Where To Go To Find Good Men

Where do you meet men??

I believe good people are everywhere. In the video I want to demonstrate that to you, firstly by telling you some of the unusual places I’ve met people, and then by asking you and conducting a little experiment

Where do you meet men? Where was the last place you met a quality guy?

Let me know in the comments below.

I want you to think of this as an experiment where the more comments we get, the better this is going to be. I’m then going to draw on all of your comments in my next video and let you know the results.

Be specific about where you were, what the location was, and what type of location it was.

Were you taking a class, doing one of your hobbies, were you grabbing a coffee, shopping…tell us!

Retweet this, get it to your friends, share it on your Facebook, pass it on to as many people as possible, and encourage them to comment too.

The more comments we get, the more effective this is going to be. So I can’t wait to read yours!

Matthew x


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  1. Maria Livramento says:

    Both worked in the casino Leicester square London. (At work)

  2. Tamara says:

    I meet men only in context when i can get to know them, where i have occasion to show how I am past the first glance. So I met men at school or at work.

  3. Li Shan says:

    I met my last boyfriend at a salsa class in a dance studio in Singapore. Taking a dance class like salsa does provide you with the opportunity to get to know lots of people, both men and women. The sociable environment created by the salsa helped too

  4. Nadia says:

    I met the last guy at a freinds party

  5. Marla says:

    I met the last guy I dated online…Plenty of Fish. We were together for a year. We still love one an

    • Marla says:

      We still live one another but he has been abusive to me a couple of times and I can’t tolerate that. Actually, online is the only place I have met anyone. No one will ever approach me in person.

  6. Claudia says:

    I’ve met my date in the train! We had eyecontact there a lot the first time. And when he saw me in the train a week later he just walked to me and started a conversation!

    We have dated 3 times but unfortunately I didnt have feelings for him. So special that he was falling head-over-heels for the “train girl”. It was my first dating experience!

  7. Kim says:

    Matthew- change the question- as answers don’t seem helpful- people sharing bad relationship stories- ask: where did your friend(s) who is/are married meet their fellow?

  8. Brenda says:

    Met a guy at my local yoga studio which has since relocated and merged with another.

    Met a guy while in line at Chipotle, it was an instant “date” as we sat and ate together while chatting and laughing… (We dined some more and while he is interesting, I want a relationship with a man more my years. (It was however, the first time I dated a guy notably shorter than I. (While I enjoy a youth filled men, I want my man to have more years under his belt and no interest creating “notches”.) In other words, the reason he “plays” the field, is in pursuit of me! Meaning he has fun coming up with ways to capture my notice, attention and affection while growing esteem! (Ooooiu! That’s steamy!) he he

  9. Anna says:

    “Internations” community monthly meeting in Salzburg in a Bar on the river.

  10. Cristiano says:

    I think so, but probably It’s important go out and meet different people in places like bar, shops, etc.

  11. Anni says:

    Met 1 guy from taking an inner city train. He chased after me. That was in early 2011. Relationship lasted 5 months, went 1 year before I heard or seen him again, ran into him another year later; occasionally get creeper texts just to hook-up for sex but have since declined.

    Met another guy from getting lunch at MY local neighborhood coffee shop. (Sunday, August 31, 2014). He was getting lunch with his cousin from out of town, whom long story short played sports with my grade school classmates in a totally different city, so we have something in common. He realistically doesn’t like me because I’m too smart for him but puts up with me since his cousin and me have some mutual “friends” from childhood.

    Met a guy who was returning to his workshop while I was leaving the beach and heading back to work. Relationship lasted 2 months. (2010).

    Met a guy at a bookstore coffee shop (since has closed) (2009-2010).

    Met a guy who was the mutual friend of another mutual friend of a friend. Summer fling 2011.

    Met a guy who’s local at a tech conference. Lasted 4 weeks (Oct-Nov 2013).

    Former neighbor (2013). This was my most turbulent to date. On and off and once it was off, he secretly stalked me to the point I forced him to move.

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  15. Anne says:

    The last place I met a QUALITY man who I fancied and admired and had a good relationship with was on a dating website.

