This is a question that is becoming more relevant in our society with the rise of social networking and its place in our everyday lives. The way in which new social media has infiltrated daily routine mean that never before has it been so easy to casually browse the social/professional/family lives of our exes 24/7.
The boundaries have shifted, and the click of a mouse is now the only thing that stands in our way of re-opening that bridge of communication with someone whom you have shared intense experiences with.
Is getting back with your ex boyfriend a good or bad idea?
Sparing a few seconds to think about an old flame is one of the most ubiquitous thought processes that occurs in the male and female mind, but why do we do it? What possible desire or use is there to be had by looking back? Well some of us simply haven’t gotten over the fact that that last relationship is indeed over.
This can indeed be an unpleasant place to be in, and I have witnessed first hand the needy, insecure effects this can have. Whatever golden age of communication we are currently, or will ever be in, opening contact in this state of mind clearly has its own pitfalls, however casual and laid back we think it may seem.
In my experience there are several positive reasons as to why we think about finished relationships:
- Shared emotion –Just because the relationship is finished, it doesn’t mean all those happy, intimate experiences you shared when you were a couple didn’t happen. By definition, entering a relationship is a decision based on the back of good memories and enjoying another’s company.What’s more, these happy memories are the ones that shimmer on the surface when you think back to time spent with your ex, as the negative experiences often fade or dull with time. We can start to think of an ex in the same way we thought of them when we first met them, which can lead to unexpected surge of affection or desire.
- Familiarity – So many pitfalls face the new couple these days, indeed the rise of social networking has made maintaining a private life free from pictures, social timetabling, relationship statuses and the like an active rather than a default process.With this in mind answer this question: In our daydream where we toy with the possibility of re-entering a relationship, does being back with that ex ever feel like a ‘new’ relationship? In my experience the answer is no, and reaching this place of mutual comfort and respect with a partner is something that is not in present in every relationship, making us value those that do have them, even if they were in the past.
- Risque – The intense experiences shared with an ex are varied as they are many, and some people will re-live most the comfort and security of sharing a mutual bond with a person who they are attracted to, whereas some will re-live the passionate and intimate moments most. These people may not necessarily think of a relationship when they think of an ex, they may think of re-kindling fiery sexual experiences.
The biggest reasons why you might want to
There are many reasons as to why we may feel that we would want to get back in contact with an ex, so in this age of having instant communication available to us 24/7, have the rules changed and is it more acceptable to do so? It certainly is less of social taboo to do so these days, especially when we think back to 20 years ago when re-establishing even the most casual form of contact meant calling up their home phone line.
A photo comment, an invite to a common friend’s gathering, a simple “happy birthday! X” can all suffice to do the same job as that heavy phone call; re-opening contact.
Additionally photo albums and access to people’s relationship statuses all serve to give us even more information as to whether contact would be likely to be met with a favourable response. Crucially, contact can be perceived to be so much more casual and off-the-cuff, defusing any nerves or desperation that could be present if you were to bump into your ex on the street.
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Whilst access to our past relationships has become easier with the rise of different social tools, the rules have only changed in relation to exactly that: the tools of communication.
The rules of good old person to person contact will never change. Sure the good memories stand out, but there were definitely bad ones, hence the finishing of the relationship. And no matter how casual we may sound when inviting an old flame for a casual cup of coffee when you happened to be near their office some day, if the whole thing was planned and you’re a nervous wreck desperate to manipulate any social tool available to us just to see your ex, then that will come across pretty quickly upon a meeting in person!
The bottom line is that this situation is different for everyone. If you happen to have moved on from your past relationships and indeed engaged in new ones only to realise upon long reflection that you never recaptured what you had with your ex, then sure, using the ever changing array of social tools available to re-open contact is now easier than ever before. If however, you still feel like or indeed have just been dumped and are desperate to ‘get your ex back’ then the same old rules apply, and bombarding your ex with unrequited messages of love will still not bring them back, with or without today’s technology.
Certain signs of attraction from a guy and little hints can be enough for you to fully understand if he still likes you and wants to get back with you, so watch out for those.
