It’s so easy to ignore all the warning signs from men.
You like him. He has a good career. You have amazing sexual chemistry. But there are things that you know make him wrong for a relationship:
- His wandering eye…
- His emotional withdrawal…
- His selfish, narcissistic behavior…
If you’ve ever been tempted to stay with a guy despite everything your gut tells you, please watch this video now, before you do anything else today.
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50 shades is a pathetic movie about coersive sex. About a guy being comfortable pushing a woman beyond what she wants and thinking its okay. It would be rape if she was not attracted to him….. Christian is a presumptious asshole…..who uses her affection to manipulate her
Matthew,
Your consistency is refreshing. It’s encouraging to witness, albeit through this medium, the strong character of a man who is vulnerable and wants good – Keep steadfast and thank you!
FYI Matthew, vanilla does not mean boring at all lol. Just means that bdsm is not your lifestyle.
Lol!!! Mathew is funny:D and yes he is very right, it is too risky to invest in someone and hoping he will change after he has told you the kind of relationship he wants, been there done that it didn’t work.
OMG, Matt. You are so goofy. Such a guy, goofy guy. As unattractive as you tried to make yourself I still had very naughty thoughts about what I wanted to do with you. Moving on…you said “Just because it’s simple doesn’t mean it’s boring” I use ‘boring’ which means something really wonderful to me and it gives others the wrong impression. My life is so hectic right now: working 60 hours a week, coming home and attending to my home, my finances, my body, my mind and soul, and having a social life. All on my own and I don’t have the luxury of having an assistant like someone I know. Boring to me means the second part to the ‘bliss point’. Where I can relax, be totally out of my head and silly with the person I love. The sweet to my salty. Oh yeah, the books and movie’s. You are not wrong because you are coming from the viewpoint of a coach that wants only the best for his followers. My take is different. Of course I read the books. Not true, because I was so bored with the third I couldn’t finish. I could barely finish the second. But, it’s entertainment with kinky sex. She wants the sex with him. Don’t kid yourself. That’s why she rejected everyone else-she would have been disappointed. He gave her those ultimatums because he was testing her. Men say and do things that get a response from the one they are interviewing for their life partner. This is a story of transformation and change (with a lot of kinky sex) and they both need each other/love each other.
But vanilla makes things taste very good!! Far from boring!! Very essential and yummy! Lol
I love vanilla! I love simplicity too.
And I love you Matt! This vid is perfect for me at the moment.
Thank you so much.
I wish, like when two ends of a magnet of same poles powerfully repel, that we would have a way to strongly repel against that which was wrong for us. Thank you for these Red flags. Some more like these might be helpful for those of us risking the capital of our life, the ever ticking precious time.
Hey this video was really helpful. I usually tend to acknowledge and then ignore red flags which of course doesn’t lead to healthy relationships. For the first time I am really trying to work on my codependency and be single to better myself so that when I do meet the right guy I am ready. And I just wanted to thank for you for your sincere and nonjudgemental encouragement.
I think this is one of the BEST videos you have made yet. I agree with 100% of your words. I have been in a relationship like this before.
Thank you for delivering this all too important message. It’s at the heart of self-respect and self-love. I feel your sincere desire to help people. Fantastic content.
Incredibly valuable information, incredibly well said. I am in complete agreement with each word, great job!
I have made this wager with very bad outcomes! Totally agree with this video and I think it’s also important to know that just bc someone says that they want to change doesn’t mean they really want to unless you’re seeing actions to back up the words! Thanks Matthew!
Come to México
Your acting is wonderful. Your Australian accent is perfect. Matthew, please come to Australia. You’re welcome in my backyard anytime ;-)
LOVE the “One-Day Wager”, so much truth.
And your hair looks amazing in this video!
I love this video and it totally and absolutely true that one day wager is totally risky and not worth the time to invest into..I totally believe the other path should be the way and better chance and better option..I love the quote given and it really a profound reminder to all of us…Thank you so much for this video…
I once went on a date with a guy I met in the library when 50 shades was for ‘unknown reasons’ a popular read, not yet an Movie. Unsolicited, he volunteered he had been reading it to “know what women want”, He took my hand to lead me to where he told me I would be sleeping. I pulled away, contained my anger, swiftly departed without pleasantries. Not only did the fifty shades book fail keeping my interest in any part in a bookstore. But I now couldn’t even watch the Porn version I purchased in my local adult DVD haunt so at least I could relate to something good in what the rest of our Clinically Crazy society was enthusiastically approving of. Damn that whacko craze for ruining the lighthearted Industry of adult entertainment.
Alas, It’s been a few years but I’m beginning to be confident now of dating again. Being Single is great, its fun, but if one day I meet a great unique guy. I hope I recognise him and I hope I say the right things and make his life better((Miracles Happen)) So, Mathew and the team, I enjoy your bravery of bringing fun back into a crazy world of psychopaths.