Cheating, Dating, and Getting Rid Of The Wrong Guys…

During my latest media appearances and interviews in New York City, I decided to get my cameraman and all-round creative genius Jameson to shoot some exclusive behind-the-scenes footage of the juiciest dating tips I talked about.

Hope you enjoy this peek behind the curtain…

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  1. sharon says:

    Coach Matthew, I am proud of who you are and for all the effort that you put into sharing your videos to help us make, not only dating but so many areas in our life better. I am addicted to seeing your videos and thirsty for the knowledge that you impart.
    Thank you Coach.

  2. Lisa Crawford says:

    Wow, I loved watching the video of you, your Father, and Jamison in NYC. The behind the scenes footage was wonderful to see and gave a look at the dynamic of your relationships to each other. It definitely became more apparent how you influence each other.

    There is also no doubt now why you are amazing at what you do and the wonderful advice that you provide as a dating coach. It is in the heart of what your father said about you and your brother’s, that he is not proud of what the three of you do, but proud of who you are as people! That is a beautiful statement. It also carries through in all the advice you give. The main themes of being a good person, before you can be in the company of good people, loving yourself before you can love others, and treating people with love and kindness and therefore receive the same back.

    Matthew, thank you for all that you do for women and men in the dating world.

    After two failed marriages and dating many of the wrong men, I have taken your advice and have seen it work for me.

    Counseling on my own has helped me understand myself better too.

    Loving myself and having confidence, while still being the kind caring person that I am, and seeing the red flags and actually getting rid of the wrong men sooner I know is putting me in a better position to eventually find the right man who will see me as worth it, love and treat me right, and that he can’t find better and will want to stay in a healthy relationship with me.

    Thank you again. Keep up the great work that you do everyday!

    Love, Lisa

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  4. Rawan says:

    I have been married for only two, i just found out that my husband cheated on my, yet i know deep down it wasnt serious. What should i do next, i made it clear that i know and now i feel like hes avoiding me and not even trying to work it out, i feel so bad becasue i am not sure what i should do next, please help

  5. Ugh, not worth this pain. says:

    My ex bf cheated on me while I was deployed for almost a year. I found out at work Wednesday (3 weeks after officially coming back) through MY phone account. I called the other woman and ironically we had a good talk and confirmed a lot of things. He was planning of getting married to her, while he was also pressuring me to marry him, but thank God I couldn’t do it until our relationship got better since it’s been real rough.
    Matthew, I know he’s a douchebag. With the help of family, friends, and coworkers, I was able to move out the next day and not give him an opportunity to BS me. He always make himself the victim or he makes you feel so sorry for him that I always end up taking him back. Like you said, you can see the red flags in the beginning, but since I ignored it, I felt this was my punishment. Due to my stubbornness, desperation of wanting families, insecurities, and for being weak to get out of the toxic relationship and ride out the pain, I stayed and put myself in this situation.
    Now, I’m more angry and disgusted with myself for having this feeling of pain and wanting to see him. Please help me Matthew. If I have to go through these feelings, how do I expedite of getting rid of it. I’m absolutely ready to move on, but the pain and longing is in the way. PLEASE help

  6. suffering soul says:

    Just found out this guy was cheating on me with someone from his past he lived with me but i told him to move you then wanted him to stay but he moved out we were dating 4months prior to this situation though he is making up lies about the girl and his dealings with her making her into the bad guy typical guy lies the girl is his ex but theyve really just been friends for a long time please email me for further detail i need your help

  7. cristina says:

    i never leave comments anywhere about anything but i simply can’t resist here: matthew, i LOVE your relationship with your dad so, so much. no wonder you turned out to be such a stand-up human being. the fact that he said he tries to be proud not of what you do but of who you are sent chills down my spine and brought tears to my eyes. it’s such a beautiful way to see the people we love. thank you matthew (and your dad!) and jameson for putting together such a sweet video. made my day.

  8. Nina says:

    I sometimes feel like all guys around my age (45) are either old bachelors, broken by previous relationships or don’t have space in their lifes for a relationship. After 3-4 date, it’s obvious to them that I’m dating with the purpose of finding love and even if I’m still getting to know them and I haven’t said anything they just come out and say that I want more than they can offer me. So they bow out saying I deserve better and they don’t want to waste my time. Why are they jumping to the conclusion that I’m interested in a relationship with them while I don’t even know if I want to? Is it cause I’m a single mom? So frustrating!

  9. ana karina vargas mata says:

    Hi matthew! i have deal with situations where i have been rejected throughout my teenage years and part of my twenties. Those experiences have made me very insecure and scared to interact with people. It’s been really hard for me to feel confident and change that mindset of been overlooked. I don’t consider myself unattractive or standoffish, but it´s rare i get approached by guys so that makes me feel even more insecure. And that is the problem, i never take any risk if i like someone because in my mind i’m going to be ignored yet again. Do you have any advice or tips i could use to overcome this. Thank You :)

  10. Brittany says:

    Your Dad made me cry (in a good way of course!)

