This is an exclusive behind-the-scenes look at my seminar in Chicago, where I got all the info from 3 women who revealed exactly how to date in the big city…
Oh, and I also reveal a really simple reason why guys aren’t approaching you, and the simple 4 words that get him to meet you.
37 Replies to “Want Men to Approach You? Use These 4 Harmless Words”
Hi, my problem about starting a conversation is my voice. I was diagnosed with essential tremors so when i am nervous my voice trembles. Ive often been asked if im cold. I need to get over the initial getting to know a guy because when im relaxed or going to gym regular u cant tell. How do i get past the nervousness. I feel like a high school girl, worying about makeup, clothes, hair, what to say or not say. Everyone says i look great for my age and when i go out im confident but the little high school girl comes out. I was married for 17 years and divorced for 13. I dont see alot of second relationships working and that concerns me. I want to put in the work but dont know how? Help..
There is definitely a difference in culture. It would have be ideal and great to also hear insight from some women of diverse cultures, not just caucasian.
I tell men unless you’re in church do not kiss women on the cheek early on because they misread the intention.
I get emails frequently and videos you post and the advice you offer via downloads are helpful and inrightful but I’m not happy to see that not one person of a different culture were represented in this video: you went to Miami and you went to Chicago and chose to only interview Caucasian women- they are not the only ones who are patronizing your business and watching/reading your material.
Hey Lilia! Whether you’re stuck in the friend zone or casually dating a guy but wanting a real commitment, you’ll get a lot out of Matt’s “Keep the Guy.” You can find out more here: https://matthewhussey.com/keep-the-guy-online/. Good luck! – Mars
I’ve been listening to you for some time now, I like a guy at work, and maybe I’m imagining things (probably the case), but often I cut him looking at me and smiling but he never approached me. Last week, we worked on something together and after that, he always says Hi but nothing else. We take the bus together, sometimes the seat beside me is empty and here he comes and looks at the seat for quite some time then he sits behind me. And one time the bus was empty and he said Oh there are so many seats ( we were actually having a small talk before getting to the bus). So, do you think he likes me? Is he shy? (Now that I wrote all this, I pretty much know the answer, he doesn’t)
Hi, my problem about starting a conversation is my voice. I was diagnosed with essential tremors so when i am nervous my voice trembles. Ive often been asked if im cold. I need to get over the initial getting to know a guy because when im relaxed or going to gym regular u cant tell. How do i get past the nervousness. I feel like a high school girl, worying about makeup, clothes, hair, what to say or not say. Everyone says i look great for my age and when i go out im confident but the little high school girl comes out. I was married for 17 years and divorced for 13. I dont see alot of second relationships working and that concerns me. I want to put in the work but dont know how? Help..
There is definitely a difference in culture. It would have be ideal and great to also hear insight from some women of diverse cultures, not just caucasian.
I tell men unless you’re in church do not kiss women on the cheek early on because they misread the intention.
When I first saw this video, I thought…
In the famous words of Joey Tribbiani of Friends – “Hey….How You Doin”
Works every time!
I get emails frequently and videos you post and the advice you offer via downloads are helpful and inrightful but I’m not happy to see that not one person of a different culture were represented in this video: you went to Miami and you went to Chicago and chose to only interview Caucasian women- they are not the only ones who are patronizing your business and watching/reading your material.
Please keep that in mind for future reference
Absolutely love the new style videos, just wish you did more in the UK Matt xx
i want to know how to make a guy fully committed to you
Hey Lilia! Whether you’re stuck in the friend zone or casually dating a guy but wanting a real commitment, you’ll get a lot out of Matt’s “Keep the Guy.” You can find out more here: https://matthewhussey.com/keep-the-guy-online/. Good luck! – Mars
I’ve watch this video several times. I didn’t get the 4 harmless words. What are they?
Hi Cordelia! The 4 harmless words are: “Hey, how’s it going?” Try them! – Mars
Please i want know this 4 words.
Hi Ciocan! The four words are: “Hey, how’s it going?” It’s that simple! xo, Mars
I’ve been listening to you for some time now, I like a guy at work, and maybe I’m imagining things (probably the case), but often I cut him looking at me and smiling but he never approached me. Last week, we worked on something together and after that, he always says Hi but nothing else. We take the bus together, sometimes the seat beside me is empty and here he comes and looks at the seat for quite some time then he sits behind me. And one time the bus was empty and he said Oh there are so many seats ( we were actually having a small talk before getting to the bus). So, do you think he likes me? Is he shy? (Now that I wrote all this, I pretty much know the answer, he doesn’t)