“I know a guy who acts really charming and friendly, but does he like me?”
It’s annoying, right? Especially if the guy is naturally charismatic. How do you know if he has eyes for you, or if he’s just like that with every woman he meets?
You need to be sure when it’s ok to flirt and test the waters.
In this week’s blog video then, I’m going to show you the 7 obvious signs a guy REALLY likes you. It’s easy to miss these classic behaviors that show his interest, but trust me: Guys are much more predictable than you would think…
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I’m sorry if I’m being naive, but what is a boner?? I guess it’s an American expression but I’m English and I haven’t heard of it! Can someone tell me please . . .
Lucy, its an erection.
Erect penis
American slang term for an erection.
I just got the “terrified of commitment/feeling too much” for me email after just 2 dates (granted I’ve known the guy for 20 years plus)
I really hope my reply was the right one…I replied that I respect him. I thanked him for a great date that was relaxing and fun, then I said I want him to be happy, and he should follow that need. I enjoy being with him, and I’ll be happy to spend more time with him when he gets back to me, if I’m still available.
My gut really was he got scared. it’s kind of nice to know I was fun enough to terrify a man after just two dates.
oh wow..i got that pic with the huge smile and the great suit and he was with his newly engaged son
Ok Mathew how about those of us who are already married? I used your techniques to get the guy and now I’m married but the married life seems to require using new techniques to keep the marriage going strong and the the attraction alive. So can you please tell us about the signs he still likes you after marriage? And what complements should you use to keep the attraction alive?
Show him respect in the way he feels respected. Believe me it works!
Hi Matthew!
I’m not sure if you read these comments but thought I could just put it out there in the hopes you’ll answer or maybe other readers could shed a light on it. I’ve been dating this guy for a little over a year now and he got a new golden retriever a few months ago and asked me to join him to the park. At other times, I would be at the front seat cradling the dog while we headed to the park. This time he said that I would have to sit in the back seat while his dog is at the front because the back would get dirty if the dog sat in back. I was turned off by this so I turned down his offer to go. Is this something I should be understanding about? Any thoughts on this would be really helpful.
Hi D, I’d encourage you to inquire a bit more about why his dog would get the back seat dirty. Perhaps your guy hadn’t washed his dog and didn’t want any of those bad odors on you. If that were the case then I would see it as a sign of respect for you. After a year of dating him at least give him an opportunity to explain and you owe it to yourself to be honest about your feelings with him about that situation…either you both will have a laugh at any misunderstandings and grow deeper in your connection or it would be a sign to move on.
Don’t be so easily offended. Guys love their cars and don’t want extrawork.
Remember guys bond through activities girls bond through language.
Hi Matthew
About a month ago I was on jury duty for 2 1/2 weeks and to be honest I fell for the District Attorney. We would make serious eye contact in and out of court. Now I know that him being a lawyer that’s his job, to win over the jurors, but out of the courtroom he would walk by and smile or a few times we got on the same elevator and he would always stand next to me. After the trial ended I waited for him outside the courthouse and we finally were able to talk and it was going very well. We walked to his van and it was filled with boxes of paperwork! He started to load his stuff and then he says “I don’t want to keep you” twice! Which blew me away cause I took as he didn’t want to talk anymore and now I have to go. But yet we were getting on so well…was he testing me to see if I was still interested after seeing his van or did he just play me that whole entire time? So I got nervous and ended the conversation and walked off! I sat in my car dazed and confused hoping he would come walking up and say he didn’t want me to go! Til now I still think of him and how I would have reacted differently and I things I should’ve said. And I wish I could see him to talk to him again. Do I just let it go and forget about him?
Hi Matthew,
I’ve been watching your videos and reading the advise you give women in regards to men and relationships.
I believe all the information and advise you give is fantastic, I send a lot of your links to girlfriends and it has helped all of them.
However, I am curious, have you any videos or information you are able to give men?
I have a lot of male friends who come to me for advise, I guess it’s because I tell them from a females point of view without sugar coating it, however it would be fantastic to be able to send them a link.
P.S – You need to come and conduct a few workshops over here in Australia. ;-)
fabulsi Matthew liked hints at this… Given up myself 53 now but told my sixteen year daughter about your fb page as I never got things right have been single for 15 years the guy always dumps me for younger foreign girls
Awwww Matt, just the fact that you crack up after the “boner” sentence puts you up in the masculine yet munchable category. Too bad there’s an ocean inbetween us (I’m in Montreal) ;) But anyway thank you for your videos. They are, in a way, comforting. But I wonder what if a woman has all of those traits you talk in the “Dream Woman” post and many more, and is confident and everything you would like us to embrace (I do have shortcomings and challenges, don’t worry I’m a a normal human being) but still can’t get interesting guys to make the step ? I know high-value men are as rare as high-value woman but still, there has to be something I haven’t figured out yet. And I’m sure it’s not only the Quebec Culture that is at fault here ;)
I have a question matt.. o met this guy who just got divorce and still recovering from it (plus.. he’s a gemini ahaha) and we got along, texting every day, most of the time he starts conversation, all light and fun, some flirt.. he talks about his life, etc. keeps saying we should go out sometime but never picks a date. So i asked him why he was avoinding that and he told me he does
Not know to explain, looks a bit depressed. He said was not me, that is his fault and his moment (pf course it is!). So i told him i was getting close to him but i understood he was not ready and we could be friend but i might need to step back for a while. He told me he appreciates my understending, he thinks a realtionship starts with a great friendship and i was such a nice nice person, that anyone would be happy to be with me. He also told me he needs do be quite for a while but he didnt want to loose my friendship, at minimum. After that i tried to keep things light but he was kind of cold. So i havent send any text since them. Question: is it really possible a guy be a mess after a divorce, and even if he starting to like someone again he avoids imtimacy because he is not ready? If a guy tells ge wants to keep the friendship with you but he as flirting and showing more than that, how to react? What is my best move from now? Tks, michele
Hey Matt,
I have this guy in my life I don’t talk to him much but I really really really like him and he thinks of me as a casual friend. I want to start a conversation with him first and then I want him to want me the way I want him. It would be really kind of you, if you help me with it. He is kind of an introvert and loves to play football, he sings and plays a guitar, he is not in my school he is my tution mate.
Thanks
I had a relationship with a guy for two months and it was the best time of my life we had a great time together and then all of a sudden he texted he got tired of i don’t even know what and i asked why and he was like it’s not your fault you’re werry nice but i just don’t want a sirius relationship with you. And that hit me hard cause i really tought i ment something more to him. (The problem is I fell in love with him.) He then said we can meet and talk about the brake up. But every time i asked when does he have time he said he will let me know and then he didn’t. So i’m still wondering, after a week, what went wrong and i need help at least getting him out with me for one last time. What should I do?