I Can Finally Tell You (BIG news)

It’s finally time. I’ve been dying to share this news with you for months now.

I can’t even begin to tell you what an amazing milestone this is for me after 10 years of working on my dream.

It’s the missing piece you’ve been waiting for, and I’m so happy to finally be able to reveal it to the world…

 ►► Make me your teammate in getting the life of your dreams… Get on my secret announcement list here → GetMattsSecret.com

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  1. rima masri says:

    just interested in the at home retreat .

  2. Brenda Jenkins says:

    If you are watching this video then you have taken the first step. I was at the May 2016 retreat in Florida. I was in Alexandra’s shoes, up on stage, singing Pokemon and telling my story. Alexandria told my story too. I use art as a way to relieve stress and fight depression.

    My time on that stage resulted in a fundamental shift in my life. The retreat was the best money I have ever spent and I did it for myself. I now have an amazing network of women around the world who are supportive and help me through the struggles life throws at all of us.

    GO!! You will be so glad you did!!

    I miss you Matthew and the amazing retreat team!!


  3. Maria says:

    Thank you so much for all of your videos, they helped, help and will help me to have a better love life.

  4. Samantha says:

    Ok I am booked to go on the retreat. Which I definitely deserve.
    Even though I will be doing the stuff there that is on the at home version. Would it beneficial to try get the at home version so I can go back later to it, and go over bits after I have been in the retreat.

  5. Carmen says:

    For those of you who are still hesitant about making a decision, allow me to share the following with you;

    I applied for the retreat because I thought I had “fever” and was going to get “aspirins”; the retreat made me realize I had “cancer”, and every day provided me with an intense and comprehensive treatment.

    It was like looking at myself in a magic mirror that allowed me to see right through the surface and discover the real emotions, mindsets, and believes that were driving my life; and of which I was not aware of.

    During and since the retreat, my life has been a constant discovery of who I am; the retreat was just the beginning of an amazing journey and a new life.

    My advise is, what do you have to lose? Knowing Matthews’ ethics, I’m pretty sure he’s backing up this product, and I’m telling you, it will be the best investment you will do for yourself; beauty from the inside out.

    Best of lucks!!!!

  6. Petra says:

    Hi Matthew!

    I am so so happy you are doing this program, because my new years resolution this year was that I will finally get the highest level I can get self-estimation and self-respect. I collect a couple a books to buy and to read about this topic. I already started to reading them. And see on the 6th of March here you come with these amazaing news. Thank you very much for you and xour team who were working on this program in the last couple of years. Love, Petra, from Hungary

  7. Sandy says:

    Fortunately, I was able to attend Mathew’s live Retreat event this past December in St. Petersburg, Florida. You can’t even imaging how wonderfully impactful and life changing his retreats are…and not just for some but for everyone. So packed with good stuff! If you can’t go, having the opportunity to “do” this retreat at home will be so worth it for you. Don’t hesitate, just do it!

  8. Marta says:

    I know Matt that your “At Home Retreat” program will be fantastic and that I want it. One question: how is it different from “Impact”- your other program which I purchased and went through? “Impact” is also not just about love life but whole live.

    • Matthew Hussey says:

      Great question Marta – IMPACT is my course that covers mastery of communication and techniques for influence in your everyday life.

      The Retreat is MUCH more comprehensive – it covers your core confidence, your inner self-worth, your relationships with others, your career and health, overcoming procrastination and self-doubt, mastering your emotions, and MUCH MORE – it’s the most comprehensive program I’ve ever created and is the pinnacle of the last 10 years of work I’ve put into self-development.

      When we release the program on Thursday make sure you click the link I’ll post into your inbox, and I’ll take you through everything you’ll learn on the At-Home Retreat so that you know exactly what to expect.

      Can’t wait for you to experience it Marta – it’s like nothing I’ve ever created before.

  9. Adriana Beauchamp says:

    This is very exciting Matthew!!!
    I can’t wait!!

  10. Aru says:

    Hi Matthew,
    You are the most emphatic speaker I know of and I want to learn that from you .. I could not but feel connected to you and almost feel your emotion. I want to learn that from you. You are brilliant.

  11. jessica says:

    Hi matthew! Im very impress by your email. We are in the same boat but we do it in the different way.it is such a huge thing you do for the woman.you bearing all the good and kind inside you.I noticed that when i saw your video.you just want to help all the people in any way,that is called unconditional love.. you give anything no limits for your give.I know some people just they cant faces their problem they need good hand to encourage ,help, listen to them! Thats why you are here in this planet to help them.you have plan or mission just you want every one feel happy and get what they want in this life.I think we should stop complaint about what happened in the past leave it and focus about now and made plan for our future,if we still thinking about what happened in the past we never could go on.there is always missing a piece in our life in any subject..until we discoverd by our instinct.and to be honest with you ! YOU attract me and all these woman by our thoughts you have amessage and plan it become areal as you said their is something in your mind it become reality! keep going we listen .take care!

  12. Rivha says:

    Hi Matt
    My parents used to fight lots of time because of not being able to convey their thoughts to each other although they are very similar human beings n really gud ppl… By with the help of one ur free pdf on how to communicate with men.. I cud communicate to him what I wanted to nd he totally Understood me.

    Due to ur help, my parents understanding of each other went to a whole new level. Thank u so much for making that so simple.

    I believe I can get myself a retreat if I get to be part of ur ‘at home retreat’. I sooooo hope I get to b one of those 477 lucky ppl. fingers crossed.. can’t wait..!!

