So you’ve found yourself in the dreaded friend zone with a guy you feel attracted to, this is a place where no one wants to be – man or woman. However you don’t need to worry because it doesn’t have to stay like this, but it definitely means something NEEDS to change!
When a guy starts seeing you as a friend, it simply means he isn’t seeing you in a sexual way, than he would otherwise see another woman. Here’s how to get into his mind and give him a reason to start liking you more than just a friend.
1. Stop acting like one of his “guy” friends
This is probably the most common reason for a guy not fancying you when you’re friends, if you’re similar to his mates then chances are he’s not going to feel that spark.
2. Stale mate!
You need to break out of your shell, what’s happening is he’s seeing you as a little boring – maybe even like a sister which is obviously a bad thing. So you need to show him that you’re not boring and you can let your hair down.
So over the upcoming weeks, start changing your old patterns of behaviour slightly here and there. He will notice this and providing you follow the advice above he will start seeing you in a different light.
Hi..my guy and I hooked up before our marriages broke up..we did not cause our marriages broke up… and since we hooked up a lot and I want more..he was now said he wants space to mourn his marriage a yr later…i have said I would give him space and I want him to be happy ..and I hope to be around to see him happy if not we deserved happiness …he says I have been a great best friend and wants to continue our friendship.. he feels it’s too messy kids involved …..help