What a beautiful and wonderful testimony am about to share right now, sometimes things you don’t believe can just happen. My name is Justin James from London am 32 years old i got married at the age of 25 i have only one child and i was living happily after one year of my marriage my husband behavior became so strange and i didn’t really understand what was going on, he packed out of the house to another woman’s. I love him so much that i never dreamt of losing him, i try my possible best to make sure that my husband get back to me but all to no avail i cry and i cry seeking for help i discussed it with my best friend and she promise to help me he told me of a man called Dr Igbudu, he is a very great man and a real man that can be trusted and there is nothing concerning love issues he cannot do that is why they call him Dr Igbudu. I contacted his email address at (igbudutempleofsolutions@gmail.com) and i told him everything that happen all he told me is that i should not worry that all my problems will be solved immediately. He told me what to do to get my husband back and i did, he said after 3 days my husband will come back to me and start begging, it really happen i was very surprise and very, very happy our relationship was now very tight and we both live happily again. So my advice for you now is to contact this same email address: igbudutempleofsolutions@gmail.com, if you are in any kind of situation concerning love issues and any other things that give you problems. Thanks…
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My name is Raju i am originally from India but based in France. Used to think Indian Guru’s were the best until i had problems with my marriage i even traveled all the way to India to consult some for help they told me not to worry that my woman will be back to me.
After so many month my woman did not come back instead she filled for divorce i was heart broken and did not know what to do not only because of the money i will loose but because of the love i have for her. After so much trouble i finally came in contact with Dr ekuku and can never forget him because everything that looked so difficult for others became so simple for him.
My woman dropped the divorce suit and i am happy to say we live together till date.
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Name: Raju
Location: France
My ex and i were friends in high school then started dating. We were together for 4 years and broke up a few times because i was unsure of my feelings towards him. I knew i loved him but wanted to know what else is out there. We always got back together and worked things out. I thought everything was going great between us until he told me two months ago that he knows he loves me but dont know if hes in love with me anymore. I broke up with him right away because i was very upset. I texted him and he spoke to me but never contacted me again. I texted him for new years and he responded. Then we had a big snow storm and he texted me saying becaureful out there. Tonight i texted him telling him that i understand how he felt and we are young and we need to grow on out own. And i dont want to be enemies and i wish him all the best. He responded saying he he feels the same way. It has been two months since we broke up. I love him and i want him back. But i dont know if there is a chance in the future for us. Did anyone ever experience something like this? Thanks for uour advice.
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Name:Steve Harvey
Country:UK
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Country:USA
First of all, Am just short of words i don’t know what to say, am so grateful to Dr Igbudu for what he has done for me. At first i thought he was a scam like two others that i worked with, but i just decided to contact him then he told me that my lover will be back home within 3 days. On the third day, my husband called me and said he was sorry for the frequent arguments and fights, i was so happy that my husband who left me for over 2 years called me. Now we are together he can’t do without me, he always wants me to be by his side and he just bought me a new car. If you want to contact Dr Igbudu for help, here is his private email address: igbudutempleofsolutions@gmail.com or +2348103318340
My Name is carlos Rose am from Spain,Am so happy for what Dr Lumba has done for me,After my lover Carlos left me for another lady he started acting strange to me and never want to be around me i was thinking if i did anything wrong but he told me i never did anything wrong that he his tired of the relationship i cried and told him why he never gave me a reply he walked out of the house and for like 3 months i never had from him i was lonely,But thank God Dr Lumba came to my rescue i got to know about Dr Lumba when i was seeking for help from the internet and Dr Lumba has helped lots of people who had similar problem with mine i read wonderful reviews about Dr Lumba and i said this is my hour of solution i contacted him and explained everything to him he just told me to be calm and he asked for some few details which i gave him believe me all i had from Dr Lumba was i should clean my tears that my husband Carlos would call me believe me within 18 hours was a call from carlos telling me he just bought a ticket for me and him to travel to sweeden for the Valentine and our marriage reunion i was so happy all thanks to Dr Lumba you can contact him on drlumbahomeofsolution@gmail.com or give him a call on +2348112867024
Hello My name is Joan Kenneth, I have been frustrated for the past 4 years with my two kids living without my husband who surprisingly left home with a girl named Mercy, One faithful day a friend of mine came visiting and I told her about the situation I am in for the past four years, she then told me about Dr Igbudu. That he is a very powerful man, at first I never wanted to believe her because I have spent a lot going to different places but she convinced me so I had no choice because I really need my husband back. So we contacted Dr Igbudu who told me all I needed to do which I doubted. But the greatest joy in me today is that Dr igbudu was able to bring my husband back to me and now we are living happily as never before, thanks to you Dr Igbudu. If you have problems of any kind I will advice you to contact him with this Email (igbudutempleofsolutions@gmail.com or +2348103318340) and you will never regret it. Once again Thanks to you Dr Igbudu.
