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How To Get A Guy To Like You: Learn these 2 simple words…

You wouldn’t believe how many women read every blog, watch every YouTube video, and follow every Facebook post I put out, and yet still say:

“Yeah, Matt… I get it. But there’s this one guy that I really like…”

And because they’re so head-over-heels for this man, all of the advice goes out of the window.

In this week’s video, I’m about to reveal 2 simple words that will tell you everything you need to know about men and how to get the love you really deserve…


 

 

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61 Replies to “How To Get A Guy To Like You: Learn these 2 simple words…”

  • good video matt
    but I can 100% bet you “some guys only look for TV and candy”
    I had a boyfriend.he never wanted to be with me.he wasn’t monogamous

    after a few month he left me looking for TV and candy in other girls(my religion didn’t allow me to give him TV and candy before marriage)

    and his friend told me : he wants TV and candy.if you wait, he’ll marry you in future

    but he doesn’t want to be with you right now(he doesn’t like you to see him with other girls until marriage)

    answer me matthew or anybody please.what do you think about these kind of men.he loved me but he was not monogamous.at least until age of 30 or 40.that’s very sad

    1. His friend sounds like an amazing person. Count your blessings and use sex to bond with the right man. Meantime, TV and candy with any man until your figure him out but don’t give him any candy. Just watch.

      Observation is always good prior to approaching the bench.

      1. Don’t give up anything really delicious to a guy that you may regret in 30 years time… Like a career, your heart, your happiness, your virginity. And kissing is dangerous. That’s why most kids do it in middle school or make out in high school. It’s like a game for them. At 29 or 30, with the ticking biological clock, attraction is insane. It is best to respect the clock and have a healthy fear of oxytocin bonding with the wrong man.

        Who is the wrong man? It’s the man who impresses you and has won you over with his love and flirtation and advances but he may be demonstrating in his personal life that his character is not up to par. :( it’s always sad and disappointing when that happens but you have to do the right thing. Always.

        Do a right thing. :)

        Have a happy Sunday everyone :-)

  • Sex is not a dirty act. It is love.

    Fucking is love too.

    Just don’t do it with the wrong person.

    Oxytocin. Matthew we shalst care when we have “sex” with a person. My friend taught me well.

  • I agree 100% with you. Since I follow your advices, my love life is better. I met someone that I’m keeping and doing my best to not lose.

    Last night he knew I was upset with him and I left my phone turned off in my bag. Away from me. I went dancing with friends. He knew where I was and he showed up there just to see me.

    I will always try to not adapt myself for anyone. I don’t want to lose my self respect and I know that there are billions of people in the world…

  • Hi there.

    I have one simple question for you that is a bit different then those you get on daily bases.

    How to know when to stop flirting?

    You are focused mostly on woman who want to get a guy, but what about girls who flirt on daily bases because it is fun?

    I flirt with my dentist to have batter care, with hot nurse man while I was lying in hospital bad, with assistant at university for some extra points, with bartender to get batter drink, or you know wherever I find hot guy, because I guess I feel bored with how easy they give me what I want.

    Almost always, I don’t want anything at all, I’m just doing it for fun and hoping to find someone who will know how to play the game instead of taking the bite almost immediately.

    btw. I love this video, it made me realize that in every relationship, I was kid with TV and candy and I should probably change that.

  • That was a fantastic advice. It helps me to see my past, present and my future from a very different perspective.
    Thank you Matt!

  • I agree respect is more important than like, for sure. I do get exasperated though that there is much more information aimed at women to figure out what a guy wants/needs, and not towards men to figure out what a woman needs. Sure, we’re socialized as women to overfunction when it comes to the emotional and communication stuff, and I feel dating advice continues that socialization. But it can be confusing sometimes….it’s driven into our heads to not be overly needy and obsessive and analytical when it comes to figuring out men, but often advice is focused very much on that…on women trying to strategize and figure out what men need vs. what they want, as part of a strategy to connect with them.

  • Matt – you hit it out of the park with this one. This is exactly what I needed to hear today. Cheers!

