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  1. kim says:

    It looks great well done for all your hard work and helping people! I would love to hang out with you, there seems to be nothing that you don’t think of.

  2. Mica says:

    Wow! Such an inspiration Matthew – fantastic job!! By the way, did I notice some excerpts from your own tv show there ..? If not, I think that would make an amazing idea for one (helping us to get those guys!) Keep up your brilliant work!! :D

  3. Marielle says:

    Hi Matthew! I coincidently bumped into your videos and just wanted to thank you after watching, like, nearly all of them. I have to confess that I have been more of a ‘waiter’, expecting love to just happen to me (and obviously it doesn’t). In all other areas in my life I try to challenge myself, trying new sports, do things that scare me that enable me to grow in confidence, challenging myself creatively, travel the world, starting up a business, studying etc, but somehow I thought that wouldn’t apply to love. You just made a mental shift happen in my head. Over the last days I have already been conversing in a more pleasant way (I used to assume people are not genuinely interested by asking simple closed questions, while I now realize that it is my own responsibility to make a conversation fun). Sometimes I will randomly talk to people, but normally only if I ‘feel’ the spontaneous moment. After reading the article in your last post, I now am going to try to step it up a bit and step out of my comfort zone more in this area. Your advice has been encouraging, thanks :)

  4. dawn harrison says:

    enjoyed watching this very positive attitude! all very well in your 20s and 30s to have this strategy and a social life! but when u spent uve sent 15 years on your own bringing up children and now your in your 40s with no social life, its not going to work, going up to men and chatting them, up they look at you as if your desperate or mad! you cant get away with this once u hit the big 40s it dont work !!!

    • Matthew says:

      Not true Dawn! I have women on my live programmes who are in their 50s and 60s who will tell you otherwise!!! YOU ARE YOUNG! No excuses : )
      Matthew x

  5. swati says:

    Wow More power to you :)

    This is brilliant, so amazing.

    Now please be a sweetheart and do an online workshop or a recording.

    Or make your clones and send them to different countries for women like me who can’t come to UK.

  6. Raquel says:

    First, I second the requests for a DVD for those of us outside of the UK, and thanks Matt for the free advice!

    Second, TO JAMIE WHO WROTE ABOUT THE LOSER B/F WHO DUMPED YOU: I can’t believe you’re taking all the blame for someone who was obviously unreliable and untrustworthy, and I also can’t believe you’d even consider going back with him. I know this is harsh, but you should be glad he left, don’t see it as him seeing something “bad” in you, it could be the very opposite, that he realized he was NOT good enough for you. So, use this as a lesson to pay better attention to red flags in the future, standing you up repeatedly because of work is NOT a valid excuse coming from a grown man who supposedly cares. Please do your best to forget this loser ASAP and when ready get back out there. Expect to be treated with more respect in the future and DON’T settle for less!

    Best wishes from an older woman who at least knows how she wants to be treated!

  7. Marlene says:

    LOVE IT!!!!

  8. cindy says:

    WOW! It’s amazing!

  9. Ntebo says:

    Hey Matt
    Can I call you Matt, anyway I like the Showreel. Did not think your that famous, well done. And love the showreel,good stuff.

  10. Barbara says:

    Hi fussey bitch here dropping a line to say ‘love the showreel’ and I’m taking your advice and dialing down my ‘fussey-ness’….think I have found him or at least the best opportunity at happiness in a loooooooooooooong time :)

  11. Alice says:

    Congratulations on your success -I’m sure it’s well deserved :)

    I’ve been watching your videos for a while and I find them funny, informative and encouraging – ptopably it’s great to have a support from “the enemy line” ;) but what seems to make your couching most valuable is your attempt to help self convidence in women. Including me. Thank you, thank you, thank you for that.

  12. Evelin says:

    Hello Matthew,

    I love your new showreel it was great!! I just have to say that you really are an inspiration and my sisters and I we love your videos and your encouragement is just really amazing!! I personally wish I was in London to attend one of your secret of attraction event or weekend seminars.Iam soo wishing you could come to Miami and coach us I know so many woman in the same position as me who want to find that special someone in their life but find it difficult.

