How do you make yourself a challenge that a guy wants to keep chasing? How do you naturally make a man value you for weeks, months, and even years?
Join me in party capital Miami where I’ll be showing 3 women (and you) the answer…
What Makes You Undervalued by Men…
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This was fabulous! Right on the money. Thank you for sharing!
Love your videos and book Matthew! Dating in my late 40’s (oh my God!) is crazy and hard. The dating pool is getting smaller and smaller! Your advice really helps a lot! This was great! Helps me to remember to keep my standards up and show my confidence!
Loved this – great message. The trick: the HOW to state your standard. More please?
LOVE this video, Matthew. Such a great reminder to hold standards, hold them in the same space we hold the question, “is he the one for me”, and hold them in ourselves, developing true confidence and happiness – and exercising it by not settling and curating a life we like by accepting what is up to our standards and gracefully letting go of what isn’t. Thank you, thank you, THANK YOU! <3 :)
Thanks for this!
I’m trying on line dating. It amazes me the expectations of some people. What kind of a person sends naked pictures to someone they don’t know? What kind of self respect is that?
I’m not lowering my standards. If I don’t respect myself how do I expect someone else to?
Someday someone will come along; until then I’m not settling.
Thanks!
Love this type of video! I want to see you in LA or SF!!
Thanks a lot for your video Matthew .. love them always interesting it really helps to understand men but also i think in a certain way between humans and how we communicate between each others so yeah keep going :)
Best wishes for you and all of you girls haha :)
Emilie from France
I like this video, keep going.
Hi Matt,
My issue is I’m with a man who I do believe loves me but is a border line narcissist.
He does try to make me his priority but it always turns out to be about him.
How do you deal with a man you love but not sure where you fit in his life?
Thank you,
Terry
“What makes you a challenge above all is your standards,” and “Confidence…that someone can’t be right for you and simultaneously fall beneath your standards.” I love this central theme that runs through this video, Matthew. It’s so hard to maintain your standards when you like someone, and I’ve given too much leeway when it comes to my standards. But you’re so right, Matthew: a man will only value you and rise to his best behavior, if you maintain your standards. And if he doesn’t value me and/or step up to my standards, he is wrong for me. I’m going to implement this in my next relationship. Thanks for the much needed reminder!
I learned a lot. I just realized how naive I am. :(
I had a recent short relationship where I really changed how I did things just to see if being more forward and sexual sooner would make a difference. I didn’t feel I lowered my standards. I actually enforced them and he stepped up when I did that. He said he wanted a relationship, not just a hookup, but I came to find out he was a liar and a sociopath, only wanting me for easy sex. I fell hard for him and still miss him BUT I have to remember the guy I fell for does not exist. It was all his lies. So as much as I miss THAT GUY, the one he pretended to be, I won’t call him again even though I get very lonely.
Ok Matthew I get it – I should stick to my standards, and look out for a guy, who I feel sexual tension and see good behavior.
But when I think back to my experiences – I never found these two topics together… the most friendly men have been without any spark, the really exciting, most interesting men in bed made me suffer all the time. How can I crack this nut? I already read two of your books and watched all your videos :(
Well said!!!
I loved your video- and I also love Miami.
However, the same goes for Newport Beach,CA, where I live!
I notice this a lot. When you fall for someone your standards automatically drop as you try to please them as a natural instinct to make them like you more, which is all wrong. Then you have the other guy that wants you, who is probably right for you, but you don’t drop your standards to please him as you don’t care as much and they try harder and harder and never give up. So everything you say is correct, the more you test them and show them that you only expect the best, they will do everything they can to get you. It’s very interesting. You just have to put it in practise for the guy that you want!!
Hi Matt – I really like the love journey – style is new & fun – content is consistent tho which I like. I agree with your teachings, we women have to communicate our standards & stick with the plan to be able to slowly shift ( the men who are disrespectful ) to raise the bar or else they just don’t get to date us. This means we have to live the standards like u say!
Donna
So what do I do if I’m dating someone and do not feel like I am there priority
Hey Matt,
Loved this video content & music. BTW who was the artist for the music during the seminar? (It’s intlstrumental, no vocals)
what a great video!! great tips Hussey…
Always bring good pointers.