  11. Sofie says:

    Hey matt!
    I am super interested in “how do i get rid of the bad guys”. I have your get the guy book, hope it is in there!
    Btw, you often talk about dating and tinder and Messages to send when we are already in a datey kind of place, but in dk we dont do the dating style,
    The Way it happened when i i Fall in love is when i meet a guy in School or something like that, and there is sometimes when the guy is comming sneeking up on me, so when i get along great with a new friend, how Can i read the signs that he is into me then?
    We haven’t started texting yet, and i have been hurt a few times so i am pretty afraid to Fall in love, there was also a time where i read to much into things, i belive i have a Good intuition i just dont Trust it know, wich i Think is also a issue for women, Can we trust our instinct and how. Thanks for your lovely advice!
    I am working on Them! :)

    • Sofie says:

      (Btw Sry for my spelling mistakes, the translation is no Good on my iphone;)

      • Sofie says:

        (And by meaning sneaking up on me i dont mean in Real life, you know, when you just have fun with someone and then suddelnly some physical contact happen and you start quietly too Think more and more about a person)

  12. Michelle says:

    Video well done!!!!

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  14. Adalis says:

    Hello. I have a problem; I think Im with the wrong guy for Mex I’m with a guy for 6yrs now and I think there’s something wrong. Work has consumed our lives and the only times he thinks of me is when he’s horny or needs me to do something everything else is like pulling teeth. Cleaning he wants a maid, kids he wants a baby sitter, super market he hated to go, clubbing he hated is vacation he fucks it up by bring work. I don’t feel like we have a relationship. It feels just like friends with benefits and he get most of the benefits while I have to fight him for everything I want. He works and comes home isn’t a drinker etc. but I just don’t think he thinks about me at all. Cuz he doesn’t!

  15. Be says:


    Unable to open it as restricted to certain countries.
    Can you please post it on other means of channel ?


    • MH Support says:

      Hi Be, we’re so sorry! Unfortunately, our video was restricted in some countries because it contains snippets of Matt’s appearances in different TV shows. We’re posting the video on Facebook – can you check to see if you can watch it there? We’re considering creating a version of this video without the TV bits so that everyone can watch. Thanks for letting us know! – Mars

  16. Joan says:

    On point I enjoy every moment of your video looking at you Matthew you such a gorgeous man keep up your good work

  17. Pat says:

    Thank you for sharing this wonderful video. You dad is cool just like you, keep up the great work!

  18. Hally says:

    Oh please elaborate on the part where u say what breaks you up in year 3 is what u knew in first week! I feel like that’s true.

  19. Ariel says:

    Matthew I started a very fearful day and I was very constipated, but listening to this video changed the direction of my day. Now I am very comfortable with myself. Thanks you made my day!

  20. Jody says:

    Omg. My heart melted with what you Dad said about being proud of who you are and not what you do. That is so sweet and such great parenting.

  21. Mary cotham says:

    Mathew as a 60 years young women. I find your guidance so spot on… I wish I would have heeded the red flags in my first marriage and moved on, instead I spent 30 years trying to make it work. I have two amazing grown children who were my get from th relationship. I would not changed the for anything. Next go around ..,which I hope there will be, I am not tuning out those red flag! Sending you a virtual hug… I am feeling very optimistic for my future guy!
    Love your Dad, btw is he single? :)

  22. Bali Wellness Retreat & Bali Yoga Travel says:

    Can’t watch the video. It says,”This video contains content from NBCUniversal_TVD, who has blocked it in your country on copyright grounds.”

  23. Rena says:

    I would love to watch this video, but it seems like the content is not available in Asia area.

    I am hoping to know more about how to get rid of the wrong guy, as I am currently suffering from this issue.

    • MH Support says:

      I hear you, Rena! We’re so bummed this video was restricted in some places. We’ve posted the video on Facebook, too, and we might create a version without the TV bits so that everyone everywhere can watch. -Mars

  24. Kristina Campos says:

    Really good video this week. Heart warming and fun. Dramatic music and all lol…..LOvED it!

  25. Sarah Webb says:

    Matthew!!!! Was this video designed for us to fall in love with you more!? Wow!! lovely video and so different from what you usually do but equally as informative and fantastic!
    Keep em coming Hussey!!!!! Xx

  26. Deb Herting says:

    # ?? What did I miss?
    I’m 41 and dating and it’s the worst thing in the world! So tired of dating and saying the same things over and over again. It feels like ground hog day or the the worlds worst job interview over and over again.
    Where are all the emotionally available men over 40 hiding? I’d love to hear more of your thoughts on dating past 40. Until then….I patientally await.

  27. Leecis Perry says:

    Love the “pack a bag”. What a great exercise that would be for a retreat!