  13. Dani says:

    My first retreat was May 2015. I’d struggled with relationships and self confidence. On the outside, I was ‘successful’ and ‘had everything going for me’ but on the inside I was drowning. I’d read books and tried to analyze what was holding me back, ‘How do I get what people see on the outside to match what I feel on the inside? How do I feel like I really know myself versus wearing a mask? How do I start appreciating and LOVING who I am? How do I break free from my negative internal dialogue and begin to truly live up to my own capability and experience joy again?’ I was stuck.

    It was after another night of feeling broken, confused and trapped when I had finally had enough and decided, frankly, ‘I don’t give a crap what it takes, but I’m not going to live like this anymore. I will try anything.’ Call it a leap of faith. Call it disgust. Call it desperation. But I knew in my bones I would do whatever it took.

    I applied for the retreat and soon had a phone interview, and signed up. The retreat was the catalyst experience that broke through the bullshit barriers, realigned my beliefs with my actions, and equipped me with the first shred of true inner self worth that I’d been struggling to find for years.

    As the months have gone on I’ve continued to grow and gain momentum. It’s been amazing! I’ve experienced tremdous life change and overall, my life has improved exponentially. I experience joy and delight not just in life, but in who I am and who I’ve become. And generally, life has just become more fun and joyful! Because of that, I’m more fun to be around, too! Ha!

    I will forever be grateful for Matt and his team. The program doesn’t ‘fix’ you. It empowers you with a starting place and equips you with knowledge and teqniques that allow you to make intentional choices and subsequently abandon old behaviors and patterns that hold you back from who you want to become.

    Not only is the content priceless but the experience and environment creates genuine and lasting relationships. One of the incredible women I met on the retreat now works for my company… she’s an incredible teammate and we’re going to accomplish amazing things together. I still keep in contact with a handful of the women I connected with and we have ‘google hangouts’ every couple of months.

    Also, I was quite impressed with the attention to detail that Matt and his entire team delivers in order to create an experience that is nothing short of magical. I have been to all types of seminars and events. Never had I experienced an event like this where I was made to feel special and sincerely loved. The parties and surprises throughout the week were always top notch and I quickly realized, ‘Wow. This is something different. They truly are doing everything within their power to ensure we get the most from this.’ It’s not enough to read a book and take notes. They know that. So they go above-and-beyond to create content and experiences that attack the underlying issues from every angle. You can tell that their goal is to guarantee success. They want every single person to leave the retreat stronger than when they arrived and they do everything they can to make that happen.

    As with anything, repetition and consistency is key. I am fortunate to be attending my third retreat this May. Mostly, because I know I can’t afford not to. I never want to give my old self any opportunity to steal my joy again and convince me I’m unworthy of accomplishing my dreams. My old self is negative and I simply don’t have time for her nonsense anymore!

    I am SO excited for Matt and his team. I’m MOST excited for, hopefully, the millions of women who will now be able to attend and experience the retreat.

    We are all beautiful and we all have a purpose. We are all worthy of all the beauty and magic that life has to offer, when you are free from our own imprisionment. I’m so EXCITED to see more women learn to connect with their true selves and I believe it’s the most important action we can take to create a ripple-effect of positive change in this world.

  14. Vicky says:

    Not sure if I’m signing up for the email list you mentioned. I hope this is it.

  15. Matthew Hussey says:

    It’s truly incredible that the comments are still building up on my secret video page at GetMattsSecret.com.

    Over 3,500 responses…I’m speechless. So many of you have been asking about the details for the ‘At Home’ Retreat I announced today. To make sure you get the most up to date details and announcements about it over the coming days, just a quick reminder one last time to sign up here: http://www.getmattssecret.com

    I’ll see you in your inbox tomorrow! :)

  16. Lal L says:

    Looking forward to it!

    • Matthew Hussey says:


      • dannii says:

        Excited very much!!! I have wanted to come on a retreat for such a long time. Initially a bit cautios and then became ill and unable to commit. You have changed my life so much just by your online programs. Thanks so much for how hard working you are and making it possible xxxx

        Dannii jumping around with my giddy knickers on ;)

  17. Carol says:

    Fantastic news, looking forward to hearing about at home retreat, can’t wait.

    Thank you Matt

    • Matthew Hussey says:

      Thanks Carol! Make sure you’ve signed up at GetMattsSecret.com so that you get the details in your inbox tomorrow. ;)

  18. E H says:

    Tuuppp im Dying to know about this retreat program since im jn Egypt and it will be very hard for me to get the visa and join you guys..
    And plz advise if there is any other way of joining a real one where u are i believe in The UK.
    Really glad to follow u..i have been following for only few weeks but i have been addicted since thrn..
    Awaiting ur reply and ur program that i believe it will be of a great help.
    Thanks alot Matt.

  19. Kaz says:

    Looking forward to hearing about your new release. A retreat wouldn’t work for me right now which is a real shame. This sounds great!

  20. Candy says:

    I’m so proud of who you are as a person, everything you’ve accomplished and all of your work. The retreat was truly life-changing for me in many ways. Thank you and thank you to your wonderful team for making this happen.

  21. Veasna says:

    Life is hard. Everyday is a working progress. I’m getting somewhere. I’m happier. I’m not that same person from last year. In 10 years I better see more than progress. I better see a life well lived.

    Matt thank you

  22. Alicia Coursey says:


  23. Lisa knorr says:

    Hi Matt!
    I listen to your videos and would love to come to a retreat but I live in Canada Saskatchewan small town lol.. I do need your help in every way guy and I life Iam trying my hardest to make sense of it all and listening to your videos just makes sense. Iam not sure how to start or go about it all!?
    Please help!!

