7 Unusual Things To Do BEFORE A Date

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I don’t have the problem of getting dates, I have been invited , but I’m just not interested, I want a date to be meaningful, just not any guy, that’s not the point. So I spend a lot of time by my own asking myself why I have to be like this. I used to date a lot before and now I just don’t feel like any guy can surprise me. I’ve found one guy in thousand, and he doesn’t even live in this country. Looks like I’m staying home with my lovely cats.

What a great video, you guys rock…

Hi guys,
really enjoyed this weeks video and by the way I would definitely go on a pie and ice cream date.

It would be great if you made your videos accessible to more people by adding closed captions!!!

Nice tips! Actually really creative.
Thank you to both of you.

Great tips!! Always love your advice, thank you for doing what you do!!

Stephen, I’m up for pie and ice cream with you anytime! Seriously, if you’re ever in North Carolina, ring me…
I really got great ideas from you guys, especially have something fun planned a few days after the date.
Thank you both for doing what you do, for your sincerity and passion for doing this, and for the straight-forward presentation.
And, I get to look at two handsome gentleman, all while learning something new! What more could a girl ask for?
Cheers!!

Focus on the feelings and needs of the other person instead of your own. Be selfless. You will come across as a kind of god to that person. You will start building trust, admiration and affection from the very beginning.

Pie and ice cream?? 3rd date rule? Too much information stephen.

I think this is all great but someone like me who has caring responsibilities. Its hard to do all the right things as i dont always have enough time for myself.if i get to the gym once or twice a month thats good.

So if you had to scale back on these, what priorities would you give them?

That’s a lot of work but it’s self fulfilling.
During certain times of year it’s more difficult to schedule activities, especially around the holidays.

Would be nice to see this to do list in written form.

I love these videos & look forward to them every week… ;) Love all the tips…showering is very important..LOL! (preferably once a day..;) )

I have 3 kids and find it’s not easy getting a guy to want even sign up for dating me. What advice for that could you provide for single moms.

As mentioned in the video, best to be busy with ‘life’ rather than focus exclusively on the ‘date’. Make an interesting life for yourself, and live it…this will make you an interesting person. Common sense really.

I feel your suggestions get women too much up in their heads and in their masculine energy. To attract a man a woman must be in her body have feminine energy.

Sorry guys….I didn’t like this video at all….the tips are OK but the interaction of you both on the video was not good, energy wasn’t the same coming from Stephen and jokes were not successful. I look forward to this videos every Sunday and this is the first one that I really think has no quality. Also the tips….well…yeah…I got the idea on focus on yourself to feel better during the date and after that….but there are many other advices you could choose….I know you will improve the next video of this kind…BTW I think Stephen is great, it’s just this time something happened in the result of the video and you know it….Keep going.

Like this one. Down to earth. Real not fantasy Common sense as well!

I liked this video today.

At this point you are moving into life coaching which is fantastic. We almost need an entire subset of that for women who enjoy the dating advice but have taken their foot off the gas pedal. After one month of being besieged on OkCupid, I’ve decided to let it happen organically in my life and become the person I would want to date. How about a series about falling in love with yourself? And attraction, not promotion? Hugs and blessings to you both.

MH Support says:
December 12, 2017 at 1:11 pm
Shan, are you familiar with Matt’s At-Home Retreat? I think it’d be right up your alley! ;) – Mars
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Love the video fellas!!

I relate well to the do not talk up your date to many people( or anyone, for that matter) I meet this fantastic guy at a charity function thought we hit it off. I told my sister to share my contact info with him:) She thought I was mad…next day she received an email from him to do the same. My sister and I talked it up A LOT and then he flaked on me!!! What a let down….I told her I wasn’t going to share anymore information until after the 3rd date:) Listening to Stephen, I may want to keep all that to myself as well!!!! Have an amazing day fellas!!!