Why Love Advice Doesn’t Work For You… Yet

The average woman who reads dating advice (yep, even mine, sadly), will never make it work. Why?

Because this kind of woman doesn’t have a system to make herself feel in an attractive mindset when the right guy does come along.

In this video, I’ll show you what really makes you attractive in the long term, and how you can learn this system to bring out your best self whenever you need to when dating…


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35 Replies to “Why Love Advice Doesn’t Work For You… Yet”

  • Loved this video.
    I agree, when I’m in a good mood, happy, have that little zip in my step things are easier. But working 2 jobs, taking care of my house, my yard and my other responsibilities I’m finding I don’t have the energy for a relationship. Or maybe I just haven’t found the person that brings me energy. Still lookin and thank you. You give me a lot of positive thoughts. Take care

  • I ordered get him running back. . Well. He ran. . Yep. Right to his new girlfriens home,moved in with her. YEP!!! He sold hois house. Sent me the nastyist text then changed his. Phone number.
    IT killed me and what’s worst . She.ouves. / he they live 2 blocks away ..Omg . I. GUNNA die .

  • I appreciate all the work you, Matthew, and your team are putting in action. Every video is genuine, new, conveys important ideas and is really helpful for everyone who is aware of how important internal structure is. Your videos have huge impact on my life. Thank you all, so much! ^_^

  • i simply just love you, matthew. this video has the truest message i’ve heard this week. i feel so much more in control of all my relationships now because i can focus more in the moment, when i‘m interacting with friends, lovers, co-workers, family and strangers, i‘m actualy there and want to bring the best out of me (simply just to feel even better). and all of that is just possible now that i‘m in peace with myself, i know where i want to go, i got rid of bagage that was keeping me behind, i‘m so happy for all i have and so excited for all there is to come. i want to grab every challange that will let me grow and i feel there is little to be scared about. one needs to find excitement in life, feel all the depths there are, the sad and the beautiful parts. live life the fullest, be there. be courious, have compassion, let go, enjoy yourself, breath. all the rest will come automatically. so much love for all your honesty and unbelivable amount of kindness you show by giving so much wisdom for free to the world. following you for two years now and it had from time to time a BIG inpact on my life. i will never be able to show you my entire appreciation so for now just this: so damn much love to you and your team! you’re important!! xx

  • Great message in this video. It really is about loving and taking care of yourself so there is a good foundation there for someone else to love.

  • Wow, thanks Matt, this one really hit home for me. I’ve been feeling really flat for a few months now but have still been able to pull out positive interactions when the need arises, otherwise, however, I’ve been unable to sustain this feeling and stay out of my own head. My confidence has dwindled to a level I’ve not experienced before and it has certainly stopped me from being able to give back in any of my relationships. It wasn’t until I watched this week’s video that it clicked into place for me. Thank you, now I have a game plan.

  • Wow, thanks Matt, this one really hit home for me. I’ve been feeling really flat for a few months now but have still been able to pull out positive interactions when the need arises, otherwise, however, I’ve been unable to sustain this feeling and stay out of my own head. My confidence has dwindled to a level I’ve not experienced before and it has certainly stopped me from being able to give back in any of my relationships. It wasn’t until I watched this week’s video that it clicked into place for me. Thank you, now I have a game plan.

  • I just have to say Wow!!! It’s amazing that whenever I struggle with something or see a pattern around me that I don’t understand or is confusing to me, I get a video like this!!! And there is the light bulb! Thank you Matthew so much for shining light on this so very important truth! You are truly an effective teacher, who is not afraid to share his hiccups, implements the process and embodies the solution. Beautiful!!!:)

  • What a truly empowering piece of video and I am indeed happy for you that you have the ability and self awareness to get your life back on track when the wheels come off. I wish everyone did -why do we not teach this stuff in schools??? I think your comment above re:dating advice and having the right mindset applies equally to men and women. Lovely way to start a Sunday!

  • Microattraction is why people who work in service industries and have developed good customer service are always getting asked out. They have better personal interactions, they are generous and service oriented and polite. (If they weren’t they would get fired.)