  24. Lynette Alexander' says:

    Interested in retreat dates

    • Matthew Hussey says:

      Next one is May 31st – June 4th. For future dates, you can find them here: howtogettheguy.com/retreat :)

  25. Angela Barrett says:

    Thank you

  26. Kat says:

    Let all goddesses bless you Matthew! Your announcement has come right in time for my crisis in believing that there’s any chance for me to meet the guy. I was thinking how can I even begin to use your brilliant techniques when I still hate myself so much?! And now you are addressing this core issue, it’s like you’ve read my thoughts:) I am so grateful for your being so authentic and full of empathy and so positive! I am looking forward to continuing my journey with you to a better life and a better vision of me.

    • Matthew Hussey says:

      Thank you Kat – this sounds like perfect timing indeed. Can’t wait for you to experience the At-Home Retreat program and connect with your self-worth on a whole new level!

  27. manal says:

    hey Matt
    i’m one of the person who’s watching your videos not to get a guy . you know after i saw Alexandrea’s video, i went to my university the next week and i got to a club “the debate club” so i took a step to be the person i want to be . This club is gonna give the opportunity to speak in front of other people an to be more confident.
    i’m going step by step so i can reach my goal .

  28. Ann Everetts says:

    Hi Matthew,I suffer from a lot of social anxiety,depression and have a very low self-esteem. I have had my last two relationships with men that were mentally abusive. I can across your YouTube videos and have been watching for the last couple of months,so many of them targeted how I feel and made me have a different perspective. It wasn’t my fault these guys took advantage of me. But hopefully with your great advice I can slowly move forward to a better me. Thank you ,God Bless

  29. Steph says:

    I’m not gonna lie…I was in bad emotional shape when I went to the retreat. After a work injury, I felt beat up by life, and let down by everyone around me… and the retreat helped me face all of that and deeper.

    I left with the tools to apply to my personal, social and work life that have made me into a stronger person, better able to self-analyze myself and take chances, to try new things and go to new places without this dread in the back of my mind of something going wrong… it was a fear that I didn’t know I had, until it was gone and I finally felt free in the world … (yes, bring on the cheese). This program opened me up to my potential again, gave me fresh eyes and a new way to see everything around me (& continues to whenever I review the lessons/videos).

    For that I’m forever grateful and feel so much love for it and for everyone involved. It’s a wonderful gift of inner healing and self discovery and yes, even fun! It’s not exactly a one-stop fix for all your problems… it’s a wake up call, a giant shake up, a celebration of yourself and your capabilities. And it’s just the beginning.

    Thank you from the bottom of my heart ❤️

  30. Stefanie says:

    Hi Matthew :)

    First things first: Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
    Just 8 days with the material you and your team created helped blow so much dust away!
    You are doing amazing work.
    Thank you so much for caring about people the way that you do, it truly warms my heart.
    I secretly call this great feeling I had since the last weekend the Hussey-effect ;)

    Take care :)
    All the best!


  31. Amber Cherniss says:

    I want to share something I posted to all the beautiful amazing women I met at the Retreat.

    September 2, 2016
    I was so nervous & scared to work on me because I was OK. I thought about this Retreat for years & found excuses but this time I had enough & finally invested in me for once. Last week was amazing!!! I was able to let go of 2 people in my life who had done horrible things to me before the age of 18. Those events had such a negative impact on the relationships I chose from then on. To be truthful it did in every area of my life. I allowed those people to have such power over me. I used to think it was my fault or why me. I finally released them which felt amazing because I had tried through therapy, meditation & medication for many years with absolutely no success. Oh yes & the don’t think about it & it will just go away on its own method. I also had to forgive my sons father for taking his own life this past October. He struggled with mental illness since he was a child & I tried for many years to fix him or take away his pain like I do for everyone else in my life. I will no longer live my life this way because it is not living. My tiger is awake & I have my best friend by my side so look out Thank you to everyone for such an amazing week! My life is truly changing & I am so excited to see where it takes me. I am grateful to wake up & have every one of you beautiful ladies in my life. Love to all of you

    Still have things to work on but with a different outlook more of a different person waking up. I no longer believe my own lie that I am ok

  32. Sameera says:

    Hello matt
    I’m sameera I came to you retreat ( the same one with Alexandria) and if you remember I was the one who is afraid to talk to men, I was not very sure about the retreat but everything I did it after the retreat it’s because of your retreat, After the retreat I did two of my goals, the main one is to change my residency, the second one is to meet a guy and I did it, I’m living in Canada and I met one good guy.
    Thank you matt, marten and all the retreat team, alot of love and hugs.

  33. Laurie says:

    Hi Matt!! Congratulations on creating a program that will be more accessible to women all over the world. I was blessed enough to have attended your retreat in 2014. It was a decision I didn’t take lightly because I knew financially it would be a strain. However, I’ve also always believed that the best investment you can make is the investment you make in yourself. And I knew in my heart that after having read your book and attending 3 live events that I had to do love myself enough to do this for me. I’d never done anything like that for myself and I’m so so happy that I did. The other thing that convinced me was that I could tell from your live events and having gone up to talk to you after them that you are the real deal.

    I tell all my friends how amazing is the work that you do. And how your advice goes far beyond just love life. Matthew, you and your lovely family and entire retreat team are so welcoming and genuinely care. I experienced so much love, safety, and non-judgement in dealing with so many personal issues. And let me tell you, I used to be such a closed off person. I didn’t share anything with practically anyone, which was one of my issues!

    I grew so much from that wonderful week. And I got to release and explore emotions that I previously kept under tight lock and key. I gained so much wisdom and insight about what I wanted out of life and left armed with the tools and confidence to tackle life’s challenges. The retreat was inspiring and fun and Matthew, you truly are a great teammate. What touches me every time is how big your heart is. How passionate and authentic and genuine you are when it comes to helping people live their lives to their fullest potential. I refer to the things I learned from the retreat and notes I took often.

