Happy Thanksgiving everyone!
I’ve recorded a holiday message for you.
I’m pretty sure you’ve never associated the holiday with attraction before… But I’m going to show you how the two are linked.
This is by far my favourite American holiday. I like the idea of a holiday that isn’t attached to any big ideal or thing; it’s just a time to give thanks and get together with the people you love.
This year I’ve been invited to so many homes, and it’s just struck me as a time where everyone is looking to take care of each other.
It’s certainly true that happiness can come from a lot of different things, but I think the pinnacle of happiness comes from being grateful.
Why Be Grateful
You may not be in the U.S., but I do think the premise of being grateful makes it a useful day for all of us.
You can be thankful for your family, your job, for the time of your life, for what’s coming in the future, for experiences you’ve had…
And it’s an important distinction to make that what we’re thankful for doesn’t have to be the thing that gives us pleasure.
Sometimes we’re grateful for the things that bring us pain; an experience, a learning curve, a breakup that taught us something…
There are so many reasons to be grateful that might have nothing to do with pleasure at all.
Gratitude and Attraction
The more we’re thankful for things in our life, the more zest we have for life, the happier we are – and when we’re all of those things, we bring a different energy to the room. We impact on people in a completely different way.
Being grateful is completely tied to attraction because it’s tied to our energy.
The #1 reason people become attracted is not looks, it’s not because you’ve ticked every box for character traits they would want; it’s the energy you feel for someone when you’re around them.
So my ‘assignment’ for you today is to…
–Write down 3 things you want to be grateful for – big or small – and feel yourself getting a little happier and ‘zestier’ about life in the process.
Let me know what they are in the comments below.
Have an amazing day!
Matt x
Matthew Hussey would have a cute little dog! Great video and reminder thank you for this blog
i am really Thankful for have my family!!!
i am really thankful to have such good friends!
i am really thankful for being healthy and do what i love!
and….for having you in my life MATT!
Thanks*
It’s not thanks giving anymore, but, i am really thankfull because, quite some time ago I found your videos on youtube by chance and I got hooked with them, I love your blog and how you explain things on your videos, it is not always easy to push myself to do all the things you come up with and to go out of my massive comfort zone, however i do always try to absorb all the information you create and provide on your videos and try to have it as my knowledge as an automatic responce when i find myself in certain situations, althoug some times i find myself thinking what? wait! was i supposed to do in a situation like this? hahaha
Ofcourse i am very gratefull for soooo many other different things, but i just wanted “you” to know that your work and effort is definitely appreciated I wish you all the best in all your new projects.
Greetings and hugs
Erika
Have you ever heard of the Pilgrims and Indians? Insert BIG winkie face.
Enjoy your
Thanksgiving:)
Loved this one and specially your pooch, she’s just so sweet and adorable, lots of love to both of you :D