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Comment below! Bath time song or summer driving?

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218 Replies to “I Suck. Here’s Why…”

  • Nope!Sorry Matt, Bath tub… especially here in Rome, the tempo’s too slow, it would be a risk driving at that speed. The other drivers would flare their arms out their windows ‘n beep you right off the road…

    Hugs,

    Hellena

  • That’s definitely a “get up off the couch and get moving on a sunny day” video, Ed! Bubble baths are for relaxing… unless you’re planning on cleaning up a big water mess later, that is… this song could be good for motivational clean up the floor time.

  • Great to have you back here! I appreciate the thought behind this post – to just keep in contact. I’ve done those posts on my own tiny blog for my friends & family far away. I appreciate that you care enough about the followers who can’t make it to live events to take time from your busy schedule to give us some face time! :)
    My vote for the song is a driving tune. It’s just a little too “perky” for a “bath” song. Looking forward to the next announcement!

    1. Hey Julie!
      That’s EXACTLY why I wanted to put it out there, I’m so glad you saw the sentiment behind it! Glad to hear you are blogging yourself, it can be a lot of fun!
      Will be in touch : ) x

  • This is a Floating Down The River In an Inflatable Boat, With Friends And Cold Drinks, On A Hot Hot Summer Day kinda tune. Sorry to be controvertial – I know it wasn’t on the list ;) Oh, and stop beating yourself up, Matthew. As my old Dad used to say, ‘You can’t do better than your best’ :) x

    1. Hey Claire!
      I like your suggestion, it should have had it’s own category, maybe people would have voted for it!
      That’s a great line, I love that. In this case i think i’m working towards my best, but I’m improving all the time (with ALOT of mistakes along the way I might add) x

  • Hey Matt, I don’t think you suck at all!! I was very happy to get your email today. I love watching your videos, I get so much out of them.

    Yes, I agree with you, this is a summer song.

    Blessings,
    Marlene

  • Dear MATHEW,

    i like this song and its a driving song :D and the city view in the clip of the song its called Prizren in my country-Kosovo.

    xo

  • hey I have been following your work too and I know you are doing other stuff, but is nice to see you more here and on facebook since Im from Mexico and this is my only contact with you and also to see you answering this comments! sorry if my writing is wrong is because Im not verry good with it. Let me tell you that you have been an inspiration for me, in one video on youtube talk about “if you want more stuff do more stuff” I say it on my mind every time I want something! thanks for that!

  • Dear Matthew,

    I got your $400 course but I never learned how to have a conversation where you really get to know other people (non-interview style) like what their core values in life are and I’d love to learn what to say in order to do that.

    I haven’t been able to find any material anywhere that teaches this. :(

    Also, how do you get the rest of the High Value Woman program that had parts included in the course and The Dirty Little Secrets About Men video?

    1. Hey passion,
      Send us an email at info@gettheguy.co.uk. I’ll send you a free copy of my ebook to supplement what you already have and make sure you have the necessary video links that you are looking for. Don’t worry, we’ll make sure you know everything you need to know on the subject. If you still have any questions after you’ve been through all of that let me know!
      x

      1. Thank you, Mr. Hussey! :) I really appreciate your personal reply, generosity and help! You are impressive! ;)

        Also, which hair products do you use? your hair looks fabulous!!!!!!!! I just want to brush my fingers through it! :P

  • Sorry Ed,matts right sunny car song;)Omgosh why are people so negative and angry?We should all know your crazy busy and anything you put out is awesome!Keep it up. X

  • I think its a song to aid any form of lazy reverie. Personally I would keep it for while driving too. Being a long distance follower I am exited about your big news myself.
    May be a great way to keep in touch would be to just post a video or a blog or story that you read or viewed and liked. Accompanied by may be a line or two of foot notes.Easy on your time and a great way to share ideas.

  • Thank you Matthew for your blogs, your pieces of advice and everything. It is very inspirational and useful.
    I am very very very happy to participate at your event in London at the end of May. About the song, definitely a song to chill out. Actually I will use it. Since I am an DJ for Argentine tango, I will play a small sequence of it as a “cortina musical” between two sets of tango and at the end of the dancing evening… Great song!
    Have a lovely day and see you soon in London
    Marie-Antonine

    1. Wow, how interesting! That’s so cool. You’ll have to send me a recording of one of your sets sometime, I used to be a DJ so always fascinated by other Djs.
      x

  • I think it’s great that you were honest about your thoughts on how FB/Twitter/Blogging are extra added tasks. Being a busy woman, all of those things for me are extra. So I get it. Thank you for your work, it is amazing. I’ve referred you to many. Be well, Shannon
    p.s. this song accompanied with good wine, friends, beach, and bonfire.. yeah that does it for me.