    Best wishes Evelin a.k.a Miami fan =D

  13. K.ryn says:

    Hey Matt,

    Just reviewed the video link you sent and I found it great and very dynamic it does spread the right energy, well done! I did attend one of your seminar a month ago and will definitely do the coaching with you – Let me know if you can do personalise it.

    All the best and may 2012 be the most creative one! ;)

    ps. I liked Glamour’s article.

  14. Jules says:

    Wait or create, haha love it! Good work Matthew you’re positivity is infectious. Lots of Love all the way from Australia x

  15. Ines says:

    Your advice is amazing!
    Hearing it, it seems so easy to do…and in fact it is, but we just need the courage to change our lives and really create the love life we want!

    We do have to create new opportunities all the time, say “yes” to a lot of new experiences and off we go ;-)
    Matthew you make us understand guys at least a little bit…thank you!
    I already spread the news to other female friends…

    I hope 2012 will bring you even much further in your career, you really deserve it!

    Really hope to come over to London to experience one of your seminars myself!

  16. Michele says:

    Hi Matthew,

    I love your new showreel it was great! I always go for what I want in a guy, knowing that some great guy is NOT going to fall out the sky and approach me so I do the approaching. sometimes it works, sometimes NOT, guys are kinda scared/shy sometimes so it’s been a journey for sure. I will never give up looking for “my guy” I know he’s out there somewhere and hopefully he’ll be as HOT as you are! : )

  17. Martina says:

    It’s amazing!! i really love the video!

    and you’re so right! We have to work for the life we want, just waiting is not going to bring us anywhere. But i never get myself to really DO anything. i don’t really know what i’m afraid of and it’s really annoying. when it comes to speaking with guys i’m just horrible.

    but thanks for all of your videos! they helped me a lot to get to know my problems and i’m sure they will help me to be strong and confident enough to do something against it in the future!

    great video – great work! :)


  18. Jamie says:

    Hi Matt,

    Congratulations on your success, you deserve it. I believe the tips you encourage women to follow are fantastic and really promote such heathy and empowering qualities and I try my best to follow them as much as I possible.

    However, after using your tips I finally found myself in a long term, committed relationship that I was content with, until earlier this month when it ended under the most peculiar of circumstances…
    Jason, my partner, was ‘running late’ due to ‘work’ and was supposed to be meeting me at my parents house to celebrate my mother’s birthday. I had spoken to him on the phone late in the afternoon and he said he’d still be there, only later than expected, and that he loved me. At this point in the relationship he had, more than once, failed to arrive on occasions he said he would but in his job he is often on call and he didn’t always have a way to contact me in time to let me know, but he’d always call as soon as he could to tell me what was happening, (in saying that I was well aware and had confronted him on the fact that he was a compulsive lier at times, to the point of making up stories that had no effect on anything just so that he had something interesting to say, which I naively excused). The night progressed and he never arrived and never called. The next morning I was beginning to worry so I called him and sent a text, no answer or reply. thinking maybe he’d been called out to work (as has happened before) and had lost or forgotten his phone, I went to his house after work, he wasn’t there. After 3 days of absolutely no contact and no answer from him or his family when I tried to contact them, I was extremely worried and decided to contact authorities. They were extremely helpful and informed me that he was alive and well, he had been to work every day since I’d last spoken to him and that if he wished to contact me he would.

    So now I’m left with this: I’m to assume that this was his way of dumping me, loosing all contact and hoping that I wont have the gumption to locate and confront him. As much as I would love to find out where exactly I went so terribly wrong, I’m afraid of what I might learn. At this point in time I’m completely rattled and feel like there must be something unbelievably wrong with me for someone to just pretend to drop of the face of the earth in order to avoid me. But, what confuses me the most is that I saw no signs that he wasn’t invested in the relationship anymore, the last words he’d said to me were that he missed me and he loved me (?). I’m hurt, lost and confused. Any tips on how to move on from here?