    I highly recommend Matt’s retreat. Preferably go live. The week will deliver more that you expected. But if you can’t go in person, I have full faith that Matt’s At Home Retreat will be be the next best thing because Matt always over delivers!!! This retreat is the pinnacle of what Matthew is truly about. The retreat’s most powerful lesson for me was the one on core confidence. Really getting what that means and having core confidence now, that is what has truly changed my life. Once I got that, really understood core confidence, I can now say that no matter what happens in life, no matter what I gain or lose, I know my own intrinsic high value. It’s like that saying at the end of the Iron Man 3 movie, which Matt has mentioned in live events: “You can take away my suits. You can blow up my house. But there is one thing you can’t take away from me. I AM Ironman.” This is the feeling you leave the retreat with!!! I am Ironman. Haha. Seriously though. Thank you, Matt! I love and respect you and the value that you give!

    • Matthew Hussey says:

      I’m speechless Laurie – I am so honoured that you put your faith in me to come on the retreat, and even more ecstatic that it over-delivered on changing your life.

      Thank you, truly.

  34. tori says:

    Oh My god, this is exactly what I was expecting, ad I am so happy. As a single mum in Norway I have bee waiting fo rthis for such a long time. Yes, at some point I was able to shed 20 lbs 15 kg, I looked great, but wasn’t able to feel confident. I need thid and I wan this and I actually assumed this was what you would tel us today. I love you (not in a creepy way) and I hope that one day I will attend one of your retreats, now hopefully I get a chance and later <i will have saved up enough to attend a retriet. I am so happy, and I feel that finally I can get where I want to be. THANK YOU!

  35. Marla says:

    Hello Matthew! I loved your video and loved my retreat experience so much more. I was a resilient young woman in my 20s and 30s. Somewhere along the way I became less resilient because of a variety of contributing factors. After losing both my parents, it all fell apart. I was struggling in so many ways but I knew I had to do something. Part of that something was the retreat and the rest was up to me. Life is pretty awesome as a result! The retreat is a necessity and pivotal in guiding ladies to begin to change their lives in so many ways. I hope you will do the retreats for a long time and that I get to go again so I can take pride in all that I’ve done and how far I’ve come…and to take it up an extra notch or two!
    Thank you!

    • Matthew Hussey says:

      Don’t worry Marla – we are always raising the bar so you’re guaranteed to get something special if you come join us again! Looking forward to it.

      Thank you so much for your kind words. I’m so happy the retreat helped free you from that pain so you could move forward and love your life again.

      • Marla says:

        Thanks Matt! I’m looking forward to it too. So, how does one go to the retreat again, would sign up through the regular channels or email the team directly? If I bring a guest or two what do they need to do to apply? Thanks!

  36. Rosane says:

    Well, Matthew, I’m not looking for the guy. I’m married but if your retreat is going to be about confidence as well, I would love to come if it’s in London.

  37. Mary Jones says:

    Hi Matthew so excited about this. Can Graduates of the Retreat sign up to the programme or is it just for newcomers? Love you xxx

    • Matthew Hussey says:

      Of course they can Mary! It’s a perfect way to have the retreat program at home anytime you need it!

  38. Nathalie Smith says:

    Yes!! I can’t wait! Even though I plan on going to it personally! :) You are a good person! Thank you for living your dream so you can bless others!

  39. Cathy Reese says:

    What are the dates for the retreat in Florida in May? I am scheduled to attend

  40. Miss Ell says:

    A man who has got the winning formula bottled it and sold it! Congrats!
    I would like to do the At home programme and work on getting to the retreat one day(saving is hard to do) as I know with the experience of being there in the moment is totally different.
    I hope to meet you one day Mr Hussey and the crew.

  41. Roslyn Lefin says:

    First off congratulations Matt. I know how scary it is putting your biggest dream out there and people not understanding the passion and love you have for that project. I’m really excited about this program of yours. I have always wanted to go on one of your retreats but I live on the other side of the world so it just wasn’t possible. I’ve never seen you as just a dating coach. The first time I saw one of your videos was in 2014. I had to take that year off to recover from a spinal injury. I couldn’t walk, dress or even bath myself at that point so my confidence was pretty much non-existent. That’s when I found one of your videos about the 3 levels of confidence it’s probably the one I’ve watched the most too. I like the way you look at things because I have a similar view as yours. I also believe living a life that you are truly proud of and that makes you really happy will make all the other aspects of your life fall into place. And although I have achieved a great deal that I am extremely proud of, the one thing I have always missed was finding true happiness. It is like my inner self won’t allow me to be happy and I think your retreat program can help me here. Looking forward to it!

  42. Amber says:

    Hi Matt!!! And the entire PHENOMENAL GTG team!!!!

    WOOOWWW!!! This is super incredible and congrats to you and your team for bringing this unbelievable opportunity to people world wide!!! You are all rock stars for change :)

    For anyone who has yet to experience the absolute MAGIC of attending Matt’s High Value Women’s retreat – who is seriously considering taking the big step to do so, either through the online program or in person…it is the best investment in yourself and your future that you will probably ever make.

    When I first heard of the retreat program in 2014, I had no clue who Matthew Hussey was, or knew anything about his Get the Guy organization. I was a single mom in my twenties, raising two children on my own, while going through the last of my chemotherapy treatments for stage III cancer and struggling to make ends meet. On the outside I seemed strong and confident, courageous for all I was going through. But on the inside I lacked core confidence. No one but me knew about my daily struggles through depression and hopelessness. I would constantly ask myself why I wasn’t enough? What could I have done to change my circumstance?

    Until one day, one of Matt’s YouTube videos serendipitously found its way onto my computer screen. (I was searching for something completely unrelated and his video popped up as a recommendation) It had something to do with the mindset of strong women, but ultimately it was his video about “How to tell if the person you’re dating is quirky or crazy” that really pulled me in.

