On January 1, everyone tells themselves, “I’m going to diet, get in shape, feel more confident, meet a great guy, and learn how to have an amazing relationship.”
But then we have to actually do it… (gulp). And that’s harder than it sounds.
Don’t panic: In my first blog video of 2017, I’ll reveal the crucial, exact steps to restarting your love life this year, so that you can finally get the incredible partner you deserve…
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Love the video, Matt!!! Very inspiring, as always. xoxo
Ok, let´s do it this year :-)
Great!!! Best video and messsge – thanks!!
Hi Matthew,
As part of my New Years I am writing to those people that have made a difference in my life and you are one. Going to your retreat helped my self confidence and I am no longer scared to live alone. I no longer accept bad behavior from men that dont meet my standards. I have learned how to be a good story teller and I have learned how to ace a first date thanks to you. I can work a room like a pro now and I can flirt with almost anyone. I have made a life filled with the things I enjoy. I am 60 years old this year and I am still looking for Mr Right – but I know it is just a matter of time. I know that quality people are hard to find and I have been out on more than 100 dates this year. I am not settling again for someone that treats me badly. Thank you Matthew – you have shown me the way. Big Hugs from Vancouver
I love the videos…Keep them coming….Great advice as usual! Happy New Year Matthew! Hugs! ;) <3
Love the video. Matt you are so inspirational. Thanks for the jump start to 2017.
Less cursing please. The message will still be effective with it..
Happy New Year. X
For the first time I walked away from a guy who likes me but told me that I’m not his priority. It may be a timing issue but I considered what you would say. I heard, if I stay then I’m actually reducing the chances of him ever making me a priority because he will see that I have a low standard.
Thank you for the inspiration!
WOULD BE SO NICE IF THIS DIDN’T COST SO MUCH. $47 TO START AND THEN $69 PER MONTH FOR ALL OF THE FOLLOWUPS?? THAT FAR EXCEEDS THE SO CALLED VALUE FOR WHAT YOU SAY ITS ALL WORTH. I WISH YOU WOULD BE GENUINELY DIFFERENT FROM ALL THE OTHERS BECAUSE THERE IS A PART OF ME THAT TRULY FEELS LIKE YOU’RE ON TO SOMETHING. JUST WISHED WITH ALL MY HEART THAT i COULD AFFORD TO FIND OUT WHAT OTHERS MORE FORTUNATE WILL HAVE ACCESS TO.
Is it just me or is Matt more sexy! Happy 2017.
So here I am. I just broke off the eengagement after nearly 6 months engaged and wedding planning, 21 months since our first date.
It was an amazing adventure!
Everything wasn’t perfect but it flowed. Even our arguments lasted little more than ten minutes and I saw he valued me and my son in every way.
EXCEPT ONE.
He allowed his mom to instigate fights, actually bully me, spread rumors to family about me, generally lie and disrespect me. That showed me I was NOT his priority and time to stop – as Matt says – overinvesting.
So after I watched him give his mom the first kiss of the new year (with even his dad discouraged about it) I took it not so much as an indivually critical action as a symbolic one that said I will always come second when it really matters.
I got mad. Told him to leave. He went back home to mom quite easily.
Perhaps I’m mad at myself for missing it… Not seeing it sooner?
Ah well,
time to regroup and reboot the system!
Happy New Year Matt! ✨✨
Lovely
Great video, I really appreciate all the advice and inspiration on how to become your best self.
However, you’re being hard on both your audience and yourself! Lots of people believe that in order to succeed, you have to be hard on yourself. Researchers Brene Brown, Kirstin Neff and colleagues found that the opposite is true actually – being too hard on yourself can lead to excess stress, procastination and giving up your goal(s) altogether.
Fortunately these clever people also found a solution – self-compassion. It can make a big difference to learn how to be compansionate with yourself while trying to become the best you can be and achieving your goals.
I really recommend checking out the work of Kirstin Neff!
ps why are you still reading this, check out the work!
Great video and perspective on taking on the New Year! But don’t you think when people say ‘be yourself’ they really are just reminding someone to relax and not fret too much about trying too hard. I know when I like someone or get nervous I forget that sometimes, and being reminded not to try too hard is a good reality check! Just a thought :)
Matt!! That one deserved a fist pump!! I’m ready for 2017, Whoop!! Keep ’em coming xx