  • I left my bf in August, We had contacts till January. I didnt send him an angry message or anything else since january. He texted me a few times, asked her mom to contact me, and a few days ago when he was back from a one month holiday he came to the stop where i get off after work, we talked, i regret that! Am so angry at myself for doing that. He didnt listen to ke when i needed. Due to my visa we have to be somehow in contact for at least 7-8 months. And some of my stuff is still at his place. He again wants to meet to talk more. What to do if he comes again to the train stop or to my work?
    I think i was in an abusive relation. I have been in confusion for most of the time when in the relation and after breaking up, of whether he loved me or not. I can’t forgive myself to be with that guy. He told me so many lies.can u pls tell What to tell to hurt a guy? For real! Some ppl deserve that! I wish there was a court for emotional abuse.

  • Absolutely!
    I was nodding while listening to your words, Matt – thanks for reconfirming.
    I’m in reconstruction myself, and it feels so good.
    I’m now back to being on time with my projects, which gives me time to take care for myself.
    I remember again how binging of any kind leads to an out of control, out of character life.
    Yes, I’m smiling – my character is being building :)

  • Very wise points, Matt. Great analogy of the Operating System, and wonderful reminder that the foundation of outward behaviour is the inner work we do for ourselves.

    This video is so timely for me. I’ve been feeling like I’m just going through the motions for months now, and your video shines a light for me, that I haven’t been focusing on my routine, self care, and core confidence as much as I should be. Thank you for the reminder of what I need to do to update my “operating system.” Love this!

  • Nothing I do is working lately he is pushing me away again I know I love him and trust him but I don’t know what I’m doing to make him push away I can’t even think straight right now wish I could actually talk to u on phone

  • Sometimes I can’t believe you manage to think so competently about these things. Thanks for the work you put into perceiving and articulating the causal relationships in our lives.

  • You are simply amazing and you have helped me to improve my life in many beautiful ways. I don’t believe in mentors, but if I did, you’d be the one. ‘Till then, you’re a great source of inspiration and you add value and give answers to many questions that have followed me over the years.
    Thank you! Never stop doing this, cause you’re awesome! :)

  • Matt, over the years, you have made so many insightful videos but what you have put here it is really something else!! It condensed so many years of evolved wisdom and I’m really grateful you did it! Nobody else could have put it this way, ever.
    The day I meet you in Seattle you spoke for so many hours and still had the energy to threat anyone with deep and sincere appreciation. When, at the end of the seminar, I told you how happy I was in my relationship, thanks to your advice, you hugged me so gratefully and it felt so GENUINE!! To this day, that memory makes me so happy! Like you said, being on that state is not easy it does take hard work. But if we are not able to do this for ourselves the world is gonna miss us and thats something we can’t afford doing it to ourselves or to the people we love.
    I really wish I can make it to your retreat one day. Until then, you really need to know how much of an positive impact you had in my life just by being yourself and I really wish the world always gives back to you the love you give away so generously.
    And by the way, I’m really happy for you and Camila and hoping it is true. She is an amazing person and so talented!! . I really hope you both have a great future together!!

  • I’m probaly really inexperienced with all this stuff figured I should start learning early. But I have a question thats pretty personal. How do you create these thing or even just become self confident when you suffer from depression? How do you even move past that to become your best self. A lot of this stuff works for those that are ready not for those who are already in the self hatred and dark places.

  • This was SO insightful and true. I have felt that way so many times. When I’m in a good state ( mentally, physically, emotionally ) – I am MY BEST SELF.

    When I’m not in a good state – those parts of my personality go away. It’s like the light goes out. SO true! And working on myself and taking care of myself and what’s important to me – turns the light back on :)

    Thank you, Matthew. You speak very eloquently and you put a lot of love into what you do. Namaste :)

  • Lol. It would not take 60 seconds to call my mum! I have never had a phone conversation that hasn’t lasted at least 5mins and usually more like 10!!! :) it takes a bout 2mins just to say goodbye!!! We are both talkers! Lol.

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