It’s time to say no to being undervalued forever.
One of my favorite quotes says: “If you put a small value on yourself, rest assured the world will not raise your price.”
So if you’re still hanging on that “one guy,” I need, need, need you to watch this. It may just be the biggest wake-up call you’ll ever get…
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You are absolutely correct Matthew. What great advise. Tired of waiting around for a man to realize how important I am to him. If he did not know it in 3 years, I dont know what will make him know it now. We as women have to stop appearing as though we are desperate.Thanks again.
That’s really true thank u
I really needed to hear this right now.. thanks Matthew.
This is by far thee best video you have put out. My heart and mind are at peace
Thank you
I have been dating the same man for 15 years no marriage in sight. This is great advice for me before I waste another 15 years.
First off, thank you Matthew and Team. This video is excellent! I would also reverse this message if you are the girl who isn’t showing up as your best self for an amazing man. Do him the courtesy of letting him go.
Matthew, I actually cried when I watched this video. You are so correct and I was pretty sure I needed to do this and you have only confirmed it for me! I am on a magnetic path to finding the true love I need and deserve. It’s going to be with a high quality man who will never want to let me go and will be absolutely sure of me! Thank you so much for this gift this morning. I absolutely love your videos, keep them coming please.
Agree in general, & an encouraging video to bring about some reflection. That said, I felt in this position only to realize later some of my behaviors were a big reason for a very valid uncertainty in my relationship. (Not saying blame yourself!!) While we should all get our SOs best, are we giving ours too?!? Matt brought this up albeit very briefly. I feel it’s too common we are talked up, told to have all these expectations, yet those same encouragers don’t often push for us to question ourselves.
I thought highly of myself and couldn’t see my flaws before or after we split, nobody would call me out because most society simply chalks it up to “you’re awesome the way you are! Or you should be loved the way you are!” Right?!? Its Great to love who you are! Yes! But read some books, watch some videos; there is not only room to always grow and improve, but sometimes there are detrimental habits we don’t realize we engage in until stopping and getting real deep with ourselves. That wont be the case for everyone, but my behaviors (both subtle and others toxic which no friends or family would criticize) turned out to be right under my nose since high school. I wish I’d realized that “self” needs work too instead of just following all these messages touting how I deserve a great partner who always gives their best, when in reality I didn’t deserve it! (The much improved me who is more considerate & invested does though!!! (: )
It goes both ways, and nobody who has worked on themself and is giving their best should wait around forever. Again though, are you being and giving your honest best, or are you just expecting everything from their side? Be up front and call it out if it’s not mutual, or seek couples counseling if you’ve been honest and see your efforts and commitment aren’t being matched. If you still cant move forward together then of course, its time to do it solo. I’d encourage all to reflect not only on their SO, but also on themselves. Self improvement is never a wasted effort! Also I’m not advocating blaming yourself of making excuses for your SO!!! I’m just saying to make sure you remember you are half of the relationship equation!!!
Ok go forth and good luck to all who found themselves here watching his vid!
Great video, Matt! I form friendships as well as romantic connections, though. I cut off a man who was long-distance and moved too fast. We did meet in person a couple of times, and it was great. Then he started to keep me in “limbo.” I followed your advice and told him I needed space. I do not think he would work out for me, mainly because of distance (we are in 2 different states). However, I did not like the total disconnect. I contacted him after several weeks just to say hello. We both miss each other. I want to stay connected because I value him and our friendship. Is this a bad idea? Know that I am not focused on him the way I tried to be previously. I have been dating again (locally)! I guess there’s a chance for a future relationship with this man, if we ever wind up in the same area, but I enjoy the connection even if he isn’t my forever after. I value your insight! What are your thoughts on this? Hugs!
Well well say Matt
Your constant messaging of seeing our own value has given me the courage to say goodbye to a guy who was/is ‘not sure’. This is still not an easy task and I have to tell myself everyday that my value does not decrease by his inability to see it. This video shares such an important message, thanks Matthew and team.
It’s Been almost three years since I was dumped by this guy and yet I’m still waiting for him to figure out if he wants to try again. This is so hard for me because I’m still very much in love with him and we also work together. We spend at least once a month together also. He hasn’t moved on though either so idk what to do. Sometimes I think it might be easier if he did have another girl then I would have no choice but to move on. Idk what to do
Great video and insight
One of your best videos ever!
Matt, your advice is always incredible albeit tough to handle. It’s uncanny that the advice given is exactly what I need to hear at just the right time. This is not the first time and it has always been a challenge to accept your advice.
I’ve been struggling in my most recent relationship for almost 2yrs. We recently broke up for what could be our final break up. We’ve been off and on for months now. It happens everytime some issue arises be it new or the same old conversation (or lack of). I just hope I can heed your words and not be scared to finally move on from this.
Thank you. You have been an inspiration these past years.
Hi Matthew, Thank you for this video. It was like an answer to prayer. I have watched many of your videos and even bought the program Get the Guy Back and today you spoke to my heart. He isn’t worth waiting for. I have had my life on hold waiting for him, and I’m not going to do it anymore. I am going to block his number from my phone and move on. Thank you!
MJ
Thank you Matt!
You’ve just pictured everything I went through my past “relationship”. If I could have just realized what it was all about and not be hanging on an ilusión, I would have cutt it off sooner and avoided months of suffering.
This video explains everything a woman needs to know and do!
Than you!!!
Thank you so much for this. I ended a relationship for exactly this reason almost a year ago but since then, have questioned if I did the right thing. Always wondering if I should have waited it out a little longer, if I worded our last conversation differently maybe things would be different, if I should have just tried to be friends instead of cutting off contact, etc. but this video makes it clear to me that I did the right thing. I may be watching this every day now haha. Just what I needed and so helpful-thank you!
Thank you I needed to hear this that listened to it twice.
THANK YOU!!!!
Spot on, and, I just broke it off with a man who was conflicted and couldn’t get over his past and didn’t know if he could commit. And within a few weeks, (weeks!)I met a MUCH BETTER man who thinks I’m amazing and I’m looking forward to exploring this new relationship.
But it’s hard to walk away, because we feel that
some attention, love, companionship, etc. is better than being alone.
And that’s the lie we tell ourselves.
Great video, Matt!