My name is Ruth I can’t explain this but I just have to share my joy and happiness with the world I don’t know how Dr Igbudu helped me in bringing back my husband. I have been frustrated for the past 2 years with my two kids living without my husband who surprisingly left home with a girl named Rose. One faithful day a friend of mine came visiting and I told her about the situation I am in for the past two years, she then told me about Dr Igbudu that he is a very powerful man, at first I never wanted to believe her because I have spent a lot going to different places but she convinced me, so I had no choice because I really need my husband back. So we contacted Dr Igbudu who told me all I needed to do which I doubted. But the greatest joy in me today is that Dr Igbudu was able to bring my husband back to me and now we are living happily as never before. Thanks to you Dr Igbudu. If you have problems of any kind I will advise you to contact him on his private email… igbudutempleofsolutions@gmail.com or +2348103318340
My first love was my strongest ,we were to young to acknowledge the true meaning of the love we shared.
later in our late 40’s we reconnected my love for him blossomed and i fell in love in a dept as never before
then it all fell apart, today I still love him, he shares his life with another yet I can feel his return after 3 years.
He was not emotionally available and may never be.
would love to attract mutual love and a connection as friends,lover partners, any advice would be good.
Hurray my baby is back!! After so much trouble she left me without any reason and went with another man was so confused and frastrated to the point that i started drinink too much because i had built my life around priscilia and her leaving me was just like my whole life was crashing.
everything suddendly changed one day when i was reading a marital issue page on a magazine when a man was talking about his own problem and he mentioned dr ekuku helping get back his wife after she had filed for divirce and he put dr ekuku contact on the story i copied the contact and contacted him behold it was like a miracle my woman came back after 48hrs to me and wanted to explain what happend i told her not to worry that all that matter is that is she back.
Am so happy and coming public because this is the 6th month since she came back pls for relationship isssue or problems contact dr ekuku on the following
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I know exactly how being heartbroken feels. My husband and I were together 12 years, we had a home and 2 amazing kids. I dealt with the cheating it seems like every 2 years a woman would pop up, He would tell me he did it to get my attention or whatever. So, I always forgave him. Then 6 months ago he decided he wanted to do it yet AGAIN, this time it was an old flame and supposedly they feel in love with each other… So he packed up his things and left his home, She is even older than him with criminal record.
after all he has done to us, I still cared for him. I know the kids missed him and there was a vacuum at home and i decided to get him back at all cost not for only my self but because of my kids. Thanks to dr ekuku aftr he got involved in my situation my man came back to his sense and apologized for everything he had done and promised not to ever cheat on me again.
i am happy to say we have been living happily and he has changed alot using this testimony to spread the word that dr ekuku is for real and has touch my life.
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Name is Chelly Harry am from USA,I am here to share this wonderful testimony for what this great man Dr aninato has done for me i have been in a broken marriage for more than 3 years i tried everything possible to bring back my family together but it was very difficult but i thank Dr aninato for coming to change my story and bringing happiness into my home i came in contact with Dr aninato when i had a conversation between 2 people how Dr aninato helped them in solving there relationship problem and they said wonderful things about Dr aninato which then i could not resist it then i walked up to them and told them i am having same problem so they smiled and said Dr aninato would sort it all which then she gave me Dr aninato contact i called him and explained everything to him he just told me not to worry and asked me for some details which i sent to him and he told me that within 48 hours my lover would call me and apologies to me then i kept my hope high believe me before the 48 hours completed was a call from Dick Harry was shocked and when i showed my kids the call coming in they all where happy my lover came back home and went on his knees to beg my kids and i it so wonderful that i could smile and by tomorrow we are having a family reunion party am so happy all thanks to Dr aninato a if you have any kind of relationship problem contact Dr aninato on jehotemple@hotmail.com
Good Day everybody, my names is NICHOLAS LINDA, am from the United State of America, i want to give thanks and
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it will ever come through in my life, but this great man Dr. KABAKA proved to me that powers can do wonders, i
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My name is Nikki’ am 35 years of age i reside in united state, to be sincere i am just short of words but thanks to Priest Okunmagala of (chiefpriestofbrokenlove@gmail.com) who helped me in getting married though i seems to be a laughting stock in my community because my younger slibling kate and jane were already married. i felt really depressed because all the guys that normally came to me were always intresested in having sex and after that, they are off and were never willing to have a future with me. but after contacting Okunmagala and did all i was told i was really suprised my boyfriend for the very first time proposed to me that he really want to spend the rest of his life with me and to round it up we are getting married first week of June thats why i am writting this testimony to show how grateful i am.
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