Which Of These 3 Women Are You? (You’ll Be Surprised…)

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  1. Lisa says:

    Hi there, I am all three of the women you described in your post……that was powerful stuff for me. I had a lightbulb moment. Thank you for that. I am on a very personal journey of change and I feel this could help me.

  2. Sophie Le says:

    Hi! I just watch your video, i thought i am one of 3 woman who you said . May i talk with you?

  3. Valentine says:

    I think all of them

  4. Charleen says:

    How can i get my confidence back

  5. fatai ifeoluwa says:

    i am really blessed and will love to join the training

  6. Gouwa Gabriels says:

    Please show me how t get my confidence back

  7. Suzanne Delgado says:

    HI MAtthew I have been with my sons father for 18 years, he never wanted to marry, I wasn’t good enough foe one reason or another. We have broken up so many times I lost count, in the end I leave feeling defeated and at fault. I have no idea what love feels like. I have been verbally put down for years and now feel like the ugliest worthless human on the planet. Recently he just quit calling, Oh by the way he never wanted to live together full time, my son and I would pack up and visit (30 miles away) on weekends. He quit calling and when asked he said, I am not at a financial level he wants, I am angry and mean? I am hurt, I am broken yet Matthew I am waiting for his call or text asking me to come back? The hard part is knowing everything is wrong yet it is easier to go back to my comfort zone.

  8. D says:

    Hi Matthew. Thank you for making sense of this self-destructing cycle that several women go through. I used to think it was only my impatience that caused me to settle for who or what is available. I now understand that lack of confidence caused my perfection to soften into niceness and to later transform into being a comfortable, easy choice for another person. Confidence from within turns out to be the key. :)

  9. Abhilasha says:

    Yes, all of your words were so relatable. I have always been with low self esteem because of which I have let people hurt me or take me for granted. I know I don’t need to do that, but I had to, to survive.
    With the hope that someday someone will open that door and tell me that No, you don’t belong here. You deserve a better life, a better self.
    So, thank you for the video. I was scared to accept the truth, but now I am learning.

  10. sarah ssamula says:

    thank you very much for this am those three women i mean all after watching this i need coreconfident.com mazing video you have changed my life today

  11. Kate says:

    Thank you so much for this video. I was definitely the “nice” girl for a long time. After I watched this video, I realized that what I was looking for from this guy was not love or respect but approval. I was so desperate to be liked, that I would still go and see this guy even though I knew that he was interested in me seriously. Now that I’ve realized this, I can go forward with core confidence. Keep doing what you do!

  12. Avia Smith says:

    I’m all three

  13. Monique Mcherron says:

    Nice perfection

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  15. Prenita Nanand says:

    At a point in my life I lived under the umbrella of all three until I hit rock bottom the bottom of rock bottom and in the journey of developing a deep and unshakable self love I stumbled upon self or core confidence which I daily dedicate to improving
    Thank you for this message so many woman needed to hear this and so many of us neeeded to be reminded of how far we have come
    Will definitely check out the training as a means to enhance my core confidence because self growth and personal development is limitless- (miracle Magnet 111) #upcomingalchemistcoach
    Love your work Matthew, you inspire me daily and add a variety of lense to which I see my self worth . Love to the team and shout out to Jameson and Steve . Keep shining and blessings …let’s allow wisdom to go viral !!!

  16. Nichole says:

    Nice video. However, this has nothing to do with gender or type. You are describing human nature. We all feel all three moments in our lives. It’s an ebb and flow that belongs to life. Men feel like imposters, young men feel they do the “nice” thing. Every single person in our society clings to their smart phone. None of this is news.

  17. Kieren L says:

    Evening guys,

    Slight deja vu moment, as friends and I were discussing this last week and I don’t think it matters if you’re a woman or guy. We’re all of those people, at any stages of our life.