  16. Feebee says:

    I met my ex-bf at university in marketing class. We were in the same project team.

  17. Becky says:

    Last nice guy a met was on a skiing holiday, he was a friend of a friend working as an instructor. Had a little holiday romance and it ended amicably.

    Last nice, but then turned out to be not-so-nice guy I met was walking the Camino de Santiago in Spain. He was Italian, I think there some common problems with Italian men, anyone else??

  18. Micaela deChaves says:

    The last man I dated was someone I knew from childhood, whom I reconnected with on a social network.
    It went horribly.

  19. gge says:

    ..in a local bar.
    He glanced at me, and my friend told me to have a chance but I didn’t.
    After 10 min my friend brought him to me. We spent that evening but never met again after.

  20. Karyn says:

    I met the last man I dated in an expat bar in Istanbul, Turkey. I’m currently living here teaching English.

  21. linda says:

    I met my last guy at my workplace. I know, it is not a specific space. Now I use the tools to keep him for myself!
    By the way, I like your work Matthew, keep going!

  22. April says:

    Dear Matt,
    Merry C. to you and your dear ones!
    You are an amazing Man! Thank you so much for so many things.
    Here goes my contribution. From the heart.

    Thanks to you and few other teachers I realized two things:
    2.THAT I AM WORTHY OF A BEST MAN THERE IS AND NOT JUST of good career, expensive shoes and respect in a board room.
    Sooooo, hw being done :), I met him the NEXT day after I have really made a click about my worthiness of a good Man/R in my head before going to bed!!
    I was struggling with the click for sometime, but I clearly know when I made it.
    Next day I had a business meeting that was set by one of our common friends and we clicked instantly.
    It is a beautiful beautiful relationship-> totally diff from what I have experienced in the past.
    Where -> does not matter at all. I had hunderds of buss meetings with good quality Men before, but was incapable of the step.

    I know you get what I am saying.

    So-> thank you soooo much!
    I could have told so many beautiful things about you Matt!

    You are one and only!

    With my deep respect and appreciation!


  23. courtney says:

    I met a guy at a café in town in Perth, Western Australia and it was a café just like Starbucks but in Perth it’s called the Dome. I met him in the Trinity arcade in front of Parker store which is for men. he paid for everything me and him shared some fries n had our soft drinks.

    he once said to me we should just be friends because I don’t want one of us to get hurt and I accepted it but I really like this guy and he’s been very busy for the last few months n he makes time for me

    You Inspire me so much matt n I’ve always followed your advice when I need it.

  24. Marlies says:

    I met my current boyfriend just outside the bar. I just got out of a relationship and was only interested in Find the guy and get the guy (and have fun).
    I got out of the bar and it was raining very hard. So i took shelter near the door. He also took shelter there. So i set next 2 him and asked him if he was the new doorman :-) And everything Matthew says you should do i did. And it worked! And now i’m keeping the guy! He’s amazing! So ladies.. He can be anywhere. Be ready for him at any time ;-)

  25. Laura Oliverio says:

    Hi Matthew,
    I am sending this note in response to your Where To Go To Find Good Men video. I met this new instructor a few months ago at the Ashtanga yoga center I take yoga at. During the last few weeks, he will come up and help me with the more difficult poses and seems like a really sweet guy. I always make sure and smile and say thankyou!! Yesterday he went over to help the guy next to me and i remember what you said in one of your videos that if there is some attraction a guy will find a way to come close to you.I love this attention from him and hope it leads to something good!Laura

  26. Lynn says:

    The last guy I met was pretty much insane and he cyberstalked me. I met him on Craigslist. Of course, crazy stalkers can be on any dating site, but in general, stay away from free sites like Craigslist (and especially stay away from Craigslist). The free sites seem to attract very unstable men, even men who are borderline homeless and mentally ill.

    • Marla says:

      I thought the pay sites would be better, but found that they weren’t. Guys there were every bit as crazy and just looking for sex.

  27. Shan says:

    I met my last boyfriend standing next to me at a taxi rank after an arts festival. He was hot looking and mumbling to himself looking at his mobile phone and I said ‘ excuse me do you always talk to yourself in public? ‘ he replied ‘ yes pretty much cos I like what I hear!’ We dated for six months then he was relocated with his work overseas. It was spontaneous and it worked! Great guy.

