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The Major RED FLAG You Should Never Ignore in a Man…

It’s so easy to ignore all the warning signs from men.

You like him. He has a good career. You have amazing sexual chemistry. But there are things that you know make him wrong for a relationship:

  • His wandering eye…
  • His emotional withdrawal…
  • His selfish, narcissistic behavior…

If you’ve ever been tempted to stay with a guy despite everything your gut tells you, please watch this video now, before you do anything else today.


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103 Replies to “The Major RED FLAG You Should Never Ignore in a Man…”

  • Dear Matthew, I’m new to relationships as I always thought the guy I’ll meet, he will be an arranged marriage. I met a guy online and I felt attracted to him with my brain and I was taking my brain along with me. He has been asking to meet or for me to send a photo of me and I really don’t feel like I want to do that just yet. I don’t feel I want him to know how I look like or me to know how HE looks like as I always feel I lose my interest in any guy after I see their photos (even handsome ones, I’d find a fault in them if I did not feel the instant loss of interest)

    In you video, u spoke about the fantasise, well I feel I’m imposing the perfect gentleman that I created in my head on any guy I meet. So I know about this part very well. Which is why I’m taking my brain every step of the way with this one and I don’t want to mess things up with him, but I also don’t want to give up too much from my perfect gentleman as there are fundamental and I won’t accept any less.

    Now I feel I’m gonna have a really tricky conversation with him to slow things down and voice out my needs and what I expect of the relationship moving forward, but I was thinking I probably would face hard time with him as he always has a way to make me feel guilty, or silly or a drama queen, while I believe that what I demand (like slowing things down a bit as I feel that my feelings isn’t catching up and I need to think things through to make sure it’s right for me) are reasonable and rational (too rational sometimes it bugs me). But he complains sometimes that I think too much and ask (so u say u don’t want this?) Or if there is something I know he knows is not acceptable at that stage of the relationship to say (hints to phone sex) he would go (why? That’s normal)

    I feel we can be suited for each other if we put efforts into it, as we both share things in common, but … is that all? Like, should I go on in this relationship cuz of this only? While ignoring other things that I feel are alarming just for the sake of not losing what we have?

    I don’t know, we’l see what happens,,

    Thanks for this video, it was what I needed to hear

  • Dear Matthew, it is always very refreshing and helpful to watch your videos. your videos are responsable for my latest laughlines in my face. I always have a big smile when i watch them.

  • I totally agree with your comments! But I was so distracted by your shirt, I was rather small for your shoulder, you should be carefull with that!

  • Hi Matthew
    after that bookseries was so prevalent I went to local library to borrow the first book. I wanted to know what made that book so a beststeller.
    After the first -dont know 10?- pages that book felt out of my hands. I felt pure nausea and my heart went down. Not because of any content I`ve read but knowing that there was such a broad agreement on the concept.
    -A woman of such low selfesteem shall be a mirror or a rolemodel? -A man of zero empathy being presented as a example of success and subject of wildest dreams?
    I am truly glad that you state firmly from an experts and male the point of view that the hidden truth behind the blindening form in which it is presented is harmful and not something to be swallowed just because its popular to do so.
    You`re a rockstar. Thank you. Lin

  • Matt, it is so refreshing to hear a guy get why these urban myth-type movies are so outrageous compared to real life/the real world. You nailed it. The guy always comes around/is in the movies, but almost never off screen. I believe it gives false hope and puts unrealistic expectations on people/men who are actually being quite clear on who they are and what they want. We should listen vs. hope our actions and/or intentions can change someone and what they are looking for.

  • Matt, you ARE funny. In fact, you are hilarious. I loved the cold vanilla ice cream quip. I think you should just keep on pushing the envelope.

  • Fucken Matthew you made me cry! Lol Thank you. That quote really hit me. It it’s a reality we need to face sometimes. A childhood friend of mine stayed in a relationship with a man for 12 years where he focused on his needs and wants and ignored hers. In that time they never lived together or had children. Zero signs of wanting to commit. In the past year she’s been trying to put the pieces together. I too have feelings and great chemistry with a man who is afraid of commitment, but thank you for your words as they reminded me of how I don’t want to go through what my friend did. PS vanilla is awesome. You can add other toppings to make it even better!!!!

  • Thank you so much. I want all young women to hear this message loud and clear. I wasted 30years with a man trying to get him emotionally and physically to connect. At the end I realized I was only trying to paste on arms and legs to a man who did not have nor want to emotionally connect in a meaningful relationship. Girls you’re beautiful. Don’t waste your time and youth to only be worn out and lonely. Strive For your change and you will at least look in the mirror with respect and love for yourself.