  • How do I get the man I’ve been involved with for 4 years to be interested & romantic again?
    He had to move a 1000 miles away for work 2 years. And I go see him every 6 months now. He kind of a loaner in the first place, but about 6 months after he went to Michigan to work he got very sad said he wouldn’t make a good boyfriend right now, and stopped texting or and my calls. But when I go up everything is as we never left each other. Anf I don’t push for answers, but the past couple times he’s seemed distant and sad, uninterested. He’s been living in his van going from job to job. I love this man unconditional. And wish he’d just come back home, off ask me to move there. But I don’t know how to get though to him anymore. We were so happy & in love before he left Florida. But he’s suborn but I now he cares or he wouldn’t be there at all. Please help..i don’t know what else to do to show this man I care about him and his well being. But I’m losing hope. I do love him, but I don’t know how to reach his heart.
    Please Help! Lisa

  • Hi Matthew, Li here from San Diego! You met me before. Just wanted to say thank you, thank you, and thank you! Love your London entrepreneur speech a few years ago and love love that I re-connected to you via watching your videos, articles and hearing your message!! Thank you!! I needed this. Thank you! Xie Xie

  • I did what you said in another Post Math. I explain him my standars, I think a Little bit late and I pass from sex zone to, Work zone and now he doe`snt answer my massages, I did some things wrong like tell him to trust in me and then when he trust to much and ask for money, cause he have economic issues, obviusly I say No, cause I do`nt think a person that it`s not treating me the way i Should be treated, deserves my Economic Help and more if I do`nt have enought money to cover my own needs. If he is my Husband of course I will help him, but he is not my boyfriend, a lot of people take money frome me before so I do`nt trust, my problem is that I just trust in GOD, cause the humans are always imperfects like me…

    It`s kind of hard breaking, another deseption, today was his birthday, he did`nt answer my call and he did`nt write me back. I really like him and he is a great guy, but what he offer me it`s not enought, I understand after he explain me why he work that much, but he still go out and he never invites me, me neither, I did`nt what to introduce him until was something siruis cause I have to much kids in my family and they ask thinks and it`s unconfortable.

    I was in love with another guy 15 years ago and his memory still stucking me, it`s so bad this Crush, it`s really noscive, he was the second guy that told me did`nt like me and 4 me was so bad, but well year later I saw him again and now him better and I realice he was not the great guy I thought, he is just a breastfeeding baby.

    I don`nt want more Drama in my Love Life. I really want to settle down.

  • Hi there . I need advice my fiance before he start work he was call me evry day,day and night but now he work to the other country, he is not contact me like he use too, many time am the one who ccontact him ,and if (I ask why you are so silence he said bcs I work hard and think about our future and he always said he is trying to but him self together and find the way we can be close forever )i do understand that he need and I do too but am asking my self why he is not show up like before why not calls evry day. And I ask him again do you really feel me in to you he reply to yes he do very much and he want me to he is life but he is silence is really that my problem now is almost 7 months he is like that but evry 2day or 3days he send text me to check how am doing and end up with (i love you so much ) buy my self he is slince make me confused I feel like he changed but when he show up again look the seem I don’t I will like if you can help me to understand ( bcs my self tell if he is not in to me any more he is family and friends they should stop to contact me often but the still close to even if my fiance he didn’t call me them the do. Am not understand now if I will keep waiting him and give him time or if I will keep question him about how he feel for us. Please I will like to hear form here what I can do .

  • Hmm… seems like i should really usecthis advice in my cuttent situation. I just don’t know how.
    I fell in love with a man who showed me that all he wants is a booty call(my fault, I know).
    Even if I knew that this is only what he wants but not what he needs, how can I use this information?
    I can sit here, waiting for days until he calls. And when he calls, my only choice will be to give him TV and candy or to lose him completely. Nothing more, right?

  • Thank you for this, Matt! It validates how I have been approaching a situation with a guy I’ve known for a little over three weeks. He wants “TV and Candy”, and I am letting him know I’m flattered, but not ready to jump into a physical relationship. Thank you for reminding us that there are many men to choose from in the sea, and we can ask for what we want and don’t always have to acquiesce to a man’s request!

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