  28. Anel says:

    My ex was my neighbor.. literaly 3 steps and 1/2 awy from my apartment. These are supposedly the “Crack head apartments” because of how they used to be here in the small town of Monahans Tx.

  29. Bianca says:

    Hmm… University, then work and work again…

  30. Renee says:

    1. I met my last boyfriend at the seaside in the outdoor club when I was talking with other guys.

    2. the ex boyfriend was a friend of my friend with witch I traveled on vacations. they came there to visit us and we after vacations we didnt hear from each other. after 3 years I ran into him in the same club as my last boyfriend. wooouuu that is weird, never knew actually until i’ve written it now.

  31. Elaine says:

    We’re PhD students in the same office and played badminton a lot together :)

  32. Yasmin says:

    I met my current boyfriend at an underground bar where his local rock band was performing. I scoped him out and asked my friends questions about him, then threw my underwear at him at his next show to get noticed. Then I contacted him on Facebook to get to know him, then finally talked in person at a show on Halloween (last year)… where I was dressed as a very cinematically accurate Hermione Granger.

  33. Su says:

    I met a guy at university campus, I was sitting outside under a tree and then my friends joined me one by one. He happened to come sit with us because of mutual friends and then we spent the afternoon sitting around making jokes.

    After that, him and I would sit by each other in the cafeteria everyday and a month later I asked him to help me out on a film project… a long-term relationship came out of it!

  34. Liz says:

    Hello Matthew,

    I met the last guy at the bar at Embassy Suites in Jackson, Mississippi while on travel.

  35. Stella says:

    At a festival where I was doing what I love to do very much – teaching energy work. He came to me after my performance to get to experience of individual session.

  36. Petra says:

    Hello Matthew,
    I met my last boy-friend online at Meetic.com…he smiled at me and then left an email message…; )

  37. Dianna says:

    Rodeo Dr, CA. Was there at 10:30am after going to westwood for a little personal errand. Happened to spot the attractive guy walking to his job alone. I approached him with a weird question and we just connected :)

  38. Rowan says:

    The only person I have ever dated (and I’m 26) I met at a stop and shop, during my shift. I wouldn’t call him a quality Gent tho. He left after four months without telling me.

  39. Amera says:

    The last man I dated I met through a mutual friend in Israel. I moved here a year ago to earn my M.A. and became quite close with a girl in my program. One day, we were at a mall near our university and her friend, my ex, met us there, though I had no idea at the time that I would be meeting him.

  40. Jessica says:

    The last guy I dated I meet at a volunteer meeting for a youth event I was helping with. It was held in one the volunteers homes who I had never meet before. The event was run by a guy I am friends with. He then introduced me to a few of his friend which included the guy. My friend also happened to be best friend with this guy.

  41. Emily says:

    The frozen food section of Trader Joe’s. I was there in a rush to get a few things for work, dressed having just come from a pool day (aka kinda grub), certainly not looking to meet anyone. I was looking at ice cream, he was on the other side of the aisle. We made eye contact, I smiled, turned around and the next thing I knew he was standing next to me. We struck up a conversation and ended up dating. It ultimately didn’t work out but it sure was a fun way to meet someone!

  42. Pam Peters says:

    The guy I met, that I am most interested in, was working on my friends house in the mountains of North Carolina. We were very comfortable with each other and conversation came easily. That was 4 months ago and we still text, phone, and see each other whenever I am up in the mountains. Hopefully it will eventually turn into more of a romantic relationship.

  43. Shannon says:

    I’m 42 years old. I’ve had two long term relationships with the only two guys I’ve ever dated. I’ve been single for 4+ years now. About a year and a half ago, I “hung out” with a guy, on and off, for about 6 months. I met him online. He was not a good person. I met my first boyfriend in college. I met my second boyfriend at the gym where we both worked out. In the last couple of years I’ve been on a few dates with guys I met online and one other guy I met through a friend.