  • the movie isn’t even sexy. There seems like zero chemistry between the actors.

    i like eating in bed… Maybe with slightly less enthusiasm

  • MH you are super hot and DO NOT need shaded of grey or any other weirdness. Plus I think this shit is put out by the Illuminati to fray and pervert our civil society. Women suffer more violence in our society and the statistics show it. How about movies that model mutual respect.

    Lisa

  • Thank you so much Matthew for this video today, it’s like you knew exactly what I needed to hear. I walked away last night from a relationship that I have been trying to save with a man who was not worth saving it for. As I sat here wondering if I should call your video popped up in my email and renewed my faith that I had finally done the best thing for myself. So thank you a million times over, you made a a bad day much better.

  • I broke up with my ex bf a few days ago, he was a liar, unfaithful and unloyal…dated 1yr 3months… And I don’t plan to get back with him anytime soon, Maybe will consider him when he matures and is older but hopefully will find someone else before then..but he is still clingy and keeps chasing me and Hasn’t changed his FB status and actually puts our pics in his cover and profile ….dont know what to do he said even tho I don’t like it that he still uploads pics of us that his heart still desires and told me he will give me my time and will ask me out again when he matures…not sure if I want that though

  • Hiya Matthew, ive listened to a few of your videos hoping I could find out how to get rid of men, I have three ex’s who just won’t leave me to be. One ex from 22yrs ago, one from 17yrs and another from 5yrs ago. These are the years we are not together from. Two years ago I met a wonderful man, I would like to move forward with him but although I have moved several times my ex’s find out where and will move to the same town as me. I have always felt uneasy about this as does my boyfriend, please, I hope you can help me, I feel ive been cursed and tried everything but nothng helps, thank you wendy

    1. Wendy, go grey stone on the exes – ignore them completely when you see them. Just walk past them, get into your car and go. Block them from FB, then change your name, email addres, and profile pictures on FB.
      Some exes are stalkers and you must take radical steps to obliterate them from your life.

  • Hey Matt!
    Thanks for your insights! I’m currently in a relationship with a guy, but it is still quite fresh and I wonder if I went into it too soon! I feel the more I get to know him, the more I see our differences, especially when it comes to interests! He is a very sporty guy and goes to the gym more or less everyday, and I can’t hardly drag myself to yoga class once a week. I have a lot of interests, and thinks I enjoy doing, while he seem to only be interested in football (both watching and playing), going to the gym, smoking weed and partying. He also works nights so our rhythms are very different. When we are together we usually just smoke, cook, watch something and have sex (sometimes).

    I love sex, and would like it more or less everyday, while he sometimes come with comments saying I’m a sex addict and so on. I get turned off by that, and I don’t want to push myself on him. I feel like he don’t want me or he just takes me for granted so I have stopped encouraging sex and wait for his initiative instead. Result? We didn’t have sex for almost 5 days!

    I feel I’m loosing more and more interest in him, because he is always so reluctant. I don’t really miss him anymore either, earlier I would think of him alot and looking forward to our next meeting. I’m getting bored by him, and he need to step up his game. I do love him though, he is the nicest, kindest guy I have dated ever, and we do laugh a lot. I just feel we are getting stuck in boyfriend/girlfriend mood, taking each other for granted, not doing exciting stuff!

    I want him to ask me out, do something cool, but I seem to be the one always having to bring up “alternative” things to do. How can I make him take initiative more?

  • I think the other big fantasy is — a GAZILLIONAIRE incredibly handsome guy (think: Bill Gates crossed with JFK, Jr.) wants to take care of her the rest of her life and buy her all kinds of crap (Audi, laptop, rare books, etc), so she never has to work the rest of her life!

    I wouldn’t dismiss the whole financial/pay for everything, buy her whatever she wants — in a BIG WAY! — angle.

    Oh, and she’s a complete innocent who gets to eat WHATEVER SHE WANTS AND NEVER GAINS AN INCH!!! (another fantasy)

  • Brilliant and so honest. Women need to hear this matthew, you are caring and concerned for women, i totally respect you as a life coach/dating expert because this shows how much you care…this video is soooo true…i speak from experience.
    Blessings.

  • If only I had understood this 30 years ago…
    As always, highly informative and entertaining, but please drop the creepy background music.

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