Why NOW Is The Best Time In History To Date…

Is dating really that terrible in 2017?

It’s easy to believe the doomsayers, but I don’t buy it.

There’s a huge advantage to be gained for women who understand the secrets to creating real attraction today (while everyone else is swiping on Tinder).

Get ready to take back control and transform your dating life…

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  1. lauren says:

    All well and good but I feel as though most guys I’ve crossed paths with are more interested in those ‘selfie’ girls and don’t want to have a proper conversation or meet someone with the possibility of it being more than a one night stand. I honestly feel like they aren’t attracted to the girl who might have some personality or something interesting to say. Majority of the time I go out to bars or pubs on weekends you see guys flocked around scantily clad 20 year olds who would probably have the personality of a wet dish cloth and I feel like I can’t compete with these girls.

  2. Meritxell says:

    Just a little question: How to get rid of all that men we don’t want until we find Mr. Right in a kind way?
    When you realise he’s not who you are looking for, and you don’t want to hurt him. At lest not that much.
    Thank you very much.

  3. Cali B says:

    LMAO and so true! My friends frequently ask why I’m always going out on dates but don’t have any of the horror stories they do, and Matt, you’re able to put my “intuition” or “hunch” into words & humor. I’ve never used a dating site because you can’t gauge a person’s energy. On a side note- I believe that American men are no longer taught to be charming like they were in the 40’s/50’s. Most of the men that approach me are foreigners (an idea for a future post???)

    • Caro says:

      Cali B: “On a side note- I believe that American men are no longer taught to be charming like they were in the 40’s/50’s. Most of the men that approach me are foreigners” — I notice this too! Dating foreign born guys in the US is very different from American men. I almost get the impression American guys don’t know how to date or even talk to women.

  4. Sarah says:

    I want to like this video but as someone that uses dating sites it’s frustrating to feel like I’m going about thing wrong in a forum that I’ve never written been successful in. I think men are distracted by the ‘fake’ profiles you describe and the legitimate single women are then held to them in comparison. Of course a real connection may be the end goal but the initial physical attraction in fake profiles is a distraction. Going out in person isn’t a option for everyone i.e. me. With only attached friends who are out of state I would be sitting at the bar alone and the times I’ve done that men have literally said ‘what’s wrong with you for coming alone’ (match stir event 12/31/14). Plus I don’t want to drink calories and waste money in a bar looking for someone I’m interested in wondering if I should be in another bar instead – enter dating apps like match and bumble. Just saying there is a place for dating apps and people on them aren’t there because they can’t communicate effectively.

  5. Nell Simpson says:

    I love this Matthew really goes to show that if you look at a guy cheekily and let him know you are interested then you are so far ahead of everyone else in the game ..thank you…inspired !

  6. Agi says:

    You made my evening hashtag truly blessed :D Love you, Matthew

  7. B says:

    And what about men’s expectations, Matthew?
    You are undoubtely right and I agree with you, but what about the role of #IWokeUpLikeThis in men’s education about expectations and relationship goals?
    I think men need strong education as well and who is going to provide it – the #IWokeUpLikeThis trend? Yes, build value and do that in person and constantly better yourself – but you know what? Maybe the value system has changed! And monogamy isn’t the hype nowadays, thanks to pornography, striptease and television. Wouldn’t be a problem, if men in relationships wouldn’t secretly be unhappy because of that perceived loss of something “better”. Isn’t this one of the reasons why people cheat?

  8. Tiffany McKimmy says:

    Sad face. I exist and my Instagram photos are real. ;)

  9. Jen says:

    So true! Loved your comment about Instagram and looking nothing like pics. I’d say majority of the guys I’ve been out with will tell me I look better than my pictures. I asked why and one guy finally said because you take a nice photo but your personality really brings out your beauty. Not sure if this was just a good line but made my day :)

  10. JJ says:

    Oh wow, this is my absolute favorite so far! What an insight! And yes, I have noticed that men are looking kind of lost these days. I smile at a man and he gets this amazed, happy, startled look on his face. This explains it all….

  11. Leslee says:

    Then if men are craving… why are your rooms so filled with single women paying you to convince them of this? I think men have so many choices with the pick up sites, they don’t even have to work for it, they just get sex with one text.
    And you go through a lot of women too, don’t you Matthew?

