It’s funny how often women tell me they don’t know when a guy is flirting.
Because to us men, we think we’re being so obvious.
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I really loved this video. Rather entertaining (You’re quite the funny guy, aren’t you haha!) and also, very insightful.
I’ve always wondered whether it was flirting, or him just being a normal human being, carrying on with his day, so I always ignored it. But thank you so much for this, I always get excited when seeing your content. You never fail. Love it!
Lmao…I like you too by the way…. I think his attraction would go way down after that… but it would be funny.
Omg, this had me cracking up!! Thanks for the laughs.
I thought it was interesting that these are considered flirting techniques for men, because a couple of these I do myself and from my perspective, they are simply me socializing or being polite and I have no intention or interest in the person they may be directed at. I suppose that’s why I can sometimes get in trouble for it…lol.
Huh! Never thought of it that way. But as usual, you’re right on the mark. “Wouldn’t it be arrogant or narcissistic of me to think…” – exactly what I was thinking.
BTW, do these signs work the other way around as well?
Thanks! :)
This video had me cracking up! Great content and love how your personality shines through everything you do. Kudos to Jameson for a great vid too.
Would love a follow up of “Is this a date?” Recently my friends and I have had this issue. Went out with a guy thinking “we are just hanging out” and then we made out…ok, so that was a date. Then hung out with another guy thinking maybe it was a date…and it was not…but I wanted it to be…it’s a weird world we live in…
Matt, you’re so freakin’ hilarious…ahh, great fun.
Another fun thing (actually fun-NY) is that of course I’m a female, but I’ve also done every single one of those 7 things in my flirtatious past. Whatever.
Keep ’em coming.
All the best.
Yeah, it’s worth noting that as a female you can also use all of these tactics and have an extremely high success rate. Like, glance at a man across the room, or ask him where the bathroom is. Guys will almost always take the bait to start up a conversation (unless they are taken, in which case they will still be flattered :-P)
I think you just made my life go zero to a hundred real quick! The sign where you metioned a guy will look at you and you for some reason you both look into eachothers eyes, litterally just happend to me over the weekend!!!. I was in a park with one if my good girlfriends and met one of her guy friends who had just met someone else at a club the night before…. So it was really subtle but I definitely thought there was something more to that look then meets the eye
As always my friend you you have given me insight that is priceless. I have been on your retreat and am thrilled with the changes and outcome of my life because of your tips. I love how these simple hints can create an opportunity to create magical moments thanks Mr.Hussey
Thank you..
Funny… Some of these flirtatious moves are the very things I can’t stand. If a guy is talking loudly and gesticulating, that makes me move away from him.
Yes, this is very good advice. I can relate to this for sure. :-)
Omigosh, Matthew! How much do I love you?! I’ve been operating in the former reality (for way too long) wherein I’ve believed that dudes were merely being cordial, or it was happenstance that he was looking over. Sometimes I’d even chalk it up to my being in his sightline (and that’s why our eyes have met a couple of times). How many opportunities have I missed?! Well, not anymore, Matt…I choose to operate in the latter reality now where, even if it seems like some cute coinkidink, if I notice a fella giving me the half-smile or the barely audible “hey”, I’ll just take a small chance…who knows where it may lead? Thanks so much!
So funny :D
These were great tips Matt, and the video was very cute. It’s often easier to assume anything else is going on rather than someone is flirting or subtly taking an interest in us. Believing the former is just another way of trying to protect ourselves from getting hurt or feeling embarrassed if we happen to be wrong. But what if we just assumed that we’re liked and admired rather than ignored all the time? Rather than being arrogant, I think that’s just a way of being kinder to yourself. And by doing that, you end up creating way more opportunities to attract and be attracted to other quality people. Call me crazy, but that sounds like a simpler and more fun way to enjoy life. Thanks for the reminder!
Wow, Matthew. I’ve been following you for 5 years. I’ve seen how much confident and mature you’ve become. Congratulations on your success. This is one of my favorite videos. I love how you’ve made things so real. Have you ever wondered maybe many of us like watching your videos because you represent someone who we’ve always dreamed we would marry?? Will you marry me? Anyway a woman can dream… In all seriousness, your videos help me enjoy life. I’ve met several guys who would buy me and my girlfriend a drink. Some actually have fun trying to learn signs. Don’t let anything stop you. Oh did I tell you I’m deaf?
Oh my god, I LOVED this video! It made me laugh and cheered me up so much. And its encouraged me.
I realised all the opportunities I missed. And that I have been flirted with..yay.. its was real.. I didn´t imagine it :D. Now when a guy does these things, I can enyoy that i am attractive and not doubt myself, amazing :). And I loved the humor in the video. I could also se myself in some of the behavior, which just made me laugh even more.
Very heartvarming and encouraging video Matt :)
Hi! Great video btw! I look forward these each week. I am curious though, it seems you spend the majority of time talking about meeting new people while I realize how important this is, the circumstances can be very different if you already know someone… like lets say you work with him. I’d love to hear your thoughts on getting through some of those scenarios.
Hysterical….
No freaking way!!! I see guys acting like this all the time and never knew it was as flirting!!!!!! Matt where were you 5 years ago? I could probably be on my 4th husband by now
Hi Matthew,
Thank you for this Matt. I dont know why but I would always miss it. A guy would flirting with me but I could when a man was interested in someone else. Crazy right. I guess I just miss it. I have to laugh at myself bcause I want a nice, kind, sweet, gentle guy that gives chase but it flew right pass my head. After watching this video all of the subtle I can remember each time a guy would flirt one of these ways.
Thank you again