I Suck. Here’s Why…

Your responses to my last blog post made me think…

Song For The Day

Comment below! Bath time song or summer driving?

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218 Responses to I Suck. Here’s Why…

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  1. Alannah says:

    Hi Matthew
    Well I thought that this video and the last video was inspiring….life is short and we should grasp every second because each one is precious.
    I’m glad you are going to be doing more on the site and everything because I’m only a student and at the moment I can’t afford an event. One day hopefully.
    The information you email me constantly is always helpful and helps towards the self confidence, I haven’t got much at the moment but I’m working on it.
    Thank You for your emails and help, I’m glad there’s a guy and not a girl giving advice because lets be honest, you’re going to know more about men than a woman, this is why we have problems because women don’t understand men as well as a man would :)

    Stay safe and well :)

    P.s. I agree with both you and Ed. The beginning is more of a relaxing bath moment but the end is more of a summertime groove xx

  2. Nayab says:

    hey Matthew,
    I think its always a pleasure to see you doesn’t matter what you are talking about. you are simply awesome.do you think you will be coming to Toronto any time?

  3. K.ryn says:

    Hi Matt,

    Everytime you’re sending a video link via email you do catch my attention (when I find some free time) – so well done. Let’s see if you notice this message and respond to it. You mentioned in your video above: “let’s do better” (about you) – well I have to say that I have to do better too! Sadly, I am always spending my time working during business hours, after business hours, sometimes over night and sleeping as well but seriously I am very concious that this is not going to lead me anywhere with my love life (actually empty even if a couple of lucky options are still around and showing interest..but for how long? cause I hardly find the time for it – except on weekends, cause work is not welcome at all!) nor to help me socialising more and/or meeting up with new people if I keep doing like this. So I’d like to have your opinion, as you are probably as busy as I am with work. What would be the key according to you? any suggestions? How would you do if you were young, single, attractive and full of life? Hope to hear from you sooner or later – Thanks Matt ;)

  4. naida says:

    you are very sweet expressive person i loved this song. it is a song for any ocassion

  5. Jan says:

    Hi Mathew, Ohooooo I’m SO GLAD your on this planet to help us girls. You are just what I am needing to kick start my love life after being married for 25 yrs and done the casual !!! Now its time o move on lol
    The video was fab , don’t listen to anyone thats negative !!! thats there loss not your, and yep I’m so looking forward to the weekend in July with you. Jan ps I was th girl that got up on stage on the Sat afternoon in May. Your passion and drive is addictive

  6. Aloha1 says:

    “I wanna put it out there.” — Matthew Hussey

    I have a new quotation to add to my repertoire. Thanks!

  7. Nabila says:

    Dear Matthew
    I have recently started reading your blog as well have subscribed to your website.Since I am in Kuwait,hence cannot attend your live events. I just wanted to thank you for the advice you give out from time to time & know that you are helping me with a positive perspective so that I can move ahead towards finding my soul mate.
    My best,

  8. lucyb says:

    ….definitly the song for today, summer driving, & 79 degree’s!
    If only I was in Laguna!

  9. Martha says:

    Hi Matt!!
    I think your advice is brilliant!! I just want to know
    when are you coming to the States (Los Angeles) to do a live event???

  10. sandra says:

    Definitely a bathtub song…haha

  11. cindy says:

    summer driving. :)

  12. Sue says:

    Hello Matt!

    Definately a top down (car not me!), summer cruising song – in fact just perfect for today!

    I looked you up last year after watching Plain Jane & have been enjoying your emails ever since. I’ve tried to put some of your tips into practise & totally buy into how they work BUT have yet to attempt the full on daily assault to find my perfect (for me) gent.

    Your blog really made me laugh, I completely admire your confidence – you’re SO natural, engaging & very endearing although I was slightly distracted by the high hair! Still cute though, I hasten to add!!

    Would love to meet you & your team at one of your live events as I think that might be the kick start I need to get MY guy!

    Any plans to visit S Wales??!! Contrary to popular belief, it doesn’t rain here all the time!

    Please continue to enlighten me, make me smile & maintain my belief that there is someone wonderful out there for me…no pressure! ;)

  13. Asmaa says:

    hi Matt! first I wanna say that you’re a great source of inspiration, your mailing program has been a pretty good help and made me just go for it nomatter what the result was and actually the results were pretty great and I’m dying for you to put some new stuff out there. cause I unfortunately can’t get to your events unless you decide to take them to Algeria LOol, although I’d love to, and for your secrets of attraction program I can’t get it because credit card payment isn’t avalable where I’m from. Anyway your advice and prgram are amazing you just need to put some more advice in there and a bit of videos and don’t forget daily facebook posts ;)
    you’re amazing and thank you so much.