    1. Hey Shannon!
      Glad to hear you share the same thoughts. The actually love it when I’m doing it, it’s just hard to stay at it with the same intensity all the time, especially when running from seminar to seminar, or interviews etc etc. But we’ll keep pushing on and see what we can achieve.
      Have a great day lovely x

  • Holy crow, that’s a crazy busy life your living. And to answer all your comments yourself I’d have to say your pretty amazing. Not quite Super Man but pretty close (no sarcasm intended just fun) Mathew you have a great gift from God, being able to help so many women in a world where men rule all. I myself fall victim to men who just want sex and thing is, I believe them when they say come over and watch a movie so I do and then they are all over me. I’m a SBBW so lots of men want to sleep with me but not date me it’s been that way my whole life and I am sick of it. So when I started fallowing you, given I haven’t always been ontop of it, I learned more about the male mind so thank you! Maybe give the larger ladies a shout out about this situation I would so appreciate your thoughts because right now I am being very forward and saying I am not a girl who has sex on the first date I don’t believe in sex Untill your in love. Guys tell me me to and then pretty much rip off my shirt and say I’m inlove baby lets do it.

    1. hey Tyree! Thanks for being so honest in your comment. I think it’s vital to show your boundaries early on so that the guy can see there are read where he will have to take it slow with YOU, even if he doesn’t with OTHER women. The key is being playful at the same time as telling him to slow down. That way he’ll have respect for you but won’t feel too bruised to try again at some point later on (which you want of course in the long run!) x

  • Hi Matt,

    I wanted to take this opportunity to thank you for your videos with free advice in general. They are always very inspiring. You are such a natural speaker and your openness, candor and positive energy coming out of your videos is very uplifting and a real feel-good-factor. Luckily you are a human as all of us, having your own difficulties, makes it more easy to relate to you :-). Perfection is boring…

    And yes definitely a chill-out summer song :-).

    Have a great day everybody…

    1. Kristine, you are affirming everything I want to be. Thankyou so much. You inspire me to keep doing what i’m doing. I shall read this whenever I need a good enough reason to do another video x

  • Hi Matthew, guess what?

    You don’t suck at all, sweetheart – it’s just that you’re only human after all. Being a perfectionist is great, methinks; you have high expectations of yourself not only of others, and what’s better, you strive to live up to those high expectastions. This is right up there with being a high-value person all around, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that, is it?

    But you need to cut yourself some slack if sometimes you can’t be perfect… nobody can’t! Anyway, it’s always nice to hear your voice, see your lovely smile and get a useful dose of your high and oh-so-positive energy. Those of us who love you, love you no matter wot – plus you know what they say, absence makes the heart grow fonder and all that :-)

    1. Hey Alina,
      You’re very sweet, thank you. Well if absence has made the heart grow fonder just promise not to get sick of me if I start putting out a few more videos ok! x

  • You’re both wrong! That’s a morning coffee song as that’s what I’m doing now :) Great song choice, love it, cheers!

    Rachel

    1. Totally agree. Making coffee song. When i first heard it I closed my eyes and saw myself waking up in the morning, heading to the kitchen at a slow pace, moving my head to the rhythm of the music and preparing the best coffee, watching through the window how peaceful it is and felling relaxed before the clock strikes 7:30 and everything goes crazy.

      Matthew I´m glad you don´t post every 5 minutes, when i see that you post something I now that it´s gonna be fantastic and change my life. I believe quality it´s more important than quantity. Keep the good work and inspire us

      And agree that its a morning coffee song :))

  • Hey Matt , i got my first email from you and happy as a kid !

    Thank you very much for all your amazing videos ! And make the world better place by inspiring us every single day! Just following your Facebook updates makes my day even more beautiful :)! So consider yourself you doing very good job !

    This is absolutely summer song and you are the winner :).

    I have been meaning to ask for a long time that if you make any life events or give inspirational speechs to women who wants to achieve something bigger in their life ? ( not only to get the guy ) ( similar to the 21 convention ? )
    Xxx
    Oyu

    1. Thanks Oyu!
      The truth is my team are begging me to do other events, not just love life related: e.g. business related, goals related, etc etc. But I like doing few things well, so I’m doing my best not to stray too much. But if there’s overwhelming demand for one type of event in particular that is not love life related then I may just do it!
      x

  • Hey Matt! I was looking at the comments (I love reading comments) and noticed you responding… and then I realized that you have responded to virtually EVERY comment! I’m astounded. Comments take up a lot of time! I don’t know how you do it.

    Anyway, keep up the good work! I’ve got to say I’ve learned a lot from your blog here. It hasn’t gotten me a guy, but that’s my own “fault” since I’m looking for a very specific one. I don’t want to live the typical American Dream life– you know, picket fence, large house– I want to travel and teach in another country. There aren’t too terribly many guys who want to do that who I’m also attracted to, you know? But what you’ve written has helped me with advice for my friends, it’s helped my social skills in general, and I just wanted to say thanks and let you know I think you’re a really cool guy! You have a very approachable demeanor. (:

    Cheers!

    1. Haley what a lovely comment. Thankyou so much. The goal isn’t always getting the guy. In fact, I think the goal for all of us is to be happy, and we can do that inside or outside a relationship. But to be happy we have to feel like we’re growing. So whatever your result right now, as long as you’re growing then you’re achieving.

      Thanks so much for your support x

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