Why It’s WORTH IT to Do Hard S#!T

There’s a myth about confidence that it’s something you can just magically think yourself into

But there are also ways to boost your confidence and get started right now, without any therapy, books, or spiritual mantras.

Use this strategy, and you’ll begin to feel like you can move mountains…

You Don’t Have to Do the Hard Things Alone.
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18 Responses to Why It’s WORTH IT to Do Hard S#!T

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  1. Katie Camel says:

    I love this video! It’s so true — confidence comes from doing the hard thing, not the easy thing. Once we overcome challenges, we feel better about ourselves. We even view the hard thing as not all that hard afterwards too. It’s often our fear of failure that makes some things seem hard, though that’s not say everything we face is easy.

    Perfect timing too – I found this video in my inbox yesterday and mentioned it on my blog. Push through and do the hard thing! It’ll pay off.

    Thank you, Matthew, for always offering such great advice!

  2. Norma says:

    I enjoyed this so much. It’s a confirmation of my daily actions without a name. One question, when do you know to stop doing the hard things
    I never pray for an easier life just strength and wisdom. But I need my life to flow…

  3. Julie says:

    Great advice…Thanks for that Matthew!

  4. Amanda Wilson says:

    Thank you Matthew. Really needed this kick up the backside.

  5. Loveleen says:

    Wow this is the wonderful information I’ve ever had. Thanks for giving us a valuable information sir I’m glad now.

  6. Cassie says:

    Wow, Matthew, get out of my head! The woman avoiding what she’s supposed to be doing by using too much Facebook and Netflix is SO me. There are several things I’ve been wanting to do for years that I’ve never truly dived into because it’s just so easy not to. The couch is comfy and the Doritos are cheesy, as Mark Manson said in an article he wrote. I’m never going to get where I want to be if I don’t just suck it up and do it, already!

  7. Fiona Campbell says:

    I did the home study course and my life has taken off. I’ve written two books in 6 months and one maybe made into a film. And I’ve seen through a man who has been trying to control me with hypnosis since I was 3. I’m 51 now. Matthew Hussey, thank you with all my heart for your words of refined wisdom, they stick in the head at the toughest of junctions and light the way that’s right for me.
    I would recommend the home study course to ANYONE.

  8. Nina says:

    U r right on the mark when u say do the hard shit 1st, channel that energy when u r hurt to do something that will bring u up – Matt I have tried and done them too , but there is a point in life when u fell in love again and was not only got severd but broken into million pieces that u can’t even put yourself together anymore- just too damaged and exhausted – it’s fine to work on ur self and ur confidence but as a social creature we want to be loved. And what if u consistently fail in that part of life ? Would u not think that its u and blame yourself as to why u can’t find love like some do ??

  9. Sarah says:

    To learn and grown
    Confidence within
    Self love
    Deserving of happiness
    To fine a man who falls head over heels for me
    Happier future

  10. Nicole says:

    Hi Matthew. I absolutely love your video’s. You are a great life guru. But please change the name of your website ‘howtocatchtheguy’. It’s not a helpful title. Almost goes against your messages and not everyone wants a guy. Some people may want to be with their same sex. I’m heterosexual and it still makes me feel uncomfortable. Howtocatchyourself is the message I get from your videos. Catching a guy is a message that we are not good enough at the moment if we don’t succeed. Today’s message is really good. Getting up and feeling proud of yourself is the key to keeping going. Being single for a while is a good thing as well! Especially after a traumatic break up. Looking forward to your next video x

  11. Salome. Danaldi says:

    U re such a nice man.. Thanks for your write ups.. I love them

  12. Christine says:

    You spoke to me at just the right time This has nothing to do with my love life! Im 3 months into a dream job, but I have had some not so glowing feedback from my manager. I’m facing a hard talk with him this week – but I want to succeed in this role. It’s going to be “hard shit” but I need to believe in my abilities – and accept some criticism to get where I need to be. Thank you, Matthew for your sage advice

  13. louisa stlouis says:

    You can do anything long you made up your mind it maybe hard to do it long you start the process and believe it or not everything has end and god with you always hold on to that faith and trust yourself you be that person again never gave up

  14. Suz says:

    I need this!!!

  15. Natasha Jouhl says:

    Very cool 5 minute video that makes such a valid point! Now I will make it my agenda to do something hard and challenging every day. I’m pretty sure I do most of the time, but it’s great to be reminded. You’re right also how it can change one’s outlook for an hour, a day, and then a lifetime.

  16. Debs says:

    I’ve just experienced this in my life. You’re spot on When you do the hard things first, the rest of your day gets so easy. If you put them off, they build up until life seems so hard just to get up in the morning from the weight of all the hard stuff that’s waiting for you.

  17. Mamokete Tsehlana says:

    Thank you so much for this message I hope my love life will change & will become a happy relationship,I real feel motivated after listening this message, thank you so much I hope God soon will make things be good

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