The Real Truth: Why Men Stop Chasing You

There is a “deadly trap” women fall into when they first fall for a guy – and slowly but surely, it can drain his attraction.

So in this video, I’ll give you the brutally honest truth: Learn it now, take on the high-value behavior that keeps him hooked, and become much more than just his short-term fling…

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  1. Jane says:

    I had the perfect man for me for 37yrars my Hart brok he died I find myself think I don’t want to be alone for the rest of my life. I want to go out l don’t what some guy that wants to be looked after and sit at home all the time are some guy that just think I despite for sex. Just how the hell do you do this after all this time I don’t need to rush healing a Hart takes a long time but really the men iav meet is that it I can live on my own I just don’t whan to spend all my time that way

  2. Barbie keller says:

    He left me after 3 years of dating. I though I had found the one. I even stopped listening to you! Big mistake. I am fighting to get him back. I told him I feel like I’m groveling, I am. I don’t care. I’ll never find anyone like him: so devoted and kind. He has left the door open. I just need to end my platonic friendship with male housemate. Easier said than done. Do I keep trying?

  3. Mona says:

    Mr Mathew you thoughts are valuable

  4. Madhuvanti says:

    Super duper tips. Yesss Gals pls don’t behave as if the sky has fallen down. Have fun with your frends. Party. Keep urself busy in ur career. Let men know that u hv a life of own apart from them. Love yourself immensely. You urself are complete anywhichways. Don’t wait for a man’s voucher to validate you. Thanx Matthew for ur valuable insights

  5. Valentina says:

    Thank you very much for these videos. Really glad I watched them tonight. Looking forward to putting me out there and winning ❤️

  6. Mutale Chisanga says:

    So true the love fades off because we stop doing all those activities we use to do together

  7. Mel says:

    Can u pls help???
    I have been out of the dating seen since my marriage ended 3 years ago.
    I would like a new relationship but due to health issues am a larger lady age 43.
    I lack self confidence pls HELP!!

  8. Rhonda Barr says:

    Hi,I’m 58 years old and a widow of 5 yrs. I’ve been too embarrassed to see a couple of men that I did date 23 years ago and they have asked me out but I just went through stage 4 rectal cancer and in remission now. I feel like I look older but feeling like I am am 38 again. I am afraid my X’s will think OMGoodness!, she looks old!
    I’m not ugly and I am a country girl. never been on a dating site but interested in “Farmers
    What do you think about that?

  9. Cristi says:

    Been with my BF for 4 years. Have had ups and downs. Lately way more downs than ups. Lost my job, he’s working hard at real estate but no income yet. Struggling massively financially. He told me last night he can’t decide if he should stay or leave. He’s unsure of me. That he can’t figure me out. Now today I was in a car accident. I wrecked my only transportation (he helped finance) and instead of being concerned about me he was raging about how irresponsible I am and how I’ve screwed us financially and will now be looking for a new place to live because I was so irresponsible . I told him I was angry that instead of showing a tiny bit of empathy or concern or standing by the side of the person you supposedly cared about you’d just rather bail and leave. That when things get really hard his solution is to run away. I’m crushed, hurt and just plain depressed. I already felt like a total dumbass for getting in an accident. But now I feel a thousand times worse as I know he is leaving me. I just feel like I’ve stepped off of a cliff and I can’t get things to stop.

  10. Upwealthy says:

    So helpful. Thanks for sharing.

  11. Edna domo says:

    I am so blessed to have known and discovered Matthew Hussey’s videos. For many years, I have been struggling with depression from unrequited love. Seeing more of his videos is reall helpful. Thank you so much for being such a wonderful life coach!

  12. Marita Roth says:

    Thank you Matt – again something i needed to be reminded about!

  13. Lynn says:

    I really love all your videos and the advice you give, but what happens if you have already done everything wrong? I mean, what if he has already stopped chasing me and disappeared? What do I do then?? I’m really desperate for some help!

  14. Shivani says:

    The animated version was so cool ! Had a lot of fun watching it :)
    Big hi-5 to the team !!

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  16. Nell Simpson says:

    I love this one Matthew

  17. Elizabeth says:

    This video brought warmth to my heart. Thank you Matthew!

  18. Brittany says:

    I loved the video, and the cartoon was adorable. Matthew Hussey, you are a genius!!! Keep up the good work.

  19. pia says:

    great animation! nice variety to the usual talk. Thanks for keeping things interesting

  20. Cecelia says:

    The thing that bothers me is that guys like to chase me and then they make the move to ask for my number … when I give them more access to me with either my number to call or text or email to use an app like kik they never make the move … what am I doing wrong …

  21. Terri says:

    Cartoon version is creative & fun!
    He’s not going to give up his friends, nights out with the boys and sports. You shouldn’t either!! Love yourself first.


  22. Annie says:

    OMG! So true! My situation was very similar but with a twist. My marriage ended because my ex didn’t want me to do the things I used to do for myself before we were married (workout or spend time with friends). He didn’t get bored of me though he was perfectly content with our relationship, I left him.

  23. Manda says:

    Love the cartoon version

  24. Ha says:

    One of the most important videos you did Mathew! Such a central issue! Thanks!

  25. Julie MacKenzie says:

    So true…..don’t give up the things you love to do for your partner. That’s why he fell in love with you in the first place. Like you said Matthew…”Don’t get lazy in your relationship”… makes so much sense. ;)

  26. Fiona says:

    Wow, so beautiful. Loved seeing the emotions across the girls face and feeling the love between them grow. Well done the animators.

  27. kellee marie morris says:

    these basic reminders of how to hold our ground and remain in our center and confident in the face of the temptation to be accomodating are tools for the empowerment of our essential being. Thank you for these nuggets of wisdom Matt, they are worth their weight in gold and are a constant source of guidance in assistng us to truly know what we are worth from within and this means we can do without unless the bloke understands and dances with the possibility of knowing that the woman who holds to a high standard is an acknowledgement of the potential of the standard in him. If they can’t see their own potential to be a worthwhile man, they are not worth our time. I get it! I am learning. Thank you

  28. Lizbeth says:

    This is so true, before u find him, u do everything in your power to attract them but after that things just change, but thank you for reminding me that I have to continue being me

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