    • Cathy says:

      I have met many men who want a lot more depth out of a relationship than just sex. And Matthew is certainly one of them. He has a real gift for empowering and educating women so that they can be more successful at attracting the kind of men who are looking for something more than just sex. I suggest you try his 5-day retreat. It is absolutely stupendous and definitely life-changing. I am a year-and-a-half into a relationship with a wonderful man who was looking for more than sex, who was craving a deeper connection. I can honestly say it was the knowledge and skills I learned at Matt’s five day retreat that created the opportunity for me to meet my boyfriend and grow into a wonderful, satisfying relationship with him. I know it’s hard at times to keep from getting cynical, but there truly are things we can do as women to grow in ways that will increase the likelihood of us finding and holding on to a wonderful partner.

  12. Cynthia S says:

    the 5 compliments are great Matthew! thank you! you are the best! I think the suggestions are spot on and I love your special notes on what to be aware of.

  13. Lauren says:

    Been watching your vids since 2012 and I must say this is one of my favorites ! Hilarious and honest! Thanks Matthew! :)

  14. Stacey Brown says:

    This was great and so true. And the ones on the dating sites would rather chat and have virtual sex then meet, have a real conversation and possibly have a chance to evolve into real sex. I have been told by a virtual guy it was too much effort. Then why are you bothering?!

  15. Oskar says:

    I’m a guy and I always feel it’s condradictive to go out on a date or to actively search for a partner.
    Because I hear all the time people who is in a healthy relationship say “don’t force it, just let it happen” or “We were friends and we fell in love” or even “when you know you know, don’t plan it” and that gets me thinking, How am I supposed to meet someone, or even fall for someone and make them fall for me if I’m not even supposed to try?

    Are all those people sponsored by Nike to “Just do it” or is there any truth I’m not seeing to it? #Askingforafriend

  16. Lizzy says:

    LOL! You are the best. Great encouragement!

  17. Nat says:

    Lol! Too funny but so true! Thanks for the new perspective! I don’t know how you do it but your videos keep getting better and better! :-)

  18. Edit Faris says:

    Great video. I love your explanation, it was really funny and made sense. Also would be great to know the remedy. It’s great to not to compete with Tiffany (lol) and would like to know how one finds such a man who still knows how to communicate.

  19. Emily says:

    You are brilliant…and getting better like a good red wine or Sean Connery either will do ;-)

  20. Julie MacKenzie says:

    OMG! You hit the nail on the head again! Thanks for that wonderful video Matthew! Wish I could’ve been at the last Retreat! So many of my Retreat Sisters were able to make it…Hugs! Keep the videos coming…I look forward to them every week…;) <3

  21. Ann Sofie says:

    I love the way that you are seeing the world and that you let me see it too.
    You are right – ofcourse!! we are compeeting with Tiffany :D Oh my I didn´t realize that before now.
    I laughed so much through your speach, espeacially your precentation of hashtags “Tiffany´s” use.
    Love the way you think.

  22. Sharon says:

    Thanks Matt. Love this it’s a really valid point, but guys seem to want ‘Tiffany’ and I know that means they’re not the right ones for me (I can’t even take a decent selfie!) i apply everything I’ve learned from you in day to day life (staying ready) and have so many amazing experiences but am eternally disappointed with the members of the opposite sex that I meet #stayinghopeful

  23. Karen says:

    Yes! At last someone who gets this and voices it! This is exactly how things are. Thank-you for your perspective Matthew; looking at the wider picture and for highlighting to women positive ways to deal with it. :))

  24. E says:

    ha ha Great speech! Bravo!!!

  25. idate1.com says:

    Yes, it is funny and tricky concept of using lack of competition in real life for dating, because everyone is online pushing buttons of computers and devices of dating apps, and lost skills of approaching someone in real situations. Sounds funny, sounds tricky. Improve your social skills and do not forget for dating in real life, in real world.

  26. Julie says:

    Oh Matthew, at a time when I have just spent my first 48 hours on Tinder after being single for two years, you have answered my Prayers!
    I am way better than that, and I have a standard I want in a relationship .. Which I won’t find from any tinder zombie!
    All the nice Ladies, stop wondering why we always get swiped left for the next younger, prettier, easier option, we’re better than that and it’s time to raise our game!! :D

  27. Candy says:

    You are so adorable. I miss you so much.

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