When You Feel Alone After Heartbreak (3 Secrets To Moving On)…

It’s nearly 2019. Maybe you’re missing someone right now as the holidays roll around.

But now is not the time to mourn. Now is the time to truly begin your healing and put yourself back together before next year begins.

Here’s what you need to know to finally move on…

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  1. Ramona Fingersh says:

    Forgive and reframe. These will be valuable for me in this time of change from being married to being divorced. The thing I am having trouble with is how to know what I was bad in the relationship for me to fix. I will try to utilize teaching.

  2. Justine says:

    Excellent! Best advice so far. I split with him. What you said, his view was the convenient reason it wasn’t good (not necessarily the real truth.) AND THE BEST- This IS what happened, I became stronger in myself and it revealed what He WASNT WILLING TO GIVE!
    Thank you very much.

  3. carla says:

    Hello Matthew
    Three years ago, I was there, by myself with a little baby in my arms, alone, feeling guilty and with hole in my hart. It took a month to realice that no mater what I had to keep on going and stand up and I did most of your advice, for the first time in my life I focus my attention in myself, I was selfish enough to understand that If I want to see my doughter happy again first I was the one to be happy and sharw that happinest and confidence with her. I have a circle of my friends, I cut all the thing that can hurt if I see my ex hasband, social media out, friends in common out, family out, I dont say it was perfect but at that time was painfull to see them, beging to lern new thing Tango, cooking, read different things, yoga, meditation, you name it I did it, my family was insane but for the record I found that I love the person that was flourishing, the joy to be happy with myself. After three years I could say that my divorce was the best thing that happen in my life, I was hell but give me the chance to found the beutifull woman I am, thanks to help us to be more present, not for a guy is for ourselfs. Thanks

  4. mry says:

    In pain. how do I move on without the love of my life.
    I am sad.
    Bt – I am ok /only my heart is broken.
    I am secure.
    I have my wonderful family/children. + 2 Grandchildren.
    HoweverI choose to keep stuff to myself.
    at my age how silly to complain of a broken heart. !

  5. Kate says:

    What happens when you’re 58, Matthew? There is no next time.

  6. Kim says:

    Matthew I have been to you for almost 8 years. I appreciate you so much. Thanks for this video, it was wonderful.

  7. Cynthia Ericson says:

    thank you, it was a nice reminder of the power of self forgiveness. merry christmas and happy boxing day.

  8. Jane says:

    I needed this today. Its exactly where I am right now.

  9. Christiana Anna Ali says:

    Honestly Matt, before I watched this video i was blaming myself badly for the break up by my partner. I realized that he’s having inferiority complex (after I reviewed our previous discussions with him) based on my grade level at work & projects am in to even before the relationship began. His comments didn’t ring any bell then. But now am clear. Thanks Matt.

  10. Rose says:

    I love you so much. There is something about you that is so special. Please keep doing what you do. You are a special gift to all of us. I cry when I watch most of your videos because they are so sweetly delivered. Your love and your concern for the women you work with shines through in every word you say. Thank you for giving us your heart and showing us that there are men that truly care. I am so grateful for your message.

  11. Naomi Moyo says:

    What should you do when you have an forgettable memories with him spend many years with him and the next day he says he no longer wants you but he still loves you. When he was the only perfect guy you ever imagined your self with ,you try so hard to forget but it’s impossible cause you love him to much

  12. Maria says:

    Especially like the part about the reasons people give us for breaking up and about how if we had been different (if we had had the qualities we thought we needed for the relationship to go well), the whole dynamic would have been different and we might not even have ended up with this person in the first place

  13. Nickolena turcotte says:

    Just want to say thank you from bottom of my heart for all you give

  14. Melody says:

    The advice you give is helping me in a major way this holiday season, especially with my marriage ending and being alone once again. I know my life is changing for the better. Thank you for the encouragement and enlightenment you give to so many people, including myself.

  15. Vanessa Kleinwort says:

    Thank very much beautiful message I need to hear that really going threw a hard break been betrayed so badly

  16. Emily says:

    This video is tremendously helpful!! Thank you so much for the practical guidance and advice. All points were spot on. It’s a relief that someone understands and also offers help for what to actually do about it. Very grateful!!!

  17. Mj says:

    Such perfect things to hear. Going through break up sadness at the this time, I broke up with him, not that i wanted to but i knew I needed to do it. This is so on point. Always. Thank you and happy holidays.

  18. Jackie says:

    The guy i met that has hurt me was constantly putting me down started off as a joke then his putting mr down became on a daily bases…hey! Said Whats wrong why you doing this.

    Hed laugh and tell me he got a kick out of putting me down
    He wouldnt hug me or show any emotion when i was upset or feeling down …hed add to it by calling me a name or walk out saying i was misrable to be around …
    What was wrong with me i was missing this man wow!

  19. Monica says:

    These words were exactly what I needed to hear today and have given me strength and hope. Thank you so much Matthew!

