  – It’s their associations with it

A lot of women I meet think that guys are inherently terrified of being with one person.

It’s not true. The only reason is because they associate it with losing their freedom, having sexual excitement, being able to pursue whatever they want.

The great news is, that these feelings are entirely within a woman’s control. If you appear needy and desperate to be serious with him, he’ll be terrified of taking the leap. This is just one reason guys run from relationships (if you want to delve more into the male psyche on this issue, read my piece on the 3 Secrets That Reveal Why He Won’t Commit…).

If you make him WANT to be with you long-term and show him that life will only get more fun when he does, committing to you will only excite him more.

2. Looks aren’t enough to keep the male mind attracted

Men aren’t as shallow as women think.

Though a man might sleep with a woman for her looks, this by itself will never make him look at that girl as relationship-worthy.

3. Men are just as emotionally needy as women

Men like women want a certain amount of affection from a relationship. If they don’t feel like they’re getting it, they’ll be just as hurt as any woman would.

The difference is that men often express their affection in a more physical way than women.

4. Men are just as nervous about starting conversations as women

Believe us, men find it just as difficult to go and start conversations with people they are attracted to as women do.

You can use this information to your advantage as a woman.

If starting up conversation yourself isn’t something you feel comfortable doing at first, your job is to make it as easy as possible for him to approach you.

5. Men’s self-esteem is highly wrapped up in their sexual ability

When men feel sexually rejected, they feel like less of a man.

Even with men in relationships who feel totally loved, if they don’t feel that their woman desires them sexually as much as they desire her, it hurts their pride in a way women can’t imagine.

6. The male mind isn’t good at game-playing

Men are pretty simple.

Women sometimes give them mixed signals and think they are “playing the game” when actually the man often takes it as a sign that she’s not at all interested and simply gives up.

7. The male mind craves VARIETY

Both in your relationships, dating and the bedroom, the male mind is turned on by doing different things.

8. Men are as insecure about rejection as women

The male ego is highly wrapped up in to how he perceives his performance with the opposite sex.

This is why it can take some men a while to pluck up the courage to ask you for a date, even if you think you’ve made it obvious that you want him to ask you out.

9. The male mind appreciates things more when they are earned

This is why men are completely turned off by desperate women. They feel like anyone else could have been in their place.

What they want to feel like is that they earned their place in your life.

That they have proved themselves worthy to having the keys to becoming a part of your already amazing life.

10. The male mind can be programmed with the right language

Men love turning women on. If you want a guy to change his behaviour in a relationship, instead of saying “Honey, I would really appreciate it if you did xxx.” try this instead: “It really turns me on when guys do xxx”.

This might sound trivial, but it’s amazing how much hoovering you can get guys to do once they think it turns you on!

When you get inside the male mind in this way, you’ll never be confused about why men act the way they do again.

Are you ready to have the love life you want?  Then you MUST check out the newsletter…

How Would You Like To Discover The Exact Steps To Finding, Attracting and Keeping Your Ideal Guy?

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  • Where to find your ideal guy and the types of men YOU want
  • How to tell if a guy actually likes you
  • Ways to attract guys without risking rejection
  • The little known rule that gets a guy to notice you instantly
  • 3 Surefire Ways To Get Him To Commit
  • ...And much more, simple easy to follow advice that works!
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