Where do you meet men??
I believe good people are everywhere. In the video I want to demonstrate that to you, firstly by telling you some of the unusual places I’ve met people, and then by asking you and conducting a little experiment…
Where do you meet men? Where was the last place you met a quality guy?
Let me know in the comments below.
I want you to think of this as an experiment where the more comments we get, the better this is going to be. I’m then going to draw on all of your comments in my next video and let you know the results.
Be specific about where you were, what the location was, and what type of location it was.
Were you taking a class, doing one of your hobbies, were you grabbing a coffee, shopping…tell us!
Retweet this, get it to your friends, share it on your Facebook, pass it on to as many people as possible, and encourage them to comment too.
The more comments we get, the more effective this is going to be. So I can’t wait to read yours!
Matthew x
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The last few quality men I’ve met all worked in retail unfortunately I never knew how to go about persuing or getting to know them!! I unfortunately met my ex bf online & I personally feel as though its such a rubbish way to meet men nowadays as there are so many things you don’t initially get to know about the man!
I had a temp job, (something I’d not done before) and met a girl who introduced me to her boyfriends single friend. I am now divorced from him after 10 years together but have a beautifull daughter and remain friends with my ex.
I met an interesting guy in the train 3 years ago. We talked about life, very philosophical stuff. I just know his first name. I forgot to ask his number. Beautiful experience !
I met this guy in a british pub in abudhabi ( Crown Plaza, heroes ) while my friends are dancing and enjoying , i was at the corner of the pub hiding from this scottish guy annoying me. Just immediately when i saw him, we smiled to each other and dance at the same spot the whole night! It was so fun and exhausting, its been two years now and we are still together.
My last two boyfriends i met at med school.
The sorta current one at a series of classes organized by our college.
Since thats all the social life my work allows me its where ive met people too.
I was taking the English tour at the national museum in Seoul when I heard a cute, tall guy ask me, “May I join you?” We spent the next couple hours touring the museum together and although nothing happened after that day, it was one of those things that made me realize that you can meet men anywhere, at the randomest of times.
I met my last boyfriend at a mutual friends wedding in spain!
I met my last guy in Wacken Open Air in Germany, it’s a big metal festval and my guys camped near the place where he camped. I never thought it would be possible to meet a 37 sucessful lawyer on a metal festival, be that’s exactly what happened :-)
I’ve met a lot of great men in public transport when they letting me to get in to the bus first :) Also in the library, my friends house party, convencions are the great place to meet someone with the same passions and dance workshops too! Starbucks works too, they’ve got small tables and a lot of people sit there alone with book or magazine.
The last guy I met was in his work place. I was a customer who needed a chicken coop built. This guy was very helpful and offered to help me with various work, ie joinary, anything a guy can do really. So I was seeing him on a regular basis, which I class to be the first stages of seeing one another. Was not a good outcome thou, I found out this guy already had a girlfriend and she was 8 months pregnant.
About three months ago I met him in the train between Amsterdam and Utrecht. He sat there with his students and I with my children. We had a very lively conversation and when I left the train his kept looking at me. I decided to look him up on Google and found him (although I didn’t have his name at the time). I wrote him a small email and since then we are mailing. Hopefully it becomes more in the future…
Heeey, so , i wanna tell you the truth. I’m usually into guys that study science like i do. so the last interesting guy i met studies the same as i do and we met in a bar next to my faculty. He is friend of some friends of mine, which is amazing because we don’t see each other all the time but we’ve got things in common.
Then some other time, there was this guy that went to one class that i went to and we happen to meet in a club in the center of the city, so we said hello and started to chat. Then i told him i’ll go back to my friends, but soon he came over to me and didn’t leave untill i left the club, so we really started that relationship there because we’d known each other but we had more in common since we went to the same clubs.
matthew, i love the work you do!!
on eharmony
on line
it lasted 5 years but 4 1/2 of them sucked!!
It seems you can meet good people all over the place.
The location is interesting, but the vibe you put out
may be of more importance. It would be interesting to
see another video and comments section on how they first
got talking to the other person, how they broke the ice.
Something that also interests me, is what about the vibe
you put out because of the way you dress. Do some men
consider some clothes more trashy than others? Does
certain attire attract the wrong people. Perhaps to
attract quality men you need to dress in a certan way.
This video about how to start talking to someone you’re interested in would be really helpful! Thanks for the suggestion
I met the last guys I dated in Bars. The last one I met because I was out in a fun place (but not too many quality guys there) and a friend of hers brought his best friends too.
My last boyfriend was one of my best friends for years until it developed into a relationship.
Working in Orlando at a trade show. I went to dinner at a restaurant and always eat up at the bar. It’s the best place to visit with others instead of at a table. Now, however, everyone is glued to their smart phones. But this also makes it the best conversation starter! I comment about how everyone is glued, and it usually sparks a conversation. I also ask the person what they’re having, it looks interesting/delicious. That’s how I met an extremely interesting, great guy.
My cousin introduced me via facebook to her cousin. It lasted some months.
I met one boyfriend in a hair salon. I met another ex boyfriend on an airplane. He got on the plane late and the only seat left was the one next to me.
Last quality guy I met was at a friend’s wedding. We didn’t go out but definitely a quality guy.
Place I meet the most quality men is in self-development seminars, in particular Landmark Education. It’s a good filter for quality men; they have to be self-aware enough to want to improve themselves. Also, many times the area they want to improve is their love life, so you get single and divorced guys there.
I thought I would meet more men doing sports but so far I haven’t met one guy that way even though I work out and a popular health club and participate in distance and charity sports events. I enjoy the window shopping but haven’t found anything to take home yet. Too high a proportion of married guys, I think.
Heck NO Rebecca! Guys at self improvement seminars are all a mess, hence their reason to be at a self improve seminar! It’s great they are working on themselves but it means they are not ready for you yet. Trust me I have been to many of these events as a master trainer for the top peak performance speaker in the world for 15yrs and most of these men are a mess in need of help.
What is better is gong to money seminars, real estate, business, and sales seminars. The men here are higher quality. Also fund raiser events are great because men there are thinking of more than themselves but others welfare, a very male quality!
I golf and meet tons of men at the driving range. The problem there is all the men wear a leather glove on their left hand which covers their wedding ring finger. Hard to tell who to flirt with. The 19th hole (golf course lounge or restaurant/bar) is where you’ll find out.
I had the perfect fiancé but he died so young. He is hard to top but i am meeting quality men now, just need to meet the one that I want to spent the rest of my life with.
Don’t settle for less girls. He is out there. Just be the best that we can be as women and great guys who mirror our qualities will start to show up everywhere we go!
Remember always smile wherever you are and you will stick out in a crowd!
I think common hobbies are great opportunity to meet guys or in general interesting people. I used to sail a lot, and there I met my first and second boyfiend. Next places were- studies, and exchange studies. Since I’m professionally involved with art- exhibition openings bring lots of possibilities to chat with cultural, exciting people – it is so much easier to approach somebody with a glass of wine and obviously common topic to start a conversation.