  28. Keli says:

    Great video!! Thank you for sharing a glimpse into your life and behind the scenes. Wonderfully shot – Jameson!
    I love your videos and look forward to them each week. They always offer something uplifting and inspiring.
    The woman in the video is so right we are all very lucky to be alive in the same time as you. I personally discovered you and your work at a time in my life when I needed it the most! Thank you for all you do!

  29. Liz Taylor says:

    Tears, Tears, crying!!! I love your Dad!!!!!! I love your whole family. Man you guys are so blessed to be together in this life. And the world is blessed to experience the result of what your family has produced – wisdom, compassion, love, intrinsic value!!! Nice camera/editing work this week Jameson!! Love what you did with the black and white! Matthew, You’ve helped me in so many ways. I’ve got my guy now. We’re keeping each other and I still like watching your blog every week. ” I don’t know how to quit you” ; ) lol!!

  30. LM says:

    I enjoy watching your videos and I have put some of your advice into practice. I hope you’ll do some research on dating over 40 because I’ve found the dynamics are different. Men are definitely more “skittish,” for lack of a better word. They seem to be hurt more by cheating wives and broken marriages than women do. This leads to a different mindset for dating and potentially a long term relationship than when they were younger.

  31. Nelly Pouth says:


    My name is nelly I’m only 26 , I don’t have trouble dating, I just have trouble someone interesting enough..
    But what I can say it’s since I start watching your videos I feel like you just 1 ) helpings us woman to knowledge ourselves in the dating process.
    And 2 ) be more aware of the good or bad possible partner around us .

    Helping us to be able to see what we worth and to see the person who see it too (?) lol

    Thank you


  32. Daniella says:

    I love your videos and the messages you convey in them to us. Your advice is always on point and it’s helped me so much. Thank you ❤️

  33. Janet says:

    Thank you for sharing the “seat belt” piece from your parents, it was delightful!
    Hugs, Janet

  34. Quinn says:

    So beautiful. I fully resonate with her comment about living at the same time as you. And I loved what your Dad said about resisting being proud of what you do but being proud of who you are. Beautiful.

  35. Joanne says:

    Matthew, I continue to be moved by your spirit of wanting to help others find a loving, meaningful relationship. And.. the snippet with your dad is beyond beautiful! Pure eloquence!
    Heartfelt thanks to you and your team for producing quality work.

  36. Coral says:

    Hey Matthew,

    Finally we get to meet the live version of you, if I may say. It brings me closer to understand why you are doing what you are doing.

    I’m watching your video why waiting to board my flight. It’s inspiring! I’m seeing the beautiful effort of the team to all the firming, editing and technical hard work, together with the heart work of you and inviting your father to be with you this time!

    One day, I’m wondering, your work will go beyond the boundaries of sustaining monetary earning and maybe making it a donation base workshop, for those who might need your wisdom and cannot afford the money.

    I’m doing my work as a healer and meditation sharing person, based on donation. It’s very very surprisingly valuable, especially for me and for those in connected to.

    If there’s a will, there’s a way!

    Blessings for you and team!
    Thank you!

    With respect,

  37. Mai says:

    Shame I can’t play this video in my country (Japan) due to some copyright irelated issue :(

  38. Hazel says:

    Thats amazing matthew…… im touched!

  39. Marie says:

    Love your video. Can relate to so much of it.. had a long distance relationship for 18 months and my gut told me the first weekend we spent together there was something wrong. But i let my head fule my heart and chose to ignore it. Am a very insecure person and made the relationship very difficult.. but my instincts were right he was lying and cheating.. so kesson for me never go against your gut.. thanks matthew.

  40. Debbie says:

    Love the behind the scenes especially the time with your dad.

  41. Casey says:

    Thank you!

  42. Elke says:

    Dear Matthew,
    it is really a blessing to live at the same time as you. Thank you for this video and the time you are sharing with us in all kind of ways.
    Hope you didn’t feel stressed. Take care of yourself and your time in life.

  43. Georgia says:

    Hi, I live on the UK for some time now, and I just can’t get English guys: so moody, they change from one day to another… Does this have to do with the weather?!… I’ve never come across anything like this before, and I’ve pretty much travelled the world… Thanks a lot for your answer!

  44. Magda says:

    I cant watch it.. Im in thailand and it says that the video contains content from NBC which is blocked here :( so it wont play

  45. louiebe olympia says:

    awwwts !!! its blockec in the Philippines.

  46. Julie MacKenzie says:

    I loved that video so much…;). <3. Thanks Matthew! Hugs!

  47. semira says:

    I Loved this video

  48. Natalia says:

    Now I know why you are so good at what you’re doing, because u have a great relationship with your father. Thank u for sharing this profound part of your soul with us!

  49. *Golden_Wings* says:

    Well, yes; adding to that last part of your video: You can’t measure life by coming from a place of being materialistic, because the meaning of life is LOVE.

  50. A. says:

    Lovely! And I really like the music, esp. in the beginning.

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