    You see, that day my emotions were at an all time low. It was the day after I had finished round eight or nine of 12 chemotherapy treatments. My energy was gone, the idea of my future being better seemed like a distant dream. I really wanted to give up and stop going to my treatments altogether.

    But Matt’s video about quirky vs crazy made me smile, then laugh so hard my cheeks hurt. And about three hours later into his YouTube content, I discovered the retreat program. More than that, I discovered hope.

    It took me about a year to save up enough for all of the retreat expenses but I have never once regretted my decision to do so.

    Without Matt and his incredible team providing the life changing (practical) tools that they did, my life would not have drastically improved (and continue to improve!) for the better.

    Within six months of the retreat, I had finally moved away from home and into a place of my own, I started a new job working for a nonprofit that works to empower pregnant women and mothers, and began attracting high value men into my life. While I have experienced a few heart breaks since the retreat, the tools learned while there have heightened my emotional self-awareness. They showed me that those heartbreaks came with invaluable lessons – and brought me closer to a more authentic version of myself.

    The retreat has helped me heal so many interpersonal relationships, from my parents to my ex-husband to the most important relationship I will ever have… the one with myself. It really is impossible to put into words just how dramatically your life can change after attending this retreat, if you use the tools that are given to you.

    The thing is, Matt and his team truly genuinely care about everyone who makes the decision to be part of the retreat program. It’s not some money-making gimmick, The get the Guy team is there to support you through the whole process because they care deeply about your well-being and your progress, your desire to achieve a higher standard for your life.

    If you have the opportunity to be part of this program, whether it’s in person by attending a retreat, or through the online program – I promise you will not regret it if you utilize the tools that Matt and his team give you. You have the power to create an extraordinary life for yourself and that begins with extraordinary moments. Making the decision to be part of the retreat program is just one of many life changing moments that can lead to extraordinary :)

    Thank you again Matt and your ENTIRE TEAM for all you do, you are all very much appreciated!!!!

  43. Eileen B. says:

    Matthew, what makes you so different is that your message and your life’s work is coming from a true place of wanting to help people. Your success is a by-product of your true desire to make people’s lives better. You do what you say and you follow through. You give away so much for free because of your desire to help people. I’m so thrilled you are successful, you really deserve it and are a rare gem for those of us working towards that life of our dreams. I’m so happy you have found a platform for an online retreat. I am one of those who want to attend a retreat (and I will someday) but right now it is not practical. I believe in the value of what you offer and in how life changing it will be. Thank you for continuing to reach the rest of us!

  44. Deborah Hayes says:

    I would love to come on your retreat, but it’s soooo expensive….. and it doesn’t cover flights accommodation or foods, I’m your biggest fan but need to lower the price… xx

    • Matthew Hussey says:

      Hey Deborah, the good news is that the At-Home Retreat won’t require flights or accommodation, so that will definitely help on the financial side if getting to the live retreat is proving difficult right now.

      Hope you grab a spot on it so you can experience the full program.

  45. Stacie says:

    Best news ever!
    Can’t wait to get signed up
    Thank you

  46. Christina says:

    Hi Everyone: Testimonial from a Retreat Graduate May-June 2016. (shout out to Julie MacKenzie!:))

    Parallel to Matthew’s statements: My “daily grind” is, at first glance, helping people to “Get the Job”. In my experience, merely presenting job search tips / techniques usually falls short of producing desired results. Personally, merely collecting tips for relationships, dating, diet and exercise, financial management, whatever, doesn’t necessarily inspire action.

    So I decided to go to the retreat to improve and kick my A** in gear.

    I will confirm:

    The Matthew Hussey Retreat absolutely drives home his message: Success happens with action that is propelled by internal mindset. If mindset needs to be shifted the retreat is a catalyst.

    I had FUN!, while diving head first into the core. (BTW neat recent pool video / under water concept Jameson, Matthew, other behind the scenes talent I’m unaware of)

    I ventured into and explored more throughly a beautiful vibrant world underneath the surface of my life. A symbolic description – into the depths of the sea teeming with the energy of life, colourful coral, glittering fish, potentially dangerous / poisonous plants, sharks, etc.

    I suddenly realized I was way in deep – out of my element, and yes a bit uncomfortable and found it a bit hard to breathe…

    Discovered I was:

    alongside others on the same adventure, who let me just be, but were ready to share in my experience if I wanted, and allowed / gave me the privledge to listen if they wanted to share

    and with fantastic “excursion” experts to guide and support the journey.

    I recommend:

    The retreat – duh…ha ha but seriously

    Following the retreat exercises and concepts in life..some examples, Say YES!, dance like no one is watching, play full out…You just have to do this…

    (and wear a bra!, whether you are doing this at home or in person at the resort – yep – definitely wear a bra ;)

    Forever grateful,


    • Matthew Hussey says:

      Haha Thank you Christina! – hearing from my past retreat attendees has put a huge smile on my face today. So pleased the retreat gave you the kick you needed ;)

      Sounds like you are loving the journey and living on another level of confidence now!

  47. Marnee says:

    This is truly amazing. [CONGRATULATIONS, MATTHEW and team for doing this!!]