    It’s extremely rare to meet a good person, let alone a good man. I don’t think there’s any one place to meet good people or good men. But I wish all the ladies who are currently searching good luck and happiness.

  44. Lot says:

    I met the last Guy on the corner of the Kalverstraat in Amsterdam. He bumped in to me and my cup of Starbucks wich he ended up to be covered in lol x

  45. Ashleigh says:

    I met a “perfect catch” of a guy who was my contact at a local sports venue. My church would go to the local WNBA games.
    It didnt work out because I didn’t know all of the wonderful things Matthew teaches. I am looking forward to getting the next perfect catch;)

  46. Plamena says:

    In English pub in Abu Dhabi lol x

  47. Michelle says:

    I met my last guy I dated for 2 mths at a craft market. We were both there selling. I am a New Orleans children book author and illustrate for the Juju the GOOD voodoo series and he did beautiful wood carved cutting boards. His table was across from mine.
    Matthew I just adore u! Thanks for your time and effort in helping people who have are having a hard time finding someone :)

  48. Kate says:

    The last guy I dated (briefly) I met online. Brief because it turns out that he had a problem being honest (deal breaker) and was obsessed with bantering about his ex wife and complaining about his child support payments (3 teenagers). His profile was the exact opposite of who he is in reality.

    The other is someone I dated for 2.5 years and met through work. He is senior to me and lives in another city. As it turns out, he likes to date the payroll and has someone in each city that he travels to. Ick.

    I am learning so much through Matthew and his videos and book. I can now spot and understand why I tend to be attracted to and to attract……the wrong types. It is exciting to look forward to what is ahead. My eyes are wide open everywhere I go – oh and my antenna is up :)

  49. Kristen says:

    I met him at a surprise birthday party for a mutual family friend.

  50. Kaitlin says:

    The last guy I was seeing first asked me out while I was working. He was a customer (I work at a smoothie joint), and I asked him how his day was going. We got to talking and he gave me his buisness card and asked if I wanted to go out to dinner sometime. I’m not 100% sure if he was a quality guy, he wasn’t a bad person but he admitted to being somewhat of a manwhore. We saw each other for about a month and a half and he was always sweet to me. He has a baby on the way from one of his hookups though and doesn’t have time for a relationship, but I’d still say the experience was a good one and I’m glad I made conversation with him that day :) I have a new friend now at least!

  51. Kami says:

    I met one guy I dated while riding my road bike…..he just popped up right beside me and we started chatting.

    Another guy I dated I met in a hotel elevator in Hartfort, Connecticut (to be fair we had played the flirty eye game the evening before in the hotel gym, so it made conversation easy).

    And yet another fella I met and dated had the lucky happenstance of crossing paths while sharing an airport shuttle back to our cars and discussing how much we both loved to ski (both of us were returning from ski vacays).

    And there ya have it.

    Thanks for all you do Matt! I’d like you to know how much I appreciate you.


  52. Laurie says:

    Last bf I had, I met online.
    Our first date in person was at Forest Room 5, a cool bar in Denver.

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  54. Ashley says:

    I met the last guy I dated because we were both serving on a nonprofit board (shared cause, natural reason to interact, and we became friends first).

  55. Sarah says:

    I haven’t been in a relationship for over 5 years, and the guy I dated then I met over 10 years ago at college in Greenville, SC. He played intramural soccer with some of my mutual friends and I met him through them.

    Other quality people I’ve gone on dates with I met:

    Volunteering to paint at a community center in Atlanta with a church group

    Volunteering on a high school church retreat at Panama City Beach

  56. Paula says:

    I met my boyfriend through mutual friends! My best friend and his best friend are dating, and they set us up, so we all went out to the club and we hit it off.

  57. Toi says:

    Grocery store I used to work at in a nice neighborhood in downtown Chicago. All were cutomers; 2 of them became really interesting friends and all were very sweet guys.

  58. Ren says:

    Gas station in order to fix my friend up which was my only intention. Great line I used and if interested, I can leave it next time. It worked like a gem and now he won’t leave her alone thanks to me.

  59. Sam says:

    We met on facebook! Certainly the most hopeless place to meet someone..

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