    We were describing it as our “inner mojo” as opposed to “core confidence” but once you have that unshakeable belief in yourself, you can achieve anything. Comments, behaviours and people bounce off you; there’s a change in your demeanour and body language once it clicks. And as we’ve all heard before, you can’t own someone else’s actions!

    Thank you guys for an awe-inspiring video, the honesty and for making a lot of people happy today x

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  19. Laurel says:

    WOW! That took me back a step & caused me to reflect on my current situation. I identify with all 3. Luckily, I have learned so much from you, how to break out from the cycle, & set standards, but in truth it is still a familiar practice to fall into. Great message Matt. You keep me in the now & what I want for myself. I concur with the girl that is grateful for being alive in the same time as you. Your advice is very appreciated & shared. xoxo

  20. Nota Xondrou says:

    After 39 years and a lot of disappointment, there comes a guy out of nowhere, hundreds of kilometres away, who reveals to you the truth about you, without even knowing you. (Wtf?)!!!!!!

  21. Denise says:

    PS “for myself” is not the right way to explain it, I meant more “following and expressing healthy and balanced feelings”. I’m sure you get it!

  22. Denise says:

    Matt, this video resonates so much. I have followed your advice and a couple of your programs for years and continued to improve whilst still making old, and some Very Bad, mistakes, realising that every time I got hurt it was because there was a “rule”, some advice, I hadn’t followed. But at every hard attempt it just gets better. I know now that I will be okay, whether alone or with somebody, I can take more risks but with the lucidity that I’m doing it for myself and not to please others or have their love. I may still make some mistakes but I am a different person, I know it is possible. THANK YOU.

  23. Janet says:

    Oh my Gosh, I’m crying my eyes out with this video. How is it that you always know exactly what to say, Matt? I relate so much to all three, and just this morning I thought I just wasn’t ready, but now I’m all over the place with my thoughts. Core confidence. It’s not the first time you talk about it, and it’s certainly not the first time I realise how much that needs to be my focus. Thanks, sweetheart, for never failing to bring me insight and perspective on my life. I will be forever grateful.

    Love always, Janet

  24. Zina M says:

    hi matthew, i was following you on facebook for more than 5 years (it means since my first relationship!) but unfortunately i wasn’t listening to what are you saying all your videos and blogs i was reading watching them but i nvr get them! most time when i was reading or watching them i was making fun of what are you saying and most of my responses was like (oh come on for god sake!),But before few months from now i watched and i read and i was regret that i didnt really understand what you are trying to say, and i was thinking if only i just really listened to what you are trying to say i might be save my relationship or one of the other relationships that i had later! i know i can’t change the past but at least i can change the present time and these few months that i watched and read your videos and blogs really changed me. thank you and thanks for all your team for what you do!

  25. Tash says:

    I have purchased your product(s) & thank you so much for gifting the insight of ‘a man’s brain’. My relationship is fruitful – but Im confident to move on when needed: Armed with the Tools that Matt provides!

    Your products work!

    Thank you Matt!

  26. Jenny says:

    Matt you are an inspiration & simply awesome at what you do. I love the Core Confidence video. It’s so easy to allow your confidence to be chipped away, bit by bit, by life and some of the people in it but much harder to build it back up again.
    Thank you so much x

  27. Andree says:

    Great video here. I would say that sometimes we are all one and at other times we are (as you reveal) all three more often than we’d like to admit. The idea of having confidence when dating, especially if you are nervous about getting back in the scene or have been hurt and don’t want to go through that again is something I think we can all benefit from! (by the way — the link to GetCoreConfidence wants to come up as a http://www., at least in Chrome browser).