    First, from someone who was on a retreat in Aug of 2015 — Matthew Hussey and his team changed my life. That is no exaggeration, it’s just the truth. Everything is different – my relationships with family members, with myself, the clarity I have on my life’s purpose. And yes as a byproduct I got the guy. But that’s not the end, that’s just the beginning. I use the skills I learned on this one retreat every single day. I have found clarity in every aspect of my life and I am grateful every single day that I found Matthew and this Retreat. Sounds too good to be true and like a lot of bullshit platitudes, I know. But if you’ve read anything he’s done or watched even one video, you know deep down that the possibility of all of the thousands of women who gush could very well be telling the truth is high. Don’t take it from him, take it from me. And her. And her. And her. We’ve got nothing to gain from more women doing a Retreat. There are so many of us. We don’t get paid to say this. We don’t even necessarily get noticed. But when you’ve found something that works for you, you must share it and assume it’ll work for others. If you can go in person, do it. If you can’t, thank your lucky stars they’ve figured out another way.

    • Matthew Hussey says:

      Marnee, I was choked by this comment. I’m so touched by how many former retreat attendees have helped spread my message over the last 2 days since I made this announcement.

      That you feel so passionate about the retreat having been through it yourself is SO important to me, and I’m forever grateful you took the time to let me and my audience know how it affected you.

      Thank you. I hope your words encourage as many women as possible to take the leap and experience the magic of the retreat for themselves! :D

  48. Karishma says:

    Hi Matt!! Hope you’re well.Alexandria’s video was very powerful.Not only with dating but with life in general you’ve always taken counselling to a different level.I totally appreciate the way you put up things together for everyone of us.Whenever I click on a new video of yours I’m aware I’m in for something totally amazing.A big thank you to you and your team.God bless you Matt.Best wishes!!

  49. Sherry says:

    I went on the retreat in Oct 2014 and it changed my life. It changed my life not completely overnight but in 1% shifts and gave me the core lessons that I still refer back to and develop. It was an awaking. It was the best gift to myself! It will always be with me. I am better for myself and therefore others in my world. If I could go on all of them, I would.

  50. Edyta says:

    Fantastic announcement! I absolutely love your passion, it’s contagious. I am hugely astonished as this is much better than just get a guy. Thanks Matt!
    I look forward to further details.

    • Matthew Hussey says:

      Thanks Edyta, and yes, we go *way* further than just relationships in this program. It’s also for confidence, self-esteem, career, breaking your own self-defeating behaviors and building your entire social life.

      Make sure you’re signed up to the announcement list so that you get the next steps in your inbox very soon.

  51. Luky Cawarra says:

    What I love the most about your programs, Matt, is learning how to communicate. What WORDS to use with a man that they respond to. What communication strategies work the best with men in general and our man in particular.

    That was the absolute eye opener for me and you are doing it the best – maybe you are the only person sharing communication at this depth.

    I hope you’ll continue doing that, because it changed my life.

    Thank you for everything you do! <3

    • Matthew Hussey says:

      Mastering communication is one of the great passions of my life Luky. So honoured you’ve found it useful – I think language and our way of relating to others is one of the biggest definers of our lives.

  52. Elvina says:

    I will never put up with a man who don’t deserve to me and don’t appriciate me. Hope I can change my life from now on after I joined your coaching program and open my mind to have a good life to be more happy , more confidence and better more in personality. Wish I could come to your retreat and follow your incredible journey because I know if you’re amazing and great person and I would really love to meet you one day. You know everytime I watch your video I am so admire you how smart, wonderful and sensitive you are. You have an incredible ability to help people and get to their hearts whereever they luve in this world. You’re amazing Matt. Thank you for all your lovely advices you shared. ❤

  53. Alejandra says:

    This is awesome, Matt!! The retreat was a life changing experience for me: it put into light things I was avoiding and tackle them. I released fears I was not even aware of. Plus, I became part of an amazing sisterhood of high value women. I have been wanting to go again, but haven’t got the time. This program is perfect! Thank you, I love you!!

    • Matthew Hussey says:

      Awesome Alejandra! The At-Home program is perfect for letting you do the retreat over and over again at your own leisure (though of course it would be a pleasure to have you join us for another week at the Florida program!)

  54. ALINE says:

    My only wish is to be part of the retreat in person I want to be there I do better by being a part of an activity than just listening to it although I am a great listener too so I been told

    • Matthew Hussey says:

      The Live Retreat is fantastic, and I would tell anyone to do whatever they can to come and experience it in person, but the At-Home version is also as close to the real thing as you can get without coming. Both are extremely powerful – so either way you’ll get the incredibly emotionally powerful content!

  55. Amanda says:

    Congrats on this release, here’s to making a difference in the lives of even more people- hopefully myself included.

    • Matthew Hussey says:

      Absolutely Amanda – this is the best content I’ve *ever* created – nothing I’ve ever done compares to this program. It’s my life’s work so far.

  56. kat says:

    I’m looking forward to changing.


  57. Charmi says:

    Dear Matthew, OUTSTANDING work on bringing retreat to our homes! However watching this video just motivated to join you in person! How can I get in touch with your retreat team?

    • Matthew Hussey says:

      Hey Charmi,

      Just go to the “Retreat” link at the top nav bar of the site and you’ll find all the details to talk to one of our Retreat team. Can’t wait to see you there!

      • Charmi says:

        Thank you Mathew! Can’t wait just got in touch with Michael & looking forward to speaking to him soon! Can’t thank you enough for genuinely caring for every individual’s internal issues & attempting to make such a HUGE difference in people’s lives! You are truly a gifted, talented & caring person! Can’t thank you enough for all yours & your teams hard work!

  58. Mallory says:

    My first retreat was in May 2016 and I went back again in December. I was living a life where I was barely staying a float, just treading water. I reached a breaking point where I knew it was sink or swim but had no idea how to swim no matter how much I wanted to. That is where Matthew came in. The work he did with us, the knowledge and processes he took us through, were the difference between wanting to change and being able to change. Matthew cares so deeply about the people he works with. The retreat was life changing. It was the start of change, because my life is still changing and evolving in ways I could have never dreamed of. For anyone who has ever wanted to make a change but never known how to do it, trust Matthew, he will get you through it.

