This is an important question to ask yourself. Check out this week’s video episode of LOVELife to find out why, and what your answer should mean to you…
Question Of The Day: What’s the #1 characteristic you look for in a guy? Let me know in the comments below!
Excellent insight Matt!
Thank you!
Love the videos Matt. I do think I’m a decent catch. My problem is that I don’t really like very many guys… I guess I find I don’t click with a lot of them. Dating is difficult because of this and also because I’m from a very small town where everyone knows everyone and all of my friends are engaged/married. There are only a few eligable guys in my town and all the single girls are after them and sort of compete with each other, and these few eligable guys know this so they just draw out the process of picking one to date. I find a lot of your advice is for people who live in a city. Any suggestions to either of these problems (not being attracted to many ppl, having a very small dating pool with a lot of competition).
Confidence – It’s super sexy when a guy shows confidence in who he is and what he has to offer. You can see confidence in the way he moves, the way he holds himself, and how he communicates.
Although what they look like may be the first thing – because without a visual attraction you may not give the guy the time of day. ;o)
Matt,
This is such good advice. It really kind of hit me and humbled me and made me want to be a better outwardly person, wow! Wait to go. I would say I look for someone who seems kind and smart and has a sense of humour a great smile really helps too!
Jessica
In addition:
To be respected on a level where I feel safe enough to open up to another person, experiencing that joy of life together without fear would be the ultimate goal for a relationship