  28. Evelyn joze says:

    This really good video amazing ,. Lust is just for that moment, but love is forever. I need a man in my life to love me. But not to lust me

    • Jameson Jordan says:

      The good news Evelyn is that it starts with you. Figure out how to love yourself- treat yourself with the respect you deserve- everything else follows. As Matt says “The battle is won while you’re still single.” The Retreat Program is the ultimate partner in winning that battle, in building a happy, fulfilling life. :)

  29. Leah says:

    You got it all figured out don’t ya ;) By the way are you single? And where do you live anyway? :D

  30. Terri says:

    Interesting video and I would say I’m a bit of all three, however in recent years less of the nice as I don’t put myself into situations where there is a potential for dating. I’m too old for dating dramas so find comfort a lot more appealing at my age! It’s sad in a way, but there has to be a point when one can gracefully admit defeat and get on with living their own life. :o)

  31. Michelle Gova says:

    Hi! Thanks for the miracle of having you in this life as a coach, as a human friend, as a courage heart, and as a true example of what Im looking to become and to find as a partner in life.
    Its amazing the amount of love, preparation, simplicity and joy you inject in each of your speeches and videos
    thanks again for making me smile and also for activate a whole process of self awareness
    hope to meet you one day,

  32. Shilan says:

    WOW! right on spot!

  33. Kerry-Ann says:

    Keeps saying there is an error when I try to download the getcoreconfidence.com

  34. Susan says:

    I’m interested in cor confidence

    • Matthew Hussey says:

      You’ll love the At-Home Retreat Susan. It’s the most comprehensive program I’ve ever created for gaining unshakeable core confidence!

  35. Ann says:

    Oh. My. God. You have just knocked me back in my seat. I am an amazing woman but haven’t been able to keep a steady companion for the last 2 years after my last long term relationship. This video brought it all into focus. AND, it made me understand that the long-term relationships I had in the past, ultimately failed because they were with the kind of men who were able to break through these behaviors in me. Namely charismatic, demanding and likely narcissistic. At least now, I know that I’m not willing to settle for that kind of man any longer. But I’m still stuck in the old behavioral rut which keeps me attracting that same kind of character. This video brought it all home. Wow. But now what? I know what not to do….

    • Matthew Hussey says:

      Just wait Ann. I’ll be revealing all about the At-Home Retreat program with my amazing new bonuses over the next couple days. Can’t wait for you to take the journey with us!

  36. Snehal says:

    Hi Matthew,
    This video was really very helpful…please keep sending such awesome videos…

  37. Mary says:

    Very interesting video. I actually thought it was a different woman in each ‘type’. How you feel reflects in your appearance. Before the end of the video, I decided I was all three – but more a combination of 2 & 3. Admitting it is a start, I guess. Looking forward to seeing the video. :)

  38. Mandy says:

    Strong video Matt! Maybe you can ad a fourth woman. The woman who is aware she is a mix of al three of the women, but instead of breaking out of them, she sees herself as a flawed person and analyses herself day in day out untill she ends up burnout (me). Or wait, maybe that is comfort+perfection too.. ;-) very curious about the training!

    P.S. Love the details on your collar blazer

  39. Ana says:

    This is really a good video!I just finished “Get the guy” book and I can see new stuff that can cause the love life problems. Thank you Matthew for all your help, because since I’ve began seeing your videos and after reading the book my life changed in a good way! Keep up the good work! :)

  40. Nicole says:

    Hi Matthew. Your video made me sad but in a good way sort of! as I don’t feel alone. Maybe lots of women do juggle with different hats on! I thought it was only me.
    I used to be potential, I was potential. Now I have scars, which I’m dealing with and I became all of those 3 women rolled into one. I feel stuck and I think it’s because of narcissistic abuse in a very long relationship. This may not be an area you know much about but I bet lots of your fans do and would love to hear your advice on how to break free. It is a place of limbo. You know what to do but you can’t quite get to the other side.
    Love N x

  41. azza says:

    you are so handsome and sweet :)
    i have mo Comment only this ;)

  42. Laura says:

    Matt, this is mind-blowing! :)

  43. A. says:

    I don’t know if I’m comfortable, nice, or perfect. But I know I AM IRON WOMAN!



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