Learn More About My New Book, Love Life

Are You Pretty Enough For Him?

Click Here To Change Your Love Life Forever

Song of the day (featured at the end of the video)…

Free Guide

Copy & Paste These
"9 Texts No Man Can Resist"

183 Replies to “Are You Pretty Enough For Him?”

  • Wow! Loved this video! Let’s see…I have beautiful and very expressive eyes, a sweet smile, youthful looks in a very feminine womanly body, a killer JLo style butt…Now the most important part, I’m also a very smart and sensitive woman, family oriented, with very high morals, sweet and very loving..

    So of course I deserve love and I’m pretty enough for a real quality man that’s looking to have a family with a good woman!

    Thank you Matt! I love this exercise!

  • Hi Matt,

    I just recently met a man (not a date), we had a interesting talk. The amazing thing about him was and is he is born with a visibel defect but that is not holding him back. He has a job, lots of friends and has two grown up sons!
    I on the contrary am still alone, hard on myself but I could and can have everything.
    This is quite a coincidence that you also talk about beauty.

    I would love to be more outgoing and expressing whatever I want to without holding me back (feeling ashamed, stupid etc.).

    Thanks!

    A X

  • My humor and not giving a thought what anyone thinks of me, so I can totally be myself, is what makes me so amazing! Bring it on!! My smile and laughter does wonders for making myself and the people around me feel good. Yay me! Haha!

  • I’ve been following your blog for a while, but this is the first time I get to comment.
    I love my eyebrows haha they are the frame of my face, an aid to show emotion, they complement my beautiful eyes and I love them.
    And about my personality, I really love my ability to put myself in other people’s shoes.

    Thanks for making me stop and think about this for a moment.

  • Matthew,
    I have learned along the way that most women have “bitch” in their DNA…me included…the PC Police wants to shut up the voices and to silence truth….so keep it going!

  • hey,

    love the way you put it… but honestly, i got to admit (as much as it pains me to confess that i am obviously a super-superficial person), that i feel more attracted to goodlooking guys than non-goodlooking ones. especially if i do not know them, the goodlooking one has higher chances to chat with me than the objectively less attractive guy. This does not mean, I’ll be off and living happily ever after with the handsome guy (and god, i know there is a whole bunch of them that are as stupid as a box of rocks), but the goodlooking guy initially has better cards. unfortunately. and the really really untattractive guys usually “only” become my best friends. that’s what’s happening. sorry to say.

  • Hi Matthew!

    I really liked your video, it gives so much inspiration.
    The way you also explain it is so brilliant in a way that I can actually imagine it in front of my eyes.
    I always thought the way people carry themselves makes them look attractive or the opposite. Some very supposedly good looking guys came across to me ,many times, as ugly as soon as they opened their mouths :p

    I think you are a very intelligent guy and I’ll keep following your videos as they are a great inspiration to me.

    Loved the funny takes in the end of the video :D

    Warm wishes from London while you’re in New York,

    Karine

  • Thank you for your lovely video! I agree with you 100 percent that beauty is about the whole person, the whole being. That “looks” are a very small part of it. :) And thank you for reminding again!

    As for my part I appreciate about myself… My ability to read people. What they mean when they cant even express it clearly themselves. I really like that about myself. I like the feeling when I can help someone.

    I was one of those with a criticism on the last blog entry, but I just wanted to say that I might have been TOO hard on you. And for the matter that I DO love most things you do anyway so, no problems there! :D Have a safe flight!
    /Kami

  • Hey Matthew… my only hope is to attend your session one day to hear you in person. Simply amazing!! Listening to your video gives me so much positive energy and a total different outlook about what beauty is all about and feeling good about oneself.

  • Hey Matthew!
    I agree with Raeesa, it’s awesome seeing lots of vlogs here!
    Mostly for people that are outside Europe… And I really think you should come to Brazil sometime! I would definitely be the first on the line to go to the event! hahah
    Thanks for the awesome work!

    xx

  • Haha :D No, just stay the way you are,Matthew, and use your “own style” of languague – love it :D

    Soo,…the features I like most about me are:
    My eyes, my smile –> speaking of my personality…
    I can always smile at you – even if you don’t like me or if you’re just walking on the street crossing my path – the girl that’s smiling at you on a rainy day…that should be my humble self.:D
    I am a super-good friend and sincere, I am playful, sometimes a little childish (yes, Sir – this is a feature worth loving ;) ) I fight for my dreams and I never resign. Above all that :) I definitively know what I want.

