It’s time to say no to being undervalued forever.
One of my favorite quotes says: “If you put a small value on yourself, rest assured the world will not raise your price.”
So if you’re still hanging on that “one guy,” I need, need, need you to watch this. It may just be the biggest wake-up call you’ll ever get…
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Hey…your videos tend to collide so much with my life that you seem to be god sent . Thank you so much for making it easier and logical to take the difficult step of moving away from the “unsure guy” in my life, your video gave me that courage to take the step.I so wish to be a part of your team now and help the women value themselves. I love what you’re doing for us.
Lots of love and hugs to you
I’ve been following you for a couple of years and this is the video that has compelled me to comment. Wow! It couldn’t have been better timed. After ending a long term (20yr) relationship/marriage it finally felt like things were starting to move in the right direction with someone who has been in my life for three years but with whom I have only been ‘involved’ with for the last 15 month’s. There is no doubt that we have always liked each other but he often goes ‘quiet’ on me. My gut instinct is that it’s because I am a Mum, but I also think he needs to accept that meeting women in their forties means that we come with a past. Your video just reinforces that the problem is him, not me and it’s time for me to stoping waiting for him and move on. Thank you Matt x
I am seriously going to watch this video every day until I hear your voice in my subconscious. I have to let go of ‘this guy’… he’s been hanging around, on the sidelines for nearly 3 years- and I’ve let him because I thought having him 25% of the time was better than none.
This video couldn’t have come at a better time. I think one problem is that we (women) HOPE he will one day say: Yes, I’m ready you are the ONE. But while we are waiting we are destroying ourselves. In order to stop me from contacting him again I’m watching this video every morning and every evening. it has helped me stop all commnication with Mr I don’t kmow what I want. Thank you for the video :)
What you showed and explained about the power of saying no is actually very relevant in terms of what women are facing nowadays. It is indeed a common problem. I learned it the hard way even before I got to know about you. Yes I did too waste some time there but in the end I took a stand for myself and completely cut all connections with that guy.Had I known about you then life would have been a lot easier and hopeful. Thank you Matthew!!!
Thank you so much Matthew. I’ve been hung up on a guy for the past year and a half and its emotional hell. This was something I desperately needed to hear. Letting go of a relationship you’ve given everything to and you want it to work out is painful. This video is a course correction for me. I listen to you speak..and a woman like me with low self-esteem… I believe that I deserve better.
Dear Matthew,
I loved this video. Relationships are hard and you said everything right, sow clear and logical that in the moment when we do stupid thing in the name of “love” I wish i had your brain :) For me the key sentence was there is someone waiting who will be sure of you. Many time we forget that despite our disadvantages we have many qualities that we should guard for us and person who are sure in us. In the end I quote you “We should be giving more to try to be are beast not to be enough”.
Thank you and your team for this video.
Thanks so much. we women often seem to forget about ourselves
Thanks a lot Matthew.you doing a great job,you really helping.lots of luv
I have a problem, but he’s my husband, we have almost a year separated and he just doesn’t wanna be with me. I tried everything from ignoring to pleading and ignoring works until I screw up, you see I have OCD and it’s hard to not get obsessed, so I need help I need or to get over this guy or get him back. I would like to get over him better, help me please!!
Just leave him! As simple as that. Sometimes women like to run after the the man that they like but the bad thing is, they don’t realize that this one guy doesn’t even care on how they feel. It’s just a waste of time. Women should learn how to value themselves because it’s wonderful to spend time with someone who cares about you and is happy when you are happy.
Hi Matthew. I’m really paranoid right now for this one and I think I’ll scare my boyfriend away. I think I’m pregnant but don’t know how to go about it because I don’t want him thinking I’m forcing him to stay with me or anything like that but I want him to know so there is that support for each other. Any advice?
There is a question I would like to ask regarding society issues in dating. But I don’t think we get answered here. Where else can we ask?
This guy is overly affectionate and he showed me pictures of his self before we even went out his privates and I didn’t appreciate that how do you get away from this I feel like he’s a pervert
Beautiful, touching, inspiring!! Thanks so much for this Matthew! Bravo!
Thiis is so me and thanks for this video
I really needed this today. This video really hit home for me and how I’m feeling. It’s just so hard to walk away from someone when you have feelings for them that you haven’t felt in sooo long for anyone else. Just sucks.
Thank you for this. Thank you so much.
I wish I would have watched this when it was posted. Or followed my intuition a long time ago.
I have seen some of your material shared on social media but never really followed you or your posts.
I’ve been in a relationship with a guy for nearly four years. 8 months out of this relationship in the first year or so, we had broken up due to his lack commitment which fed my insecurities and exarcerbated my trust issues. It was tough but I did start to move on. I saw him at events where we had common friends, and there was still a lot of attraction there. We ended up getting back together and had a great relationship for a few months before we moved in together. I should have seen it coming when he had cold feet about moving in. Sure I had some crazy expectations from him (like co-signing a loan for me) that began disrupting our relationship. So then he wasn’t sure. I still moved in, and things did get better and we had another wonderful year together. We had ups and downs but were for the most part happy, but during occasional moments, I felt like he wasn’t giving me everything. There were a couple of big fights about that and we almost broke up but we always seemed to bounce back. I know he loves me, just not as much as I loved him. We were kicked out of the apartment in which he’s lived for 10 years, he won’t tell me every detail except there was a misunderstanding. I feel he’s hiding something. But basically our things had to be put into storage because we didn’t have time to find a new place. He told me two days before that we had to move out because his landlord had rented the place to other people. It was one of the most stressful weeks of my life to have one day to pack everything. And the fact that he sat in that for two days without telling me. Yet he was so sweet and apologetic about that whole thing I stood by his side and took the initiative of find a new place. When we did he got cold feet again and left me, to come back the next day asking for time and space to figure out what he wants. It was hard and tried to give that to him. A week or so later we decided to wait to find a place and work things out. See a therapist individually. It helped a lot and things started to get better until he told me again he wasn’t sure he really loved me. This took a toll on me. Though we talked things through I just couldn’t trust him and should have walked away then but he came around telling me he loved me, he wanted to work things out. I felt things were fine again until Wednesday- again my intuition. Tuesday night we were supposed to get ready to go camping this weekend. After him not being able to find our camping gear he disappeared on me. Ghosted me. I was dead worried, so I asked his parents who told me that he went traveling for a long weekend. Basically the boy picked up and left (boy because a real man doesn’t do this crap). A day after he said he didn’t leave he just got overwhelmed had a meltdown and needed to be alone. So here we are… I told him it was over and I still have moments of weakness where I have called him to understand what the hell happened. I can’t go back him this time and I’m just going to continue to watch this video every time I feel weak. Sorry for my long post/story. Thank you. I’ll try to go see you July 31st!
I am Polyamorous, which means I don’t necessarily want only one partner or need my partner to have only me as a partner. But I do want deeply committed life-long relationships with my partners, similar to being married. Can your dating and relationship advice still apply to my situation? I’m finding it hard to find men who meet my standards of what I want in a relationship but after watching many of your videos I am determined not to settle for anything less than what I really want and deserve.