3 Texting Secrets Men Can’t Resist (Use #3 TONIGHT)

Do you know how to get his heart racing using nothing more than a simple text message?

If not then you need to watch the video I have for you this week…

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These are literally 9 text messages you can copy from the document and send right away to become the most intriguing woman in any guy’s life.

If you have a friend you want something more with, a lover you want to commit to you, or a partner you want to reignite the spark with, these messages will help revive the situation.

Under each I explain the psychology as to why they work.

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Have an amazing time putting these into practice!

9 Texts No Man Can Resist

61 Responses to 3 Texting Secrets Men Can’t Resist (Use #3 TONIGHT)

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  1. Rhinna says:

    The guy I’ve talking to is so confusing..! I cannot even tell if he is serious or just playing because he texts back just fine but whatever he says sometimes serious sometimes kind sometimes sexual sometimes goofy! …… Helpppppp

  2. Deborah Holden says:

    Bought ur book

  3. Claire says:

    Matthew I abousley loved ur YouTube video thought u where extremely funny

  4. Maz says:

    Just got to get a guy’s number first. The few guys I know are friends. Oh wait….

  5. Kelly says:

    I just watch this video because well it is actually helpful but it always makes me giggle. You’re so silly :)

  6. Tammy says:

    Hi there to every one, the comtents existing at this web
    site are truly remarkable for people experience, well, keep up the
    nice work fellows.

  7. Suzi says:

    I agree with Anne, I have read the books, watched the videos,followed the courses….and I am fed up with being told how much us women have to do to pander to men’s primal sexual needs and egos just to get them to take us on a date or eventually love us! I have no trouble teasing guys and getting them sexually attracted to me, but I find if you don’t put out they will just go with others that aren’t high value because they get their needs met without the effort!

  8. Cheryl says:

    Matt you are amazing!!! :)

    I’ve had such fun with this I had to tell you about my process I used some of the texts on 2 of my male friends:

    Friend 1:

    Background: When we meet up it’s just him & me all the time & lately we watch F1 together but we take turns cooking for each other.

    I was going out for a night out with the girls so texeted him 2 outfit options & ask with one he thought was best, he replied “you know I’m not you gay guy friend” I said “I know ;)” He gave me his option & left it at that. A few days later were we texting I called him a princess about something & he told me “your lucky you not here right now or you’ll get tickled”

    This opened the gates a lied to our conversations getting more flirty & every now & then I’ll tell him “no we can’t talk like this it illegal don’t make me arrest you ;)”

    I even started a bit on who wins the next race prize being whoever lost pays for this movie we both want to see. He loved that idea! :)

    So that little innocent move of which outfit to ware has taken the relationship to a new level.

    Friend 2:

    Background: We meet up on & off been friends for a year, last time we got together was because my boyfriend at the time wasn’t coming home in time to go to a show with me :( (he was a Mr Drama & is out the picture) my friend showed up in a suit! The first thing he asked was “so what’s going on with you & John” strange…so a few weeks late I saw your text guide.

    I told him something I had cooked was orgasmicly good, he didn’t seem to excited by that so a week or so later I send him a pic of a new dress “new dress thoughts” reply “Hot! the cirque show you were talking about sounds good” :) YES! He has booked the tix & we all set to go see cirque I told him not to forget his suit ;)

    So thanks Matt! I really don’t want these guys in the “friend zone” & it seems to be working, obviously if I make up my mind as to who I want & things get serious I won’t play the filed like this haha

  9. R. says:

    I keep getting the error msg too.

  10. Anne says:

    Okay, I watched the video and I went to the ninetexts.com website. *sigh* Sadly, as I was reading through the text messages, I realized, I’ve used some variation of most of those text messages before. The result? Yeah, it got THEM more interested…however, I was still bored out of my mind with them and their responses. Likewise, I noticed the majority of them have a sexual undertone. Here’s the deal, men are sexual…so are women, I get it. But, I’m turned off by the idea of leading with sex anymore because I don’t think, in my experience, men learn to appreciate and respect you that way. The majority of men now-a-days are not repsectful of women, and, while I think sex is important in a relationship, I’ve been burned too many times by guys who hear anything related to sex and and take a mile. It’s kind of a huge turn off anymore.

