Don’t you wish you cared a little less about what other people think?
I often say in my events and seminars that ‘99% of people live their lives determined by the thoughts of strangers’, and for this week’s video I’ve done something a bit different…
I take you behind the curtain of mine and Jameson’s strategy for these weekly videos, I share a lesson on how to stand strong behind your opinions, and we give a practical takeaway to stop caring about what other people think immediately.
Don’t be afraid to innovate. Don’t be confined to one thing. Give yourself the space to manoeuvre, and try different things within your personality.
Challenge: Next time you go out, can you go the entire time without getting into the subject of your work? (or whatever it might be you usually latch onto in conversation)
Take a risk and challenge yourself by testing the limits of your own charisma and confidence.
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If you like this kind of “irrelevant sh*t” – not explicit love life advice – let me know in the comments below! I’d love to hear what you made of this one, and how it helps you push the bounds of your personality.
Matt,
I LOVE that you are sharing your journey with us and SHOWING bravery by demonstrating and not just telling us to be. It takes guts to share those comments which were brutal but you made them part of the journey.
Speaking of bravery and not begin boxed in, might want to consider another URL :) as you expand your own boundaries.
I LOVE it!
Cheers!
Smeeta
P.S. Excited for whats to come July 31.
Great video, great content! x
Keep on doing these types of videos as well, please. People need to listen more stuff like that… the end of the this particular one was hell of a good fun to listen to.. thank you for sharing part of your honest best-self on-line as well.. Cheers.. e
Hi Matt,
I think the reason that your book, blog, videos and everything you have a hand in are so spot on, is because you have far reaching interests and an expansive mind. If you were focused solely on dating the whole time, your work would be very shallow and probably resemble some of those unhelpful dating rule books from the 80’s and 90’s.
You obviously have a lot of talent and wide ranging interests so I completely agree with you stretching out your gaze and avoiding becoming pigeonholed. Keep it up bro. I’m always intrigued by your point of view.
Matt your doing great. Your videos are awesome and always leave me inspired even the more random ones ;) they actually validate, for me, your opinion on relationships and life because you are able to show that you are a well rounded person and not selling a quick fix.
KEEP IT UP Mr. West!
Hahaha…i love it! Wish I’d seen this earlier! Your. Kanye West impersonation was very cute and funny:)! As always, what had to say made alot of sense! And yes… i actually do like irrelevant shit at times:))!!! Lol…
Literally Laughed out loud,
Ok…correction to my comment a moment ago…Meant to say…”what You had to say made a lot of sense”!:)
Keep on keepin it real Kanye;)
Great Video!
Innovation, expansion, creativity, being yourself all those things take a lot of practices, dedication and focus. Eventually, when we see results by expanding and getting what we initially only dreamed about we experience the best days of our lives!!! Totally, all those things are worth living!!!
Best Wishes,
Veronika