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The Number One Most Attractive Trait – Do You Have IT?

There is ONE trait that makes any person magnetically attractive…

Whether straight or gay; female or male; regardless of age, ethnicity or culture…

If you possess this one thing, you are guaranteed to get the respect, admiration and love you deserve.

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58 Replies to “The Number One Most Attractive Trait – Do You Have IT?”

  • Thank you Matthew! This time you made me cry, seriously. Thank you for putting first the universal human values, regardless the gender, the country, the orientation.
    You working hard to make the world better.
    Happy Easter!

  • Matt, you are friggin’ brilliant!!!!!!! I am putting a gold star next to this email and putting it in my Matthew Hussey folder with Attract Any Guy, Fast Tract To Mr. Right and Impact. I have learned so much from you and I still am. I watch you on the Today Show, too. HAPPY EASTER! Gale

  • This is probably my favorite video you’ve done Matt. I couldn’t agree more that having standards is the number one rule. What i’ve learned from you most of all is that when i respect myself, it’s easy to set standards in a relationship or when dating. Brilliant!

  • MATT, PLEASE ANSWER THIS. I REALLY NEED YOUR HELP.

    Hi, there. I attended your retreat last year in Florida and gained so much from it. I really need your advice; please help. I would so appreciate it.

    My husband and I dated for 4 years and have been married for 12. We have 3 wonderful, little boys. Here is my issue. When we were dating, and up till recently, emotionally speaking, my husband has always treated me like a princess and made me feel special. Early in our marriage, I was the breadwinner and he was a struggling lawyer. I never made this an issue. In the last 2 years, my business came to a close while my husband established his own law firm and slowly became more prosperous. The thing is, if we were best friends and partners, now he seldom asks my opinion, let’s me know where the money is going, and has recently taken to raising his voice at me at the dinner table in front of my in-laws, and twice in front of our friends – for completely trivial, inconsequential reasons. It hurt me so very deeply. Instead of apologizing, he tells me that he has a lot of pressure with work and supporting our family. If he were to have raised his voice to me when I did not deserve it when we were dating, I would have had absolutely no conflict picking up my handbag, standing up from the restaurant table and calling myself a cab. I would never look back – literally and figuratively. I am a very high value woman – always have been, always will be. But we’ve built a precious family together, and I am committed to my husband and our marriage. I have told him that humiliating me in public like that just won’t fly, and he begrudgingly apologizes and asks me to be patient with him.

    My question, Matt, is – what should I actually do when my standards are violated (stay away, be distant?), and how do I keep my self-respect while allowing got my
    husband’s mistakes?

    What would you do if your spouse raised her voice at you in public – after you’ve already told her that that mode of conduct is below your standards of what you will accept in your relationship?

    Thank you very much for reading my question. Thank you for all the good work that you do.

    Love,
    Angela

    1. Thanks, C.
      I’m just not sure sometimes when to let it go and when to dig in my heels.
      Take care.
      Angela

    2. I appreciate what you’re saying but you assume we have the tools to do this and know what it means. My mother was a doormat to my drug using father and I spent 20 years in an abusive marriage. I have no idea how to show “high value.” If you have no good relationship to use as a compass or have never closely seen a high value woman in a relationship, you don’t know what to do. There seems to be a fine line between being understanding of special circumstances (bad day, stress at work, etc) and being high value. I need examples. It’s the real life situations with exact words and actions that you provide (once in a while but not often enough for me) that make me say, “Oh, THAT’S what it means to be high value.” Please do this more.

  • Dear Matt,

    I also am a huge fan of your and benefit so much from your short but deep videos. Many thanks for all your work!

    I get that being a high value woman with high standards is most important and I struggle with how that looks exactly. There aren’t many role models for this. Mostly women seem to be throwing themselves and guys, bending over backwards for them, going along with what they want and putting up with all kinds of poor treatment.

    I myself have not been with a man in over 10 years because I never feel treated well by them enough to get more involved. So I keep holding out, in the meantime feels like I’m missing out on all the good that I envision about being in a relationship.

    I appreciate your thoughts if you have any.

    Much Love,
    Martha

  • Hi Matt,

    I love your video’s which I just recently came across on youtube. I’m not currently focused on having a relationship, but your advice covers aspects I can definitely apply, and its easy to look at you :) you’re good looking.

    I am curious though, whats it like being a guy looking at relationships from a woman’s perspective?

    Look forward to seeing your new posts!

    SS

  • You are incredible, Matthew! Thank you for sharing your wisdom, I appreciate all of your videos. This one today however, reaffirmed what a good, gracious and genuine man you truly are. Thank you for sharing that!

  • You’re just wonderful Matt. I’m bisexual and find your advice very helpful. You’re coaching had helped me in many parts of my journey. I struve everyday to have and give value to all my relationships.

    Love,
    Liberty

  • If got a question but I have some baaaad english Skills. Hope you understand sth.

