I’ve noticed that when it comes to flirting, everyone has a different idea of what it is in their head. And too many people make it so complicated.
So I want to give you the 3 crucial, foolproof flirting tips that any women can use to get a guy’s attention.
If you’re out of practice, this is where to start…
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Social media has caused people to be stuck texting & not meeting people in person…so true…They have forgotten how to interact with people in the “every day”…Have noticed this even in my own children who are now 28 & 25…addicted to their phones…;)
Great advice as always! I’ve been flirting much better than before, I think ;) and was enjoying flirting quite intensively with someone for several weeks during which time we had a date. Things seemed to be going well and then he suddenly disappeared, and it really hurt. I have recovered now but could you talk about ghosting at some point? Would love to hear what you have to say about it!
L.S.,
I have an additional secret strategy,
You can combine it with all of the above and it is magical!
SMILE
Why does it have to be the girl to flirt first? I’m a guy and I would like some tips on how to flirt (first) similar as this video but for guys. It’d be great if you can share some tips. Thanks!
Thank you
Me: (I make eye contact with a handsome guy across the room)
Matthew: (He looks at me with a warm smile)
Me: (I look at Matthew again, but this time I say “Hi”… only mouthing the word without a sound. I then look at him and send him a warm smile back)
Matthew:(He looks over at me with a HUGE SMILE this time)
Me: (I start walking toward Matthew … smiling and looking into his eyes)
Matthew: (He heads toward me flirting a smile and making eye contact with me as he walks all the way across the room)
Me: (I mouth the word “Hi” as my hand just barely touches his hand and then I let out a little giggle)
Matthew: “Hi”(he grins)… “May I ask what your name is?”
Me: “Sure, my name is Betty … May I ask what your name is?”
Matthew: “Of course, my name is Matthew”
Me: “Nice to meet you, Matthew… Would you like to walk outside and talk under the starlit sky?”
Matthew: “Sure, that sounds like a great idea… I’d love too”
(We both walk outside and talk under the stars)
Ha ha ha … How did I do? I have to say… Matthew, I love your approach. You always get me laughing and smiling. I like the “Hi” mouthing flirtation… that’s a cute touch. I think I did that recently by accident (too funny).
Thanks, Matthew for your wonderful posts. Have a nice day!
I adore strategy #3. Usually on the day of the date, I don’t text the guy because we’re going to see each other any way, and I don’t want to seem too eager. However, in reality I am really looking forward to it. You’re so right, Matt. Authenticity is awesome! If I’m excited, I should express it.
Hello Matt! (Or Matt’s Bot). My name is Alexandra and I am not quite like other girls my age. I know you may hear that a lot but hear me out. I am 19 years old (20 in a week) and I have never had a boyfriend. I have only been on 3 dates in my life and all of them were not great. Besides this, I am TERRIFIED to be intimate with a man. I had my first kiss last year and I needed a little help from a couple drinks. I don’t know if I’m not ready because of how I was raised, because I haven’t met the right guy, or because I’m not comfortable in my body, but I do know I’m not ready yet which seems very prudeish. I would like to date a guy and I’ve actually asked out more guys than have asked me out (they all said no), but once I do find a guy I like, I always end up as the best friend and never the girlfriend. How can I change this?
Matthew,
This is the second video I’ve seen where you mentioned coming to Chicago.
I’m not hearing about those opportunities.
Puzzled?
Hello Matt,I have been trying to get back with my ex in RI now too. I had a amazing time and lots of fun hanging out with Brian on May 10,11,12 2010 then too. I know that I’m not Brian’s type now is there anything that I can do to make him change his mind and chase me now too. I know that he loves kissing and hanging out now. There was a instant chemistry between us too and I wanted to have a future with Brian now too. Are there any texts that I can send him to have him talk to me,ask me out etc. now?