    I don’t know what to do. I’m bored with men. I didn’t used to be, but, I am. I don’t like them anymore. I’m not a lesbian, but, I just think they are shallow, overrated, and, frankly, they are either boring or a really mean asshole. I don’t want to be better at texting or turning him on or this and that because frankly, I’ve realize there is nothing wrong with the way I have been doing it. What’s wrong is they don’t bring enough to the table for me to stay interested. I thought it was ME this whole time, but, it turns out, men are idiots! I’ve read the books, watched the videos, read the blogs, and, I’ve discovered that while us women are running around like circus animals trying to make ourselves more “impressive” so that we can get him to throw us a few crumbs of enthusiasm or a vague sign of anything that looks like a commitment, men are actually devolving and becoming more and more useless. It makes me sad because I had higher hopes for love than that, but, I guess I just see their shallowness now and it makes me feel disillusioned.

    • B says:

      You have NOT found the right one… and, you’re right… men can be assholes… so can be women ;)

      I just hope you’ll stumble on the one that will tick ALL you boxes and will make you feel hot right away.

      And, yes, screw text messages and modern digital flirt – get face to face and you’ll know in a min or two whether you want to hang around and see him again. if not, move on!

      that’s me… and I am a guy ;)

    • marina says:

      I hear you Anne!You’re right about so many things and yet know that not ALL men are idiots. Your guy is there somewhere and your confidence and positive attitude will attract him. Don’t think about the rest…no need to judge them for being different :)))

  11. Michelle says:

    Matthew, you crack me up!:) I love that you have shared this info with all us ladies.

  12. Brita says:


    Can any of you english speaking READERS please help me out with this one? Is ACQUAINTANCES a too formal word (english isn’t my 1. language, but it is his 1.) for text#1? He’s not a friend, and we’re not colleagues either.

    Would appreciate your help<3

  13. Sunny says:

    Can you use the first text, but change it to “It’s a good thing we didn’t work out, because we would be so much trouble for each other.” if YOU went needy (bad situation with illness in family++, but didn’t tell what happened) and he went cold, and you haven’t talked for a while? Or would that enhance you acting needy that time, instead of being intriguing and challenging? Want to get his attention again, without getting too focused on what happened earlier. Only had one (amazing) date with him, but it was the best out of the 5-10 different dates I’ve had this spring.

  14. Pris says:

    Hi matt.

    I tried the text with a picture (referencing a mutual joke between us) and a few days later I tried the text about food (he is a real foody type too). I didn’t receive a reply to either.

    I guess these techniques only work when both people actually like one another.

  15. Faizah says:

    It’s funny, because I was about to send my BF a text after watching your video, and guess what? now I know exactly what to send.

    Thank you Matt.. I love you!

  16. Olivia says:

    I love that video. I also would like to get that 9 texts through e-mail. But, I tried many times but the error message showed up like ‘Country code error’. How can i access that? Can somebody share or any chance to download ?

  17. Elena says:

    Thank you for sharing these amasing tips which help so many women all around the world!! (And men too- finally they feel loved in a way they want to!)

    I try ti accses 9 texts but website swows mistake!
    What should i try to get them??

    I NEED IT SO MUCH now!! :)

  18. Supakcha says:

    Hey! Matt :) It is really work. I texted to a guy with this – I just bought this, thoughts?. After that, he started to compliment me and shared me with his photos. It was really fun ! I will try another texts too.

    By the way, i love your all videos because it is logical and so value :)
    Thanks for sharing this to us. :)

    • Verona says:

      Could you post the nine texts to the forum? It seems like a lot of ppl are receiving an error message! Thanks!

  19. Alexandra says:

    I’ve tried do sign up,but every time I try this shows up:
    “there was 1 error:
    Invalid value provided:_UserCountryName0”

    What should I do?

  20. AspieCatholic Girl says:

    You should have worn sunscreen, Mathew ;)

  21. Sarah says:

    Hi Matthew & co., this shows up whenever I try to sign up for your 9 texting tips:

    “There was 1 error:
    Invalid value provided for: _UserCountryName0”

    Is there anything else I can do to take a peek at these tips?

    • Samantha says:

      Hi Sarah!

      This is Samantha from the team :) Sorry this is happening! Are you entering the e-mail you have listed in your comment?

  22. Ashley says:

    I wanted to chicken out, but I made myself send the “amazing burger” text. Why I was surprised that he texted back, I don’t know! The banter was fun and created some sexual tension, even if it did take me a minute to figure out how to respond.

    • Verona says:

      Could you post the nine texts to the forum? It seems like a lot of ppl are receiving an error message! Thanks!

    • Verona says:

      Would you post the nine texts to the forum? A lot of ppl are receiving an error message! Thanks in advance!

