So a few weeks ago I put out my first Q&A video in a while.
And people loved it.
It’s always fun getting my hands dirty in women’s real-life dating problems, and I know you’ll get a ton of value when you watch this new blog video.
If you’re always stuck wanting to know what he really thinks, you’ll want to see this…
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I love that, Matt, when you omment on real questions…!
Hi,
I think this is interesting scenario discussed in the video because it can get really tricky to read people who deliver a service like baristas, sale staff or customer service support.
I work in customer service for an American company. This being said, I get paid to positive position and be nice to a mostly professional clientele/business people. In my job it should not be a surprise for customers that you are nice and professional.
Clients feel flattered and sometimes read into some taught behaviour because they are being acknowledged and listened to. I remember a training day where my trainer got a naughty look in his eye and started the presentation with: Here we KISS and have SEX with the customers! (chuckles followed from the group)
Meanings:
1. KISS = Keep it short and simple.
2. SEX = Smile, Eye Contact and the X is short for Excitement.
I have had men and women invite me to other events and made new friends by using the above 2 mentioned methods. Always keeping things HR appropriate!
I have found it is safe to assume a person likes/would like to know more about you if they ask for your details or give you some personal details like a number or tell you about a party or social event that they will be attending then TRY and convince you to go. :-D
Thanks for all the useful dating and life advise in general How to get the guy team! Looking forward to the pearls of wisdom to come in 2017. ;-) #teamworkmakesthedreamwork
Happy Holidays!
I want to sleep with him but this is the first date and I want to date him too because I quite like him and not just for sex. However I don’t want him to think that the only thing I’m interested in is sleeping with him and put him off from wanting to date me and beig interested in me. So should I sleep with him or at least show that I want to or should I not?
Do not sleep with him on the first date or that is all your relationship will be, a friendship with benefits.
Practice a little self control, a little patience and show him that you respect your self and him too much to short cut your relationship.
Hi. I watch this stoned and I think you are just so funny. Keep doing! It is nice to look from different perspectives :) Thanks!
Idk Matthew- I think if a guy really likes you he’will find a way – seems like she is doing all the work – I would step back see if he comes to me – it seemed as if she made the 1st move already twice she made a move. If a guy looks at me I smile and that’s about it – if he wants something bad enough he’ll find a way if he doesn’t want it bad enough he doesn’t want me. Maybe I’m just not in a hurry to meet someone like some of these women. If I miss a cute guy at the coffee shop I miss a cute guy at the coffee shop. There will be others – if I were her I would ignore him and see if he strikes up conversation next time. If he doesn’t even look at her or smile – move on! Just my 2 cents.
Pamela
Hi… I have a friend who has been a friend for years. Over the yrs he has brought flowers we’ve gone to lunch, got pizza and talk a couple times a week on phone..and when my daughter left for college he called and came over because he knew how hard it would be for me.
Well.. the other day I got a kiss – ok not just “a” and I was like wow where is this coming from.. ok I over thought it and sent a Tex. Where are we going or are we just friends…. claims he didn’t get it. Back again last night – conversation, tea and when he left — another wow… I’m not going to over think this any more but I’m like ok what is going on here…
I’m at the age (over 50) where this should get easier but it’s not…
Any thoughts?
Thank you….
Probably just missed it, but she did write that “Clark” always tries to say “hi” to her. That could be a pattern – a sign of his attempt to break through his shyness to make a connection.