    • Matthew Hussey says:

      Wonderful to hear from you Mallory – and thank you truly for helping me spread this message far and wide. I know the At-Home Retreat is going to change so many lives!

  59. Klári says:

    Deasr Matthew, I lve you for your work here on youtube which I can access and on the retreat which is not possible for me.
    Thank you.

  60. Fouzia says:

    Hi Matthew,

    I just wanna tell you that your videos and your pieces of advice have always been helpful to me. one can find an answer to approximately every issue concerning the dating life ,not to mention your book “how to talk to men” that I find really extraordinary. Thank you for always being helpful. .
    The video with Alexandria brought tears to my eyes. It was very touching.Well done!!!
    Be always proud of yourself and of your achievements.

    • Matthew Hussey says:

      Thank you so much Fouzia – I work incredibly hard with my team on every single product – to know they are changing lives and helping people solve problems in their dating life is the ultimate satisfaction for me. x

  61. Darla says:

    Plans go wrong for lack of advice;
    many advisers bring success. Proverbs 15:22 (NLT)

    Thank you, Matt and your team for being one set of my “many advisers”. As you know, I attended your FL retreat about 2 years ago. Your retreat program has built new ways of thinking and controlling my emotions. Which are now positive and produce a more healthy way to live. There is not a day or a week that goes by without an opportunity for me to use what I learned that week to improve my life. I’m thrilled that you are going to be offering it through technology to more people. Congratulations! Everyone who takes it will be blessed. xoxo

    • Matthew Hussey says:

      Hey Darla, so lovely to hear from you! I love that you still check in with us from time to time, and I’m so so grateful for your continued support even well after your retreat. Having this special community is beyond my wildest dreams – so glad we get to keep spreading this message to the world. Keep shining! x

  62. Ann says:

    I attended the last retreat. It works. If your life has thrown you a curveball and you not only know it but want to make changes, this is for you. Don’t waste another moment unhappy when the alternative is joy m. In the process of transformation, you craft the life of your dreams and earn your self esteem.

  63. Holly says:

    As someone who has been on the Retreat, I have to say this video does an amazing job of describing an indescribable experience. The Retreat is truly a life changing experience. I went on the Retreat last August, and I barely recognize myself and my life because it has improved so much. This is a very powerful program. The world needs this program, and I’m so glad that it is now in a format that it can reach a whole group of people that previously would not have been able to do it.

    When you do this program, make sure you commit to see it through to the end and to participate fully with every activity. If you give this program your all I guarantee you will also experience incredible, life changing results. I’m so excited for those of you who are about to do this program! And I am so glad that I have been lucky enough to find this program and have the privilege of participating in it and in this community. This may sound corny, but I feel like being able to do this Retreat has given me a huge, unfair advantage in life over everyone who hasn’t been able to do the Retreat. And those of you who are about to do the Retreat are about to join us as some of the lucky few who have a secret arsenal of powerful, useful hacks in their back pocket for improving confidence, for increasing productivity and happiness, and for dealing with pretty much anything life chooses to throw at us.

    I’ve said this many times before, but I’ll say it again. The Retreat requires a huge investment of time, money, and effort. It is not easy. But it is worth it. The return on investment you will see from this program is huge! You will never regret what you put into this program if you fully commit to it and see it through to the end.

  64. Thirza says:

    Hi Matthew I’m so glad to hear the good news that you are making something incredible like this :D Honestly iv’e been following since day one i was 14 years old when i saw your first video i was desparate at that time and soo young still :P but now that i’m 19 years old things makes more and more sense everyday :D Thanks to you i’ve never put up with a man that dont Deserve me thanks to you i’ve never would ever lower my standards because i know i deserve much more than that And thanks to you i would never put up with any man who dont appreciate me value me and just accept me just the way i am. Thank you Matthew You Change my life And not only for me but for more people who are following you ass well <3 Thank you from the bottom of my heart that i can follow you on this incredible Journey <3 PS I always wished in my nearest dreams that i've could come to your retreat in the back off my mind i did planned the Trip from the Netherlands to Florida :P I know that sounds hilarious it is maybe :P Haha But i dont care honestly because i know you are a great person and i would really love to meet you someday it's kinda a dream from me to myself :P i'm so happy that you make this available for everyone arround the world thank you for everything just a big thank you

  65. Retreat Graduate June 2015 says:

    I went to the June 2015 Retreat in Florida. It was FANTASTIC. Matt coached exactly HOW TO be proactive & how to improve our lives & lots more besides. I’m newly motivated since the Retreat & it inspired me greatly. I would recommend you to go to the Retreat in person if at all possible (get a loan if necessary, it will be worth every penny I promise you). It will change your whole life. I went to the
    June 2015 Retreat on my own & it was my first time to go to the U.S. & I’m a quiet shy person & I really enjoyed it. If you genuinely can’t get a loan & go to the Retreat in person,then I think it the Home Retreat Program will also be just as amazing!

  66. Mariana Valente says:

    I follow MH since 2014, and I did the Retreat in 2015, and I do want to have a second dose of it. The online version will be amazing until I get enough time & money to make it again, and bring my mom (as she is learning english).

    Thanks for the BIG ADD.

  67. Lana Miller says:

    I would like info of your online retreat please . I live in South Africa

  68. Donna says:

    I have all of your programs so far. I have wanted to go to your retreat and have not been able to go. I’m really excited about this.

  69. Janice says:

    I attended Matt’s retreat 3 years ago. It still has an incredible impact on my life today and I know it will every day for the rest of my life. I can’t recommend this highly enough.