    However, I am working on myself in order to be the best version of myself that I want to be – at least I try this as good as I can.
    Red Apple’s advice for the ladies out there:
    Be the person you want to be; want yourself that’s super-fine ; work on yourself- also fine –
    just LOVE what you are doing, k? :)

    Hey Matt, great sh*t ! ;)

  • Hey Matthew,

    Thank you for all your videos. Apart from being informative, they’re always so refreshing. I believe that sometimes what we see affects how we are or feel. Your blog is always so light hearted and very loving.

    Today, you reminded me of something I am very proud of. My ability to be so bubbly. I love being out and being able to interact with strangers of all ages on such a personal level. But sometimes I convince myself that Im only making a fool of myself, so I go around and keep to myself. Thats no fun!

    So today, I choose to aknowledge my ability to go out there and be silly. And just have fun!

    Thanks for keeping these videos up, I look forward to the next.

    Have a great trip!
    Kelly

  • Thanks for the video Matthew! it’s crazy how relevant it was to my day. And I agree wholeheartedly.
    Cheers mate!
    Enjoy New York!

  • hey Matt,
    ( I commented this on your other video but unfortunately you couldnt answer) :)
    The thing is that this is not all the girls fault. I mean I dont think Im a bitch, I am always so smiley, and I really like to laugh and talk a lot. Im really open for anything. For example Im walking in the street and a cute guy comes by. I look at him, he looks at me but he just passes by. Nothing at all! Even though I saw the look on his face he liked me. But they just do not dare to come up to you, to come up to me.I mean Im not a scary person Im nice to everyone. I just really hate the fact that if I want to meet a guy I have to go to a party where boys have already drunk a little. Then they come to me. Why’s that? I like parties but I dont want this all the time. Why cant guys be brave enough to make a conversation with a nice girl when they’re sober? I dont really get this. And I cant just talk to a stranger in the street, and stop him to say : hey I like you. That would be totally weird. I mean what can he answer to that? Thank you, now I gotta go… I dont really get this whole situation. Help me out a little bit please.:)
    Thanks for your answer in advance:)
    xxx
    P.S.:I like the song;)

  • Ahh, I completely ditto on what you have said in this video. I know so many friends that constantly don’t feel that way or even with their career life, that they constantly carry that negative energy around them. I understand that we all have our ups and downs, but it is all mental… I constantly tell them what you have stated in this vblog video, that if you can be happy, act happy, and just feel happy and appreciate the world around you then things will start like a snowball effect, but you have to try to change that mentality. As long as you keep getting up and keep trying its something… with anything in life. I’m very glad you talked about this and made a vlog on it. Its always inspiring to hear you talk about life in general or just love itself. haha.

    I love the bloopers! It makes things feel a lot more genuine and down to earth! :P

    Did you enter the Matrix? Just need black shirt and long black overcoat. Or did you take the red pill instead? haha. I kid. :P

  • Hey Matthew,
    Thank you for this video. I have been wanting for one video with this theme because I have many insecurities about myself. I now like this guy…and I think I am too ugly for him. He isn’t himself a model, but his personality is so attractive and he is so popular. This video showed me an interesting perspective and it really helped me. I believe confidence is sexy.
    Now, to answer the question of the day…I want to say I’m interesting, artistic, bright, i make funny facial expressions…i have curly hair. I really think I appreciate myself more after seeing this.
    So thanks. :)

  • Hey Matthew! 

    Thanks so much for posting such good stuff, so fast :)! I’m grateful for your “nærvær” (Danish for “presence”, lit.transl.: “being close”).

    We’ve heard about “beauty is in the eye of the beholder” before… But your explanation today is really fab! The distinction you make between objective and subjective beauty makes complete sense. And your blog today totally motivates you to make the best of the cards your dealt with :)!

    Hmm… Praising yourself or sharing publicly what’s an under appreciated part of you, that’s tough. At least I hesitate sharing because of the thought that many may think you’re totally full of yourself if you declare: “Oh I live …. about myself! On the other hand, I think a confident person knows his/her strong assets and doesn’t apologise for expressing them.

    Thanks for the song of today, I’ve got it on repeat. It’s both bubbly and meditative at the same time. :) 

    I’m so happy for you that so many exciting things are happening! I hope NY is a huge success :)

    Thanks for sharing and being your lovely down-to-earth & enthusiastic  you! 

    Take care , 
    Madeleine 

1 2 3 4 9

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

All-Time POPULAR Posts