  14. Misha says:

    Hey Matt!
    I originally found you on YouTube and loved your advice and accent! :) I am on your mailing list now!
    Thank you for taking the time out of your hectic day to give advice to all of us! I would love to see more blogs and videos from you!! :)
    I had an idea to share with you. I was wondering if you would do a young love video!

  15. Monney says:

    Definitely a summer driving song and not bathtub. Nice to see you are still around as in your video I was one of the many to say welcome back lol. It was nice of you to put up this video to explain things. Hope to see more of you.

  16. Liz says:

    Haha definitely happy summer driving…
    Here’s some ideas for some possible video/blog topics:
    -Perks of adapting to change (at work, school, relationships)
    -How to deal with difficult people(Work, school, social life/ significant others
    -How to deal with people who put you down/suck positivity out of us.
    -Perks of/How to be more charismatic (at work, love life, social life)
    -How to be selective of advice we are given

    …..Hope these help. Greetings from California, USA :)

  17. Nadine says:

    Hey Matthew,

    go go, baby go! I missed you, even I have no more time left to miss you!
    I always enjoy watching your videos, but I must say, it was always there, just not so clearly. Thanks!

    lots of love,


    ps vid not available here


  18. lisa says:

    I believe you both maybe right. It is like a rose. It’s beautiful is simply in existing…

  19. Ximena says:

    Hi Matthew,

    I remember I bought one of your ebooks, “Secrets of the male mind” I haven`t finished it yet. I think it will be good to get more ebooks out there for people that are not much into live events.

    Regards and good luck!

  20. Lorena says:

    Neither! For me its more of a “getting dress” song .. So you start your day in a positive mood and relaxed :)

    Hey! Btw congrats on your work!! Its funny cause when I saw your videos on Youtube I was definitely not looking for that kind of advice or coach, but somehow I ended up watching one of your videos (something always happens when you are on youtube and you end up seeing something, not knowing what brought you there!) and it was soooo interesting I started to look for the other videos and end up following you on FB.

    What you say is so true and helpful!! Some of your tips have already bear fruit for me!!

    Thanks again, keep on doing what your doing and receive kind greets from Peru!

  21. Lenni says:

    i change my mind. this the best video

  22. Lenni says:

    Oh yes, definitely needs a fresh breeze and some warm sunshine for this. can see you tapping on the steering wheel for that one – though it’s not more like this one!!!!! love it!!!!
    well, i quite liked this video of yours… this might sound silly but you felt human again. lol, yes. when i saw you in the seminar i felt that it was to some degree scripted and very smartly put together so wasn’t sure how much of it all was actually you. that’s why it’s nice to see you more free and very honest. it touched me.
    thank you matthew!!!! keep in touch!!!!

  23. Korrin says:

    Sorry Ed, I have to say it’s not a bath song. I think this is a song I’d hear when I was in my car with the radio on. Fun summer song! Matthew I want to thank you for helping me find a little of my confidence again. I’ve been going through a rougher patch as far as confidence levels and it was a blessing when I found your site and got on your mailing list. So thank you so much for boosting me up!

  24. Barbara says:

    Great to see you engaging with everyone. I enjoyed the song and will definitely be listening to this in the car as I drive around the north of England. (Don’t forget those of us outside London). I’m really looking forward to the Women’s Weekend on the 26th, See you there, B x

  25. lynn says:

    The last song you posted kept me listening for hours but this one doesn’t hook me at all. Still a lazy driving song.

  26. lynn says:

    I think I like this vid of yours most because it’s authentic & shows that you care and therefore don’t suck at all. It’s great to see you not only as a teacher/coach but also as a “pupil”/person who makes mistakes and is still learning and working on his perfectionism. Don’t kill yourself by answering all the comments, I’m fine if you tell me that you’ve read them. Maybe you can announce the posts in which you’re gonna answer the comments on the same day, just like here. Thank you for helping us grow & being fun.

  27. Hilppa says:

    You’re both wrong! :’D
    It’s for walking in the summer during the morning, when everyone else is waking up on Sunday. Already sunny, but when you’re still quite alone :)

    I’m getting my drivers licence this summer, so I just might change my mind though.

  28. Lorella says:

    Hi Matt,

    Neither. this sond is for sitting in the park, a small park, in a square with a pen and pad and just writing… anything… thoughts and relaxing images…


  29. Megan says:

    You are so adorable Matthew! I look forward to hearing more from you, and its definately a road trip song! haha

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