  19. Raeesa says:

    I love this video, The one message that really stood out to me was to be pro-active.
    Thank you

  20. Danica says:

    Hey Matt,
    Nice video showreel! Very professional :) Still wishing you could come here to Malaysia and coach some of us here. It might pose some challenge to you with the different cultures and all, but we’re still woman trying to look for the life we want. :)


  21. Bella says:

    Matthew you always have the best advice!

  22. Tiqua says:

    Great showreel. I am so sorry that I wasn’t able to attend the weekend when you came to the US. I am trying to save up so that I can come to the UK and be apart of the weekend seminar. Wishing you all the best, now and in the future.

  23. Janice says:

    “Wait or Create” is brilliant! you manage to say the 3 words I’ve really been longing to hear -truly amazing. thanks for being one of the guys who is not only inspired but inspiring to us! LOL

  24. Rosie says:

    Hiya Matt,

    Great news reel, really shows just how much you’ve done and how big ‘get the guy’ has become! Quick question though: The clip at about 0:47-1:05. Where is it from and can I find the full version anywhere?

    Thanks! Keep up the great work! :)

  25. Denise says:

    Nice. And, you look great! Are you sure you’re not gay? Jk!

  26. Pam says:

    Maybe you should do a DVD for all of those ppl who can not attend to your live workshops. I’ve learned a LOT about dating since I been watching your videos, and you make it so simple!, you’re a real artist of dating. Thank you!.

  27. T0u|\|@ says:

    hehe u’re so funny

  28. Lozza says:

    Have you thought about having your own tv show? I would watch it! Like Gok’s ‘how to look good naked’ but a relationship type version?

  29. Yuna says:

    Matt, I’ve got just 3 words for you…


    P.S: Wish I could be in UK just for your Secrets of Attraction event :)

  30. Deborah says:

    Hi Matthew! The new showreel looks great!! “Wait or Create” I love that quote! Your incredible energy is conveyed throughout, and it really demonstrates that you’re a highly sought-after expert in the field of women and love! Would love to see some quotes about your work from other experts in the field. I’m sure you blow them away :)
    Wishing you great success always!

  31. Tanya says:

    Hey Matthew! :) Congratulations for your huge success. I believe this Earth has everything necessary to improve life, love and happiness. You make part of that. Are you sure you’re not the Cupid for 21st century? :)

    I already saw and read some of your tips. I really agree with high value women have high value men and vice versa. Although it seems that you support the idea of not giving a second chance to someone. Kind of if your lovable one hurts you in some way, it’ll probably happen other times in life, so you need to end that relationship immediately and find another person that shares the same values as you. I would like to know what is your opinion about forgiveness. Also I would like to know what you think about someone who is constantly in new relationships, does it reveals that person is insecure and doesn’t love herself first? Thanks for your time :)

  32. Jess says:

    Please do a tour in the USA not just LA and New York. Hit as many major cities as possible. You are the perfect candidate to help American women. Im sure know we are kinda obsessed with hot British guys in the states so we’ll listen to you.

  33. lynn says:

    I think this is great, Ive been getting your emails for a month now and you say some great stuff, I wish I had met you sooner then I wouldnt have messed up so much.
    online class thing would be great, when are you coming to America? hope to take a class then.

  34. Katherine Whale says:

    Love it!

  35. Audrey says:

    Nice newsreel. I think you need to reach people in online workshops, as well as live. The majority of ppl cannot fly to the UK, but there are a wealth of potential clients via social media.

    I visualize a number of workshops ppl can take online – pick and choose what they need/want. Perhaps a series that can be done in order or at will.

    I’ve learned a lot from YouTube shorts and via the email newsletter.

    Thank you!

  36. Sheena says:

    I love the new showreel! I know I’ve managed to go for what I want in many aspects of my life, but never with my love life. I’ve waited around to be asked out, and most of the time get asked out by guys I’m not interested in. Over the years, there has been a handful of guys that are great, and it could have gone somewhere if I had said something at the right time. I think perhaps many women expect a Prince Charming to come along and sweep them off their feet. I know I did.

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