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Something I Want to Talk About…

I must have read the same comment 1000 times now: “Matt, all your advice tells us women we have to do everything, while men get away with being lazy, useless, selfish, etc. How is that fair?”

If you’ve ever even vaguely felt that the dating game is rigged unfairly against you, I really need you to hear this…


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81 Replies to “Something I Want to Talk About…”

  • What a great message to arrive at a great time. I sometimes can feel deflated when I’m not receiving the same behaviour/care I’m providing. it’s so easy to withdraw but I need to remember to continue to lead by example which will set the standard and if others don’t care to meet that standard that I expect then a gentle note now to move on and find someone who will!

  • Absolutely! You are bang on the money with this one, you’ve nailed it, I couldn’t agree more! Watch most of your vids and have your book. Just wanted to say… have NEVER got the feeling from you that women should do all the running, quite the opposite. You have ALWAYS made it clear, there are some not so nice people out there, watch for the red flags, stay away. Male or female, you shouldn’t even want to get involved with someone who doesn’t show a certain level of respect/consideration for you and what you give. Thank you for your focus Matt, I am me … and you are great!

  • People who are saying that you are telling women to do all the work have not been paying attention to you at all. You have always ascribed to us being the best people that we can be. Love will follow.

    I always compliment others, men and women. When I see something beautiful, I say something. No motive other than to spread joy and appreciation. If you don’t want to be happy and confident, don’t blame Matthew. Look in the mirror. He’s trying to help everyone.

  • Hi Matt!
    I really love and appreciate what you are trying to show us, it has incredible value in pushing forward dynamics between men and women.
    And what I’m about to say is partly related to the video above because it is true, sometimes it feels just too exhausting to be the best version of yourself and not actually seeing a similar response from the others you interact with.
    But I would say my problem is a bit deeper…. and the problem is that I don’t know what is that I want from men. Understanding men is amazing but without knowing what I want there it won’t be much progress.
    Not sure if there are other women that feel like this… But if there is any video on this topic it would be amazing! :)
    Thanks!

    1. I too feel the same. Let me clarify , I know how I want to be treated by a man and/or the qualities I want. However, not sure what I want from the man or from whatever our relationship …..

      I too would love it, if Matthew has a video/advise for us in this area!!!???

  • I generally find your content to be helpful. Perception is reality though, so I am happy that you are invested enough to care about those who receive the message differently than you intended.

    I am in the process of recognizing and accepting my authentic self. What feels good to me versus what feels not so good. The content you deliver helps me create awareness about what I’m putting out and what I am allowing myself to receive. Sometimes that content helps me see that I’m doing really well. Sometimes that content helps bring awareness to where I can improve. Sometimes that content helps me feel empowered. Sometimes that content helps me laugh – which I also really enjoy!

    Thank you for your willingness to contribute in a positive way.

  • Three years ago I felt like such a failure in relationships. A failed marriage and a failed long time relationship seem to point the finger at me, the source of failure. Not until I saw you in person in NY, did I start believing in myself again. Beside you being charismatic and so gosh darn good looking, I felt you are intuitive to a woman’s need. Because of you, I put myself out there and found the male version of me. We are so compatable in so many ways without being the same. We have been dating for 3 years now and recently moved in together. I now know that I wasn’t the only problem in my past failed relationships, I was missing a teammate’s help and communication. If for any reason my present relationship fails ( highly unlikely), you have encouraged me to never give up on love.

  • Hi! I’m a new fan and these videos have helped me get out of bed these days. I recently was talking to a guy for less than a month, and he was unsure of where the relationship was going so as a defense mechanism, I told him to just stop contacting me. Now I miss him and don’t know what to do. If he thought the relationship was not going to go anywhere, did I do the right thing in asking him not to talk to me? Or should I have let it carry on with hopes of it turning into something more…I was just scared that continuing to hook up and talk was going to make me fall for someone who isn’t in it 100% which I have done in the past. But I do want to explore things with this guy but I guess it’s too late now. If you can shed some light on this, I would greatly appreciate your time.

  • Dear Matthew,
    thank you so much for always believing in our potential to become better persons.
    As someone who has suffered from severe depression for the most of her life, which of course has affected all aspects of how I’ve been living it so far including my love life, let me tell you that your advice has helped me so much more in substance than many of the treatments I’ve undergone, and I’m saying this with the biggest respect towards the great therapists and friends who have supported me.
    It’s been years after I first started following you that I seem to finally be in the position to truely embrace your message, and this clearly could only happen because of the great level of empathy, warmth and intelligence both emotionally and intellectually that you convey through your language and as a person.
    I still have a long way to go, but at least I can now start to feel confident that I am going to be alright and also find a loving person I can share my life with.
    I’m sure there are tons of other people out there who deeply appreciate what you’re doing and just don’t find the time or energy to write it down, just like me until this moment, so maybe let me say all this on their behalf, too, and if you also draw your great energy from positive feedbacks, I’m giving it to you wholeheartedly here.

  • I’m a huge fan and have attended your seminars, read your book and your fast track, which allowed me to meet a wonderful man whom I’ve been dating for a few years now. I think your message is so important but what do you say to the man when he says, “let me be the man”.

    1. Hi Daphine! Due to Matt’s extremely busy schedule of live events and media appearances, he is no longer able to offer one-to-one coaching. However, his 5-Day Retreat offers intensive training in a live setting with him that costs nowhere near one hour of his private coaching fee, and promises 10 years of personal growth. Note that there is an application process to attend. To learn more about this life-changing experience, visit https://matthewhussey.com/retreat-choose/. – Mars

  • I have a question: you said that men are territorial and insecure, like it was a fact, so how do you expect from those men who follow you to change for better? And honestly, that just sounded like if they were some kids. I don’t think that all men are like that, or should I?

  • I don’t usually leave comments, but I am so impressed with your persona and the way that you offer your advice, which is so genuine and eye-opening, that I just had to let you know.

    I have always been so confident and have always had great relationships, but my partner of 2 and a half years, who has always devoted his love to me has recently withdrawn and has left me completely puzzled. This led me to research male psychology, and consequently find your website.

    You have enabled me to understand more about why men behave in certain ways but more so I feel as though I am starting to shine again by looking more into myself and focusing on understanding my own emotions and why I am reacting in the ways that I am in response to his behaviour.

    Thank you for the information that you are sharing. You have a wonderful energy and spark. You are absolutely amazing at what you do!

    I would also like to wish all of the women who are also drawn to you, all the best in finding a man who deserves them and not to put up with anything less!

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