7 Subtle Signs He’s Flirting With You

It’s funny how often women tell me they don’t know when a guy is flirting.

Because to us men, we think we’re being so obvious.

If you’re confused about whether he’s interested, make sure you learn these 7 sneaky signs…


 ►► So what do you say when he flirts with you? This FREE guide hands you 5 phrases men can’t resist. Download here… → SayThisToHim.com

Free Guide

Copy & Paste These
"9 Texts No Man Can Resist"

80 Replies to “7 Subtle Signs He’s Flirting With You”

  1. So what do you do when men try to get as far away from you as possible? The only guys to EVER give you attention are MARRIED! When you are taken for granted , disrespected, lied to. When men talk a good game but have NO follow thru? When you have all the qualities than men SAY they want, but those qualities aren’t wrapped in a pretty package, so the men look right thru you to the pretty girl over there. The one they fight tooth and nail to get and keep even tho she has NONE of the qualities they SAY they want? at 51yo I have been on one date in over 13yrs and he turned out to be a complete jerk. I have NEVER had a relationship last more than 6-8 weeks. I have never been loved…don’t even know what that feels like. I am closer to the end of my life than the beginning and have completely given up hope. All of the things you say sound good in theory, but do ME absolutely NO good. :-/

  2. Oh my goodness! Most of those are super subtle! I do some of these things when I want a guy to leave me alone lol! Good thing you made this vid or I would have continued to think men were trying to imply the same thing as me :O

  3. Thank you for this, because boy have I been missing out. I can get a read on people most of the time but when a guy is flirting with me it sails right over my head. I thank you. Now I dont have to be the aggressor. I can be chased and not do the chasing.

  4. Alright… I’ve been listening to you for months, and yes, I always get something out of it, but whoa! this one — dang it! Thank you so much for clarifying these little “tells” that he may be flirting… I’m so naive! Eyes are opening and confidence is rising…
    Matt- you are a wonderful gift!!!

  5. Although its been a while since any man flirted with me, I must admit I used to love it if they flirted and weren’t inebriated! I wish they all had your sense of humor Matthew!

  6. Oh, dear, thanks Matt for sharing this! I had no idea this all meant flirting. If I noticed a guy doing this I’d think that he hates me and for some reason wants me to know that. I’d actually pull away from such a negativity!

  7. Love to have this acted out. Matt is such a good actor too.

    Hope to see the suggested girls’ responses acted out too. Afteall. How do we primates learn? By modelling others!

  8. What perfect timing Matt! I really needed to see this video as I tend to miss the signs or doubt myself, and I was wishing for a video from you on this topic. Thanks so much! It made me laugh too :)

  9. Thats hilarious but well done!!! Could not be more clear! These signs are so subtle that they can go unoticed so easily. Loving the 1% rule in giving back… applies to many other situations. Thank you for doing this!

  10. Wow, I don’t know why, but, this blew my mind! I tend to assume I am overreacting whenever I think a guy may be using one of these signs. I think to myself, “Ok, if he’s serious, he’ll try again.” I never really considered I could make a 1% reciprocation and see if it went anywhere. Thanks Matt, time for me to test the guys in a different way!!

  11. So this guy I know from church uses most all of these bullet points and then doesn’t ever stop to talk? Yeah I don’t know. If we speak I’m always the one initiating the conversation, and when I give him an open opportunity to walk up and speak to me, he never takes it. It’s very weird.

  12. Awesome video Matt! Just got an a-ha moment! These are so subtle! I just assumed they were just being friendly, never clueing in. Mind blown! I will definitely add the 1% reciprocation now. Love all your videos but this one was definitely a game changer for me!

  13. How about a video when your are in a weird friendship and you think he is interested but the signs are not clear enough to think he is being more that just friendly. Like when he kiss you on the forehead or grab your hand to say good bye, but he hasn’t said a single compliment or the conversation over text is plain, but he continues to reach out for you.

  14. Whoa, this happens all the time and I totally blow it off! I just assumed that they were open to ‘meeting’ all kinds of new people, like I am, without it having to go ‘there’. Hmmmm, I will certainly have to keep my eyes better open!

  15. Aha moment…this is very good..I’ve been way too stuck in my head and haven’t noticed because I’m way to shy!! I’d hate to admit and in this kind of form, which is suprising,that I don’t know how to handle and what to say to a guy…and that’s why I’m here..lol..A work in progress!! And in the video when your on the couch, had me in stiches!!!

  16. Haha this is great! Flirting usually goes over my head, so glad to see things from a man’s point of view. Thank you!

1 2 3 4

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published.

All-Time POPULAR Posts