Loneliness. I’ve felt it too.
But I’ve realized over the years that there are ways to break free of this and feel empowered and connected again.
If you’re not sure where to turn right now, make sure you watch this message…
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I’m glad I watched this video! Obviously loneliness has led me into depression. Thanks Matthew!
Thank you for your advice, support & this video!
Lonely Lisa
Hello Matthew, firstly i would like to thank you for doing a video on such an important topic ,this time you have taken up a topic which matters a lot and mostly women in some or the other way….me myself is a victim too….i watch all your videos even though sometimes the topic does not fit me in still I watch because indirectly I feel less lonely watching your videos because inside I feel their is a man who understands women well and has the same outlook towards life as I have so basically to get company, to feel less lonely I watch you hear you and be friend with you always through your videos…..it keeps me in company….tysm…
Thank you for this message and for being my long distance friend.
Dear Matthew,
A year ago i met a guy and we went out 3 times he was so involve and wanted me so bad that time i was not sure, i pushed him away. We accidentally met on line again we communicated for a 9 months by email and text he was very romantic and made me fallen in love of his mind and his writing he asked me to meet i was not sure because there was small problem he married a woman for two years and she divorced him and after four and half years she moved back with him and he said he has a great friendship with heriot a sex and his responsibility of his parent and he work so hard in his job and travel lots.He dose not want relationship, we finally after he really brainwashed me with his romantic and lovely way, we met and twice and we had sex but one time i was not feeling well could not do great, second time tired and got drunk. Well he did not respond till i called and said i can not understand what we are and i can not go only for sex i like to have date and fun this is make me stupid and he did not answered till i send him a long text and said i had bad day wish you the best and i met a middle east a guy and when i told him i am not interested in him, he said i am a bad person and i have problem he text me i send it to that guy i like and said i had stress that is my reaction happened to you.
I really like him and he is great in sex in every way he is very handsome tall blue eyes and well educated redone gentleman, i was not good in the bed i don’t have too much experience, i wish we could have more chance i show him i can do better. He send me text two weeks later, that he is sorry he is not good to keep in touch and he is busy he hope i am doing good he is going out of town.I said sound good have fun. I am sad i remember he said i am sexy and beautiful he said i turn him on and why he is not coming back what did i do wrong. I can not look at any other man my mind and my heart is with him. Help me, please, i am crying lots, i wish i can bring him back he said due privacy of his Ex-wife he can not take me to his house, he would like to come to my home i have two young kids he dose not have children, he is 54 and i am 44 and his ex-wife is 42 we are very look like each other like a sister saw her picture, but in the past he send me email and text and phone every day even asked me to come to his house but not any more. He was so much interested in me, he was killed him self to have me even he wants me as only friend nothing, he bagged me to be with him, now he changed,i was before fun and pushed him away now i am sad and wants him so much, what did i do wrong help me to have him back last time he text was 4 days ago. i miss him but i don’t tell or show it, i am even when see him too shy and my mind blank i can not talk normal. Why i act stupid and why i can not handle every thing good i was so good to communicate with him now i am so lost since i like him.
sincerely
Yeggy.
Hey I know your message is oriented towards women but I can’t help but reply, I got out of a 5 year relationship awhile ago, a women I have been talking to “that doesn’t want to label anything” for over a month, it started out sexual talking but I got to now her and told her I didn’t just want her body but her mind. We had sex several times, but then she needed her space an said she was no where near ready to be talking to be talking to anyone, so I gave her her space. A week or so goes by an she’s back to flirting with me in person an via text. Knowing her an how she is i think she may like me, but isn’t ready and understand why but what am I supposed to do? Just sit around and wait
Wow! I felt the love you have for all of your peeps big time!
Thank you, long distance friend! I watched this video over and over again. It just came when I really needed it. Thank you so much..
Is it better to be alone and lonely or to compromise in your wants?
Hi Matthew,
Great thanks for making me attractive! Yesterday I was in plane and the guy next to me started to clean the window (later he said it was because of me so that I can see the clouds better!!! It’s very weird no one does that isn’t it?!) and started talking to me and asking a few questions! I wan’t interested in him and didn’t really enjoy talking to him(as a potential!), I was afraid if he would exchange numbers and I get in trouble at the end so I continued reading my notes and when he suggested that I read them later I disagreed and told I want to finish them before we land! I feel a bit impolite I preferred some unneccessary notes than a human? I didn’t want to be proud or cold or inflexible but at the same time didn’t want to let him get closer, what should I do in such cases? Would you please explain? Thank you XOXO
I just want to thank you for this message! Made me cry but it was a good cry. Again, thank you my far away friend!
Thank you
Greetings Alice
Love the video Matthew! Thanks for sharing…The idea of wanting to belong and that you do matter is somethiing that resonates with me. I have felt those feelings of loneliness also and the urge to feel connected to people and the world and meeting kindred spirits, friends who are similar to you and make you feel that you are not the only one in the world who thinks the way you do.
Thank you so much for sharing.
Wishing you all blessings…
May you always be happy and blessed!
Faraway friend…
Thank you! It was a great message !
One of the most important videos I’ve seen on here & have been following Matt Hussey for a few years. Been like that for years, myself. I like this approach. Addressing the reasons far more helpful and reassuring than someone saying (like they do, very often!), you just need to go out & meet more people.
I also think the exercise of connecting, or trying to connect with others is an important factor in all of this. I agree about the feeling of self worth as well mentioned in the video. Very good video. :) x
even when I’m surrounded with people , I feel like I’m stuck in isolated island , even if I scream no one can hear me or help me
Dearest Matthew,
Thank you for your loneliness video and message. It touched my heart. I will practice your?advise. It makes so much sense.
Looking forward to hearing more from you.
Sheenamarie
Matthew, I just sold a business this year where, for four years I had watched people at end of life and saw if they were happy or in some other state. I saw that 20% of your happiness has to do with your community; 80% has to do with your attitude, and gratefulness, the joy that emanates from you when you wake each morning. It was a huge life lesson, and I wake grateful and blessed every day because – well, I am – and because I’ve seen the potential for a happy life.
Thank you so much, Matthew. You have a very important calling. Love, Lisa in California
Thank you for sharing Matt. Each time I receive email I always feel a good energy your videos always amaze me. Thanks again for all you do.God bless vbrinhappinespirits up. Just want to say thank you
Thank you for creating this topic…I found it really helpful indeed…