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📱💬Text Him This ONE WORD to Get His Attention

Is there someone in your life who keeps going hot and cold with the attention they are showing you?

In today’s video, I give you an exact message you can text a guy that demonstrates your powerful standards in a way that simultaneously gets you more attraction and more investment…

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Woman:

Did they tell you? Don’t name it because then you’ll keep it. And of course I had to name him after my favorite comic book, which made it even harder. What?

Man:

Just admiring the view.

Woman:

Oh, so smooth… What the f***?

Matthew:

The the other day, I was told a story by someone who had a guy coming in and out of her life constantly.

Woman:

Jesus. What the f*** was that?

Matthew:

And she got to a point where she was so sick of him showing investment and then disappearing, that one day when he texted her, asking her to go to dinner, after having disappeared for weeks, she just messaged him back and said, “Hey, listen, I like you but this dynamic we have where we start things up and then things go away again and then we start them up again… it’s just become boring to me. Like it’s no longer interesting. So if we’re just going to do the same thing again, let’s not bother with this.”

When I heard that story, I thought that is such a powerful word to use in that context, because so often people get angry, they get upset, they get hurt, and then they communicate all of that. And when we do that, in a way we’re still building up someone’s ego. We’re still showing them that they have a handle on our emotions. You either come back and you get my excitement or you come back and you get my anger and my frustration. I’m still making you very important in my life, even though you haven’t been investing and you shouldn’t be important in my life. But when you tell someone, “This dynamic we have is just boring now,” you’re shooting down their ego. You’re no longer validating that behavior. And so what happens is someone either disappears or they realize in order to attract you, they’ve got to start showing you a very different kind of investment. So either way you win: They disappear, or you get better quality investment.

Try it. The next time someone comes back into your life, instead of rewarding it with either a positive excitement, which they haven’t earned, or a negative energy, a negative emotion, which shows them that they’re still too significant in your life, try simply telling them that what’s going on between you is just boring.

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27 Replies to “📱💬Text Him This ONE WORD to Get His Attention”

  • i need some advice, i am going to get married to my boyfriend of 3 years, end of november, but the last month, he is not corresponding with me like he use to before, we are not in the same city we are 300ks away from each other, but we see each other every second weeknd, he would normally greet me in the morning with either a phone call or sms, during the day, at night, whenver he has a chance, but now he is always busy, too busy, but his work is not of such a nature tht he cant even send an sms, i asked him if he still loves me, if he still wants to get married, he said yes, but his action towards communication between us, it is just not happening, please tell me what is going on, does he has someone else, or does he just not love me anymore

  • I wouldn’t say that unless you are really done with him. No guy is going to like being called boring and 99.9% of guys’ egos will be so hurt by that, they won’t speak to you again. Pretty quick way to crush a guy’s ego.

  • In need of advice, I have been in a Relationship for 12 years seperated for 1 year. Met this guy I been seeing on and off for 5years while with my official relationship. He also had many girlfriends in the process. He stated loves me but being that he travels a lot makes it hard for us to be together.i also have two kids which makes it harder to do so. But , I can’t keep going back to him every time he calls or texts. How can I show him he needs make A decision either has me in his life or or doesn’t. What can I do?

    1. Hi, Glenny! Thanks for reaching out! I think I have a solution that might help you with your situation. Matthew’s program, Get Your Ex Back, helps you understand if you should get your ex back, or if it’s better for you to move on to a better guy. If you do decide to get him back, this completely done-for-you, 5-step program takes the guesswork out of getting your ex back, along with easy copy-and-paste scripts to use. I hope this helps and feel free to contact our team at support@matthewhussey.com for more information or if you have any questions. Thanks! – Sara

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