I know you have an excuse that’s stopping you from getting what you want.
I know because for the last 7 years I’ve had women just like you coming to me with all manner of excuses for why they’ve not gotten their guy.
Maybe it’s your age, how you look, lack of time…
Whatever it is that’s holding you back, it needs to be gotten over, and I want to show you exactly how to do that…
What’s your excuse?
-Is it true? Are you using it too much? Have you decided it’s going to make you weaker or stronger? (as you can choose either path)
Write it down, analyse it, and realise you have the power to turn it into something that can actually be a gift.
Thumbs up for the 2007 Matt Hussey poem! It has awesome insight- I’m too…
HAHA great poem!
Matthew! You’ve changed my way of thinking completely! I went to 2 of your seminars (both in NY this year) and now I’m all about knowing my self worth and about being proactive. My situation is a little more complicated bc I am a single mom going through a divorce and I really don’t get the chance to go out. This month my son has been in Kentucky with his dad and I took this opportunity to put myself out there. For example, this Friday I went out and spotted this extremely good looking guy sitting with a friend that kept on coming and going. So I went to get a drink by him and when I was about to walk away I stopped and said “you’re way too good looking to be sitting by yourself” and that grabbed his attention and he asked me to sit and we had a really good conversation. Then to spice things up I went and told him “ok I think I should go back with my friends, your arms are killing me” (you could tell this guy likes to work out haha) and as I got up he made sure I sat right back down hahaha it was so much fun to be flirtatious yet keep things classy. Both things I learned from you! Haha I’m trying to make sure all of my friends see dating the same way, it’s not about finding something serious as soon as possible but about meeting people and having a good time. Thanks mr. Hussey!
So what do we do when we’re in a tiny town? Travel, go on holidays? please advice
I liked the poem-it was cute, funny and bang on. You are very passionate – keep up the good work of inspiring women around the world. I love the bloopers too -it shows that you’re human :). Cheers, Maria
Matthew ~
You are a dreamy, lovely, handsome, intelligent, oh so cute, man! Thank you for ALL the wisdom, knowledge, and advice you give! YOU are THE Best!!!
:O)
Sweet kitty whiskers Matt! You never cease to amaze me and while for the most part I consider myself doing so well between doing your retreat and following everything else you do AND a few other inspirational people in my life, I ALWAYS appreciate these small words of wisdom you put out as a reminder because no matter how good I might be, I sometimes still have my “off” days. Today is one of them. YOUR POEM WAS SO MOVING btw! I loved how you read it too. It gave me goosie bumps! It had a powerful tone and everything you said is true! I still think I could try harder too in my life and when I hear your poem, it reminds me I need to kick my own ass back into gear. Because of you coming into my life in more ways than one, I have created so many moments and shifts that I never would have, but I believe in always striving for more. Lately, I have felt as if I’ve lacked in that a bit and I can’t make more excuses for that, I know and I won’t. I just need to take a step back, re-evaluate my WHY and then proceed. PLEASE keep being YOU, you amazing soul and thank you! for all you put out there in the world. Your energy is contagious and I am so grateful! AND P.S. the ice bucket challenge…I agree, I wish people donated more, it’s not about the ICE however, I find it mildly entertaining watching Jameson creeping up on you with that HUGE bucket as if you didn’t know it was gona happen ;-) You two must have unstoppable laughs during these videos. I love it! Bless you! xo
You’re hilarious, Matthew! I love reading your encouraging emails & watching the videos. I love doing the Love Life Workout (It’s the only work out I don’t mind doing, ha ha)… It feels good to be working a “program” rather than to just be flailing about making the same mistakes over & over again! Thanks!
Another great video:) Is it considered an excuse when your mother routinely tells you that there might be nice men to meet at a church, but you refuse to go to a church JUST to meet men? To me, it’s false advertisement, especially if do not even belong to a church, but maybe it’s just an excuse…. Any thoughts?!
You’re being cheeky, but i really needed this kick in the ass. I’m not mad about the facial hair either.
It’s not the cup of ice challenge ;)
This makes me think of the old Nike slogan, Just do it!! No more excuses :)
Matt
Really enjoyed the poem, write more. Enjoy the vlog/blog and hope you current retreat goes well. Well done for being a good sport and doing the ice bucket challenge.
So true – learn from everything – that in itself is a challenge.
Judging by the organisation of your notes on your desk, it appears that you are quite and organised worker – creative and organised and couldn’t see any redacted words / scribbles on your notes from afar – and look forward to hearing your thoughts via the blog in the future
Matthew are you stalking me? because you seem to put out a video about something i’m thinking about. haha This is great, loved the poem it really drives your point home.
i loved the Poem , matt you’re amaizing <3
Great topic! Excuses are all over the place and changing that make a huge difference in people´s lives:) Great great poem love it
Hi Matt
I remember seeing you earlier this year & asking you to recite that poem – you found it – yay!!
You forgot to nominate in your ice bucket challenge so you need to do it again!
I also nominate Steve, Raj and Jamison!!
why are you bloking a door? :) im trying…i will always keep trying! :) make time to it! :) *kiss*
Right on!
LOVE the peom as well the.insights you gave about obstacles building a muscle – that was truly awesome and definately help put our ‘obstacles’ into the right perspective.
Love the ending too – that was fun! :-)
Hi Steve,
Need some advice from a sensible guy. In essence, I am messaging a guy who I knew of briefly 15 years ago. We are messaging over facebook. He keeps going to (I think) ask me out, and has done in a roundabout way, but nothing definite. What should I do? Carry on because it is starting to get boring, or do I ask him out? Please tell me how should I play it.
Essie