Maybe it’s happened to you before: you knew you kind of liked a guy, but then he did one special move that made your heart do a triple back flip – now you are crazy about him.
How does this happen??
It’s not about fancy tricks, it’s about understanding this secret of deep, lasting attraction…
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One man years ago drew an adorable smiley face in the fog on my rear window. As soon as I saw it when I backed up, I had a HUGE serge of attraction. It truly is about the little things.
One of the things that made me fall for this guy was the moment when we were in a disagreement; the way that he carried himself in the conversation that made me respect him for his values and the way that he told me he still cared for me during the argument.
When he said your not going to hurt me are you? I said are you going to hurt me. We ended up hurting each other. I’d do anything to get him back. I love him.
The first time I met him I had devil ears on. I walked in and we shook hands and I fell for him right then. Later I put the devil ears on him. Wish he would come back.
THE moment that I began to “fall for him” was when he went clothes shopping with me AND took a smaller sized dress back out to exchange it for a larger one while I was in the dressing room.
I ran ahead of him when he was carry packages to open the door for him
I’m in a music group with this guy i kinda liked and i watched him teaching another musician a part with such kindness and patience and not patronizingly even though this guy is basically a genius! I was totally sold after that!
Few weeks ago I was with a guy That I’m seeing. I wasn’t feeling well so I ended up staying over his place. Usually I’m alone when I am not feeling well. He placed me in the bed and proceeded to hug me from A spoon position and stated I’ll protect you. As soon as he said that a big sigh of relief just came off of my shoulders and that’s when I realize that I’m not alone And I have someone watching over me.
I knew a guy who was the organizer at a meditation retreat. When I saw how much attention and care and effort he put into making sure everyone’s needs were taken care of, and how he exuded love, positivity and warmth whilw dealing with multiple people and demands, my heart melted for him.
One guy protected my friend and I on the dance floor the first time we went out. He literally (and tactfully) escorted the drunk/aggressive dudes away from us, every time. And he was dancing like a rockstar the entire time. There’s nothing like a guy who can lose himself on the dance floor all night long.
I also felt a guy get super attracted to me when I told him I was collecting some leftover food from our work to give to a homeless man I saw the night before on a walk. The guy just said, in a soft and surprised tone, “wow, that’s so sweet,” and I just knew his heart opened to me a bit more.
A man came over to my house for dinner. While I was finishing cooking he asked me if there was anything around the house he could fix for me.
This video was one of the best I’ve watched- it really does sum up what attraction is for me. And I think people are so wrapped up is cosmetic appearance they forget about the worth and character of someone. Awesome video.
One night, we were having a heated argument, he didn’t want to continue it.We were quite..He put his headset and turned towards me and said “if u want to say something just touch me I am listening music”.It is very little but truly the little thing.
I felt really attracted to him when he helped picking up my mobile/important belongings when my two hands were full and waited by my side as I was washing my hands post lunch/dinner until I finished…
A guy I recently dated invited me to come over after my friends and I went out to dinner. He was watching a film I’d never seen before and it was half way over. He grabbed the remote and said “let’s watch it together”. He didn’t care that he had just seen the majority, he started it again. It was a musical too and he kept saying “I know it’s cheesy, but I love cheesy.”
We were quiet***
I would leave for work in the morning and find little “love notes” left under the wipers on my car telling me to have a great day and how much he cared about me and couldn’t wait to see me again.
The moment I realized I was attracted to him was when after he said something I didn’t like. I didn’t realize I was pouting until he started laughing at me.
I fell even harder after I sent him an angry email. I was a jerk. He replied firmly, but with respect and class.
I fell hardest when he told me how much he appreciated a gift I had given him. It was nothing big, but it spoke to his interests. He made it seem like it was the most perfect gift in the world. I couldn’t look at him as I turned beet-red.
I don’t know if we will ever date, but I really like him.
My boyfriend spent the night at my apartment. The next morning I left for work before he did. When I came home I saw that he had done my dishes. To me that was the most thoughtful, caring, and generous thing someone could have done for me!
I’ve been dating this guy for 3 weeks and we were on a bus full of people, there was a little boy and his Granma in front of us and he didn’t take his look off him, he was so cute and doing funny stuff. My date was smiling looking at the little boy
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