In this video, Matt shows you how to flirt with a guy using physical contact so that you can build attraction quickly, this is to do with your body, your eyes and touching.
The great thing is you can use these tips immediately, so make sure you use them to flirt with men next time you’re out at a bar or at some sort of gathering.
1. Eye contact
Eye contact is very basic but most people get this wrong a lot of the time, when looking at a guy from a distance you need to let him know that you’re attracted to him. When you look again, make sure you look a little cheeky – like you’ve been caught out to make the situation more fun, enjoyable and sexy.
When your up close and talking to a guy, make sure you get in a lot of touch, we’re not talking about seductive touch or anything like that just playful touching. When you make a point to someone or you’re laughing, try to touch him on the shoulder or arm. Even if your moving through a bar or something, touch a guy lightly to move past him, this will convey interest.
3. Your voice
When we talk to people and we are nervous we never really speak up and our voice tends to stay at one level, also sometimes our voice speeds up which is very noticeable by the other person. Don’t be afraid to pause… relax and think about every word your saying before you say it. You can communicate so much through your voice – so use it wisely.
There are a lot of flirting tips for women all over the place that give terrible advice, such as acting cold or aloof when talking to a guy you like. Please don’t do this, you will not get him attracted, quite the opposite in fact.