  23. TIA says:

    Thanks Matt, really great advice and love the txts. Funny how we forget as time goes on to continue to be playful in our communications. Started to find my txts were loosing their effectiveness & its started to feel like the guy I am seeing might be loosing interest. Unfortunately there wasn’t a txt for my situation on your list :( but I’ve applied your concept & been more playful/cheeky. Hope it still works :)

    • TIA says:

      Ummm WOW! It worked and it worked fast as well. Which is surprising as this guy previously would take a day to reply. Probably the most fun conversation we have had in a while, thank you so much Matt! Can’t wait to try out another one of your text soon xx

  24. Chandni says:

    Great texts Matt…loving the ‘You, Me, Pizza, LOTR, now’ one (and don’t worry I know lots of LOTR fans …. ahem…..;)

  25. Pauline J Postill says:

    Matt these are GOLD!!! the Hot Jacket text…worked,,, him and i had a conversation for like more them 5 minutes:)

  26. Sandi M says:

    You are friken awesome! ^_^
    Thank you so much!

  27. Lisa says:

    So funny! Put me in a great mood and what an awesome contrast to the whiney dude that keeps following me around, complaining he has no game. Love it!!

  28. Plamena says:

    wowww Matt you are sooo handsome!!! This colour shirt suits you so good!!!

  29. NR says:

    I love it when you are directive with us. It’s the best.

  30. Antoinette says:

    Hey Matthew,

    I don’t know what to reply when I get a “What’s good ?” or “What are you up to later ?” text.

  31. Jacqueline says:

    I never know what to say when I get a “hey” text or “what’s up” text. Immediate boredom…

  32. Lisa says:

    Hahahahaha used one of these this morning & plans to use a few more this week Thank you! Mathew for all the Awesome
    Work & advice!!!!!!!

  33. g says:

    NM, finally worked!

  34. g says:

    I’ve tried multiple times to access the texts but have been unsuccessful (despite 2 diff email addresses). I’m a member of both GTG and KTG and do receive other emails, unsure why this is not working. Any help is appreciated,thanks

  35. Maradoll says:

    Wish *I* were in London ;)

  36. Rachael says:

    What is a nice way of getting a guy to do what he says he is going to do? I have a guy who says he will call but something always comes up and he doesn’t call. It’s a bit frustrating when they say they will do something and then don’t. Plus when he does call I am busy and feel bad for blowing him off. I just don’t know how to phrase that in a way a guy will understand.

  37. Aggie Lau says:

    Thank you Matt for sharing this for free…I definitely will try out this tips that you given here…Going to test them out…

  38. Becky says:

    Matt the Guy I been with for 5yrs message me just what you said on the Video ..I going to try 9 texts get back with you to see Thank BP

  39. Boba says:

    Great sence of humour! :-D

  40. Ilona says:

    Thank you, Matt) Your advice makes relationships so easier and fun) xx

  41. C. McDonald says:

    Long distance relationship going on this end. Not easy. Maybe your suggestions will help. Hopeful. :)

  42. Kat says:

    the link for the 9 texts doesn’t work. when entering my name and email it says: Invalid value provided for: _UserCountryName0

  43. Veronica says:

    This is why we love you Matthew. You outline the problem and provide a solution, going to grab these texts now!

  44. Elle says:

    I really enjoyed reading these and kinda excited about trying one or two of them

  45. Lena says:

    Hm … Noticed slight change in your attitude .. Back in UK u acted in a more cute manner.. Now you are bit ” American “..” Tired of making the video” kind of:)I preferred old Matthew..

    • GEORGIA says:

      Oh common Lena, he just wants to give us the feeling of being casual when approaching texting because he knows that lots of women who are dating is holding their breath on every move they make. So his attitude is to inspire us to relax, be funny, be casual and approach things in an approachable manner that wouldn’t scare men away. It’s also for you to take it easy if thing doesn’t work with one guy out and move on to the next opportunity. Isn’t he cool?

  46. Chiara says:

    The form doesn’t work, I fill it in and it tells me that my name is invalid

  47. kish says:

    love the colour of your shirt!

    • JJ says:

      That color shirt is great on you Matthew. I love when men wear pink or salmon. The V neck is a bit feminine & metro-sexual for such a masculine hot guy like you though ;) The crew neck t-shirts I have seen on you in the past are a much hotter masculine look on you sexy.

  48. Jill says:

    I love how I know when you’re going to post on Saturday night. Why do you want my email? You already have it ;) Gotta love the winkie face

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