    Well, I’ve been gone through many things in my life and I’ve never had that person to talk to or to look up to. Even no one in my family give me credit. Its a complicated Family Situation. They’ve always been rude to me. The only advice i got to be happy or successful in life Is to accept what they say even when i knew their beliefs are completely wrong. Like to never trust someone except the Family or everyone is bad except the family . I grew up as an uncertain Person Who always have doubts to never be good enough in every life Situation and in every Relationship. And that kills my Ambition.

    Im still Doing things others expecting me to do because I dont wanna disappoint someone.. It has a negative effect at my Social life. Never had a really good friend to actually Trust or Talk to. Its difficult to me. No one ever told me with what to deal in life, what is right or wrong. I’ve only learned to do what others wants me to do and have No opinion.

    1. Hi Emilia

      I understand what u feel . It must has been very hard for you , without any life instruction like that , right ?

      Well, the good news for you is : actually there are only very small number people has someone else to instruct them how to live. The major population has the same vague unclear direction as you do. So you are with many people with the same situation.

      a better news : you can learn these life principles.

      1. Ask people. not only one person . but as many people as you can . Because one may be not ur suitable answer. maybe multiple answers are for you.

      2.When you got ur answer of how to live , try each of them. and cancel out what is bad for you.

      3. These answer have to fit in these standard : wealth , health , emotion.
      Which means any principles or skill that is not good for you to archive these above standard is not good at all. Try another principle.

      i believe u can do it :)

    2. Hi Em. I am a tranny and I felt that my life was similar to your description for a long time. This Christmas just gone I decided to change my life for the better. I have moved mountains in a lot of my life areas and now feel much better. Think about YOU and what you want out of life. Screw the people that don’t support you. I know that you care(its visible). But now its your time sweetie. Make some new friends, go for a new job ,find your love. They are all out there-you just have to look. The first step is the hardest but after that you will be addicted to improving yourself and your life. Appreciate yourself you are sooo much stronger and beautiful than you think. What would your first step be?

  • Loved this Matt :) your message is felt around the world and you must feel so proud of how your work is coming across and delivered. Happy Easter and enjoy :)

  • Matt,
    I hv been following you since I was 19…I am 24 now… And ur videos and speeches have actually changed the way I should be and was around men…the actual test came when my man recently took a break from me stating so lot of justifications why he needed this break when Eric are already in a long distance relationship…. Him going back to his shell did not at all make Me insecure rather gave me time to rethink my standards and the boundaries I had to set if I were to be respected and more attractive… I was actually having fun with my life when 5 days into this break I started seeing what you have been constantly explaining what gets your guy back…!! Just 5days Matt and just saw the difference… I still am on a break but this time on my ground rules! Because I wanna feel the freedom till the time I am ready to go back into my relationship… I feel the power and things under my control only because I kno I have a back… Ur videos and your wise advices!
    Thanks for bringing confidence back in us women folk Matt :)

  • I appreciate what you’re saying but you assume we have the tools to do this and know what it means. My mother was a doormat to my drug using father and I spent 20 years in an abusive marriage. I have no idea how to show “high value.” If you have no good relationship to use as a compass or have never closely seen a high value woman in a relationship, you don’t know what to do. There seems to be a fine line between being understanding of special circumstances (bad day, stress at work, etc) and being high value. I need examples. It’s the real life situations with exact words and actions that you provide (once in a while but not often enough for me) that make me say, “Oh, THAT’S what it means to be high value.” Please do this more.

  • Matt,

    I have to admit when I first read your email I thought IT was going to be confidence but this goes above and beyond confidence. You can have confidence outwardly but not inner confidence and that’s what it takes to communicate your standards. And as usual this is a universal message in all areas of life not just dating so thanks for that! I would love more advice on how to communicate standards in the right way when confrontation comes up. Not just in dating but in life in general I need to be more assertive, I always let people walk all over me!

  • Matthew!!!

    YOU are the best and I love listening to you and looking at you! You are so darn handsome, adorable and sweet! Please tell me you have a girlfriend? A man of your quality should not be single.

    Thank you for your constant great advice!

    trish heil
    :O)
    xo

  • Thank you matt. ..For all your interesting issues always.

    You feed me and keeps me coming back too with full of passion to watch your videos and advices :)))) :*

    ♡ ♡

  • Hey Matt, absolutely loved this video, I was sitting here in a dilemma about someone with whom I have dropped my standard and you and your video was God send at a time that I really needed it. It gave me the courage to tell him that I wanted to talk to him and I will be telling him what I need from him.

    You are an amazing human being and I am so happy that I have found you.

    lots of Love
    Freshy

  • Hey Matt.

    I really loved this video. I’m kind of ashamed to say that I lowered my standards soooo much recently for this guy I really loved. And what ended up happening was that our relationship ended up being really unhealthy and emotionally abusive on his end. I tried to stay positive but ended up getting dragged down. I need to learn how to keep and hold to my standards in my next relationship. Thank you for reminding me of that. Love Christine

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