    • Matthew Hussey says:

      Thank you so much Janice – it was a pleasure to share such a life-changing experience with you. :)

  70. oresta d orlick says:

    my girlfriend who is 50000 debt wanted to go to your retreat…I will show her this

  71. Ana says:

    I am interested in the retreat. Hopefully we can make it this time.

    My biggest fear is to love and be loved and it has been for many years so I really really want to move forwar and enjoy the great love already available and that I denied to get.

  72. Simona Calustian says:

    Sign me up.
    I wanna be in, for sure!

  73. Hadas says:

    Listen Matt..you are perfect :)
    You are so right, so many people from all over the world would love to come to your retreat but they can’t. and it really is more than just getting the guy. to achieve that you have to have a “solid ground” to stand on first.
    Every time I watch your videos I’m amazed how smart and wonderful person, how funny and sensitive human being you are. Yes it’s an add , but it’s really nice to see how you go out after your dreams, to help others.
    Although it’s not the same as being physically in the retreat, it’s a really great idea for everyone.
    btw, you have an incredible ability to talk to people and get to their hearts, wherever they live in this world, so keep doing what you’re doing , cause you’re the best!

  74. Jessica says:

    I just had an epiphany – if I were to know how to excite other people and make them curious, just the way you do it, it would bring all the attention I would so love to have. Maybe I have to learn how to properly create this “huge ad” for me as a person :)

    Even though I don’t know what your announcement will be: THANKS for the opportunity to have such an epiphany.

    Thanks Matt!

  75. Dulce Liguori says:

    Hey Matt,I began whatching your videos since 15 days now and it´s amazing how your advices really work out for me and my friends.I´m very gratefull for all that and it had already changed my life.I´gratefull and anxious to know about all your big secrets not only how to get or keep the guy but to have a great life and achive my goals of loving myself and get more confident.I believe if I can do it for myself it will be a huge life change and I´ll be heplfull for my friends and family as well. Love is the only cure.I admire you and respect you and wish to get to know you in one of your retreats soon. Or On your new program on line, because I´m in Brazil and here we need you very badly!Thank you sweety. You deserve all the best in this world!Love XOXO Dulce

  76. Obsessed says:

    Excellent, so how do i sign up for the Matthew Hussey Home Retreat?

  77. Thais says:

    I have been to the summer retreat in Florida 2 years ago and can tell you all was really life changing. I got the guy and i am getting the career and life I want. It is a journey and i can assure all that after the retreat you will all feel more empored to kick off the life you want…one of the best investments and week of fun I had ever!

  78. Tamara says:

    Can’t wait for it! your videos have already impacted my life on many levels and I can only imagine how a retreat will be a major key to fundamentally go after what has always been on my heart. thanks Matt and Team for doing this!

  79. Donna says:

    Matt you absolute legend!

    I did this retreat a few years ago in San Diego and have been happy and confident in myself ever since, in a way I never was before. I know first hand what this retreat, support from his team and matts advice has to offer and it offers so much. I wouldn’t hesitate to recommend this to any one. So proud and excited for you right now!!! :) I can’t wait for it start help changing the lives of others.

  80. Camelia says:

    More people should know about you in Europe! My friends think I am following just another love guru but they have no clue how much truth you speak!
    As a person who really tried to clear her schedule many times for your retreat and failed I am so excited!!

  81. A. says:

    Thanks for pouring so much of yourself into your career. You always give a lot of value!

  82. Linda says:

    This is what I am looking for.I am looking forward to more I have tried counseling read books on confidence being happy and nothing works. I just want to be for filled

  83. Cathlyn Dar Juan says:

    Thanks Matt!!!! Your not just a love coach but a life coach you’re amazing and I thank you for all the lovely advice you shared. I’m new but I’ve learned so much just watching you on your YouTube page, if I could have an opportunity to see u and meet u in one of your retreats I would love to go again your amazing and I love u! Xo Cathlyn

  84. Sherryl says:

    It genuinely makes me so happy to see you fulfill your dream, a dream that’s 10 year old. I can truly see it in your eyes how passionate you are about this and all I can say in return is THANKYOU MATT. You did change lives and now that you’re reaching to the ones who don’t have the chance, it’s a blessing. It’s a blessing to me as well. This is going to be great. Let’s do it!

  85. Shireen says:

    Thank you Mathew so much for every thing you do to make us happy and perfect.
    I wait your videos and advice every week, I watching you from the Middle East :) :p

  86. Julie MacKenzie says:

    I went to The Retreat in May 2016…It was the best gift I ever gave myself…I met some of the most wonderful women.. & Matthew & his support staff are the best! ;) <3

  87. Maysah says:

    Sign me up!

  88. Loraine Chuckry says:

    I think you are awesome Matt and what you are offering is amazing! Thank you! I’m so excited and I can’t wait!

  89. Charlotte says:

    Sign me up ☺

  90. Nabi says:

    I am eagerly waiting for your retreat program.

  91. Evelyn says:

    Omg so proud of you!! Congratulations! I had the privilege and honor to go to the last December retreat. It changed my life in so many ways. I truly believe in you matt. You are the most inspiring being on earth Ive known so far. I truly appreciate you.

  92. Shraddha Niwendkar says:

    Watching your vids makes me feel motivated. Your voice is so soothing and the way you speak with all your heart and soul.. Its absolutely so peaceful to listen to what you say.
    Thank you so mch Matthew.. Lots of love from India

  93. Tina says:

    It is always inspiring to sit and listen to you speak. So take with you, that your honesty and willingness to help others reach their goals in life, is seen and heard in your clips. Only by realizing your dream and vision in life, you show everyone else that anything is possible when you continue to dream and work for it … all the way :)

  94. kobbs says:

    Congratulations Matthew!

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