Check out this 1 minute clip.
Matt sent me this hilarious video. We laughed when we watched it, but then realised that it has a profound lesson about attraction. Take a look:
What do you think? Ridiculous posturing or a masterclass in attraction?
Although it’s a silly clip from a ’70s sitcom, something about Fonzie’s attitude here feels like the ultimate in confidence: It has swagger, charm, a sense of self-amusement and just plain living in your OWN sense of reality.
It doesn’t matter what anyone else says: If you THINK you’re as cool as Fonzie thinks he is, you’re cool.
Whatever else you might say, for Fonzie, it’s just so much damn fun being Fonzie.
The people I know who have the most fun and charisma in life walk into places with a sense of wild opportunity. While others see just a room full of people, Fonzie-types see the chance to play and make gold out of even the most unexpected turns of events, like a ringing phone from someone you’ve never met, or that waitress/waiter who gave you a cheeky look. Everything can be a fun story because you make it one.
It’s no surprise why this clip has 800,000 views on YouTube.
It embodies an attitude and approach to life we all secretly wish we had. The certainty to be able to hang up the phone and make no apologies for just doing your thing. The sense of spontaneity and carefree joy in your own skin. When you just KNOW that hanging out with you would be 10x more fun than whatever else the other person is doing right now.
Whenever you don’t feel cool, watch this clip.
Let Fonzie show you the way back.
P.S. From this moment forward, I shall be answering every phone call I ever receive with simply the word, “Woo”. Mum, you have been warned.