  20. Karen thomdon says:

    Thank you I just listened to
    Your advice as I sit IP
    From my partner only yesterday and am suffering. You have helped me a lot from regretting and blaming myself. So thank


  21. Catherine Eli says:

    Sometimes when you put your hopes in someone like your happiness is in the person that is when they break up with you you feel rejected, self dependency is very important so that after break up you will not feel too rejected,be the creater of your own happiness so that in case anything happens and let God take the lead in your life

  22. Fiona Campbell says:

    It’s true, I followed the Matthew Hussey at-Home Retreat and have had the most powerful year for 25 years.I’m flying. Best present I have ever given myself.

  23. Willy says:

    This sets one free of worrying and that is one of the greatest things we can do for each other. Thank you Matthew!

  24. Cathy says:

    A beautiful message, clearly stated, with your warm conviction behind it that brings so much weight to your words, Matt! I’m forwarding this to a friend who has just gone through a bad breakup. You have helped me so much, and continue to help me. I hope she chooses to benefit from your wisdom as well. Merry Christmas, Matthew, and thank you for all you do in the world to help us grow and create more fulfilling relationships!

  25. Terri Bissey says:

    Thank you so much .. guess that’s what I needed reminding of.. Happy Holidays!

  26. Ellen Shapiro says:

    Thank you for this wisdom, Matthew. I’ve been doing this work–forgive and reframe since the summer when a relationship ended in a hurtful way. And what I have learned and transformed in myself will indeed be an amazing gift to the next man I am with.

  27. Kat says:

    This video really helps! Thank you!
    I screwed up a big time this year, in relationship and in my career.
    Dec/24 is my birthday, I have been crying for no reasons these few days, probably because the one I broke up with will not be there with me on my birthday. I have always felt blessed to be born during festive season , but not this year. It sucks.

  28. lisa says:

    wait I’m confused. in the beginning he says it’s probably not your fault, but at the end he goes on to say “even if you f*cked the whole year up it’s a good thing,” indicating that it could have been our fault after all.

  29. Julz says:

    You are an amazing help to me Matthew I have just been totally controlled by a man who was everything to me NSA situation where he had control but I forgive him because he cane into my life when I needed him he made me feel amazing after a difficult marriage break up and I will remember him forever but he was young and is still finding himself I knew we were not ever forever I try to have gratitude but I miss seeing him a lot sooo much I know I need to move in and have found some wonderful options but none as intoxicating and intense as with him

  30. Honey bahalan says:

    Matt how back my boyfriend?

  31. Krisha says:

    This is one of the best gifts you could give us. A gift of hope and new beginnings. A shift in thought process can drastically change our life. Really appreciate you for such thought provoking videos.

    Stay blessed.

  32. Carol Ibaran says:

    Hi Matt, you’ve given me hope when I needed it and you are brilliant at what you do. Thank you. Over a year ago my boyfriend broke my heart I chase him relentlessly, I don’t want to go into all the details, but after a year of being apart we finally went on a few dates and ended up sleeping together. After, the first time he said I don’t want a relationship and I don’t want to sleep with you, however we continued to have a few dates and slept together two times after that and he then said I don’t want to see you anymore I’m getting to emotionally close to you and I can’t forget what happed in the past. He said we could be friends and talk and when we said good bye he didn’t even hug me he seemed angry and he said I’ll check in on you. It’s been a month and he has not reached out I decided I will not reach out anymore. I’m terribly hurt we broke up before two years ago it was the week before Christmas, I hate the holidays now. It’s not fair to my kids I’m always sad I need to stop being selfish and be there for them. I’m trying I really am. Matt it’s so difficult I’m 48 I’ve had two men my whole life my ex husband for 18 years I’ve been divorced six years and Ted, the ex boyfriend whom I love very much. Any advice would be appreciated. I wish you and your loved ones all the best for the holidays❤️

  33. Nicky says:

    Thank you Matthew,

    You uploaded this video at a time that I needed it most. Wish you a merry Christmas.

  34. Caroline says:

    Wow. Just what I needed to hear.

    Thank you Matthew and Merry Christmas to you and your family.

    Caroline in Kenya

  35. Sonya Whitton says:

    I want to marry you Mr Hussey wow ,you rock, I’m understanding more and more ,you truly resonate, I feel extremely lucky to have stumbled across your site,merry Christmas ××

  36. CB says:

    Thank you Matt for all your incredible help all over the year since I have found you! You are doing a great job! Much love for you and the best for the next year!

  37. grace says:

    my comment is if my ex contacts me and it ends up that he wants me back. No 1 how do i know his wanting me back for the right reasons. what would be the correct answer if i asked him why does he want to reunite. and even though i may want him back its going to be hard to trust again.

  38. caz says:

    all very true words Matthew. The constant questions you are ask yourself drive you down even more. Thank you for reminding us we are only human but stronger than we know. Happy Holidays to you.

  39. Susan says:

    Your message could never t have come at a better time. Yes was brutally dumped in July and I am still processing the heartbreak when my ex contacted me to see how I was doing tons but. The first time in 5 months. I have been debating how to respond to his text. Your message tonight will help me respond in a dignified manner and I am so grateful for the clarity you have given me. Merry Christmas!! You’ll never know what this has meant to me!!

  40. Alexa Ochoa says:

    Omg Mathew this is great !!! Thank you so much :)) your vids really help me a lot you totally change my point of view at relationships. Hope you are doing great :))) merry Christmas ❤️❤️❤️

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