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My “best friend” stopped talking to me (after high school) unless he wanted something. He made me feel abandoned because I thought to myself “I can’t that even though I tried to satisfy others, this is all I get” until now. I now realize that I’m not an optional desert after a big meal. I deleted him off of my social media and never replied to him again. I now accept the fact that I should be proud of the things I enjoy doing, rather than worrying about what I should be doing to impress that cute girl I saw at the college. I am a poetic portugoose and although I may not be a great poet, I’m still proud of it and that I’ll keep reminding every single gal who feels like a side piece that they are not so.
Thank you so much for the lovely video Matthew!
This is a very moving program that you are doing. Not only for the younger generation, but the older generation as well. I am getting close to 60 and I believe you have a powerful message for men and women, young and old. I have been totally single for 25 years meaning no dating either. My family means everything to me, most have passed on, but the few who remain I hold dear to my heart. And that also includes my friends and neighbors. I live in a large home alone with my 20 year old Pomeranian and fish.. There is just one problem I found in all you said. What about the individuals like myself? I am disabled,I will not ever be able to work andI suffer with acute pain everyday. I can’t remember the last time that I had a pain free day. However, I try my hardest not to let the grass grow under my feet. I continueally find new reasons to keep trying, I also love to make people smile. What you had said about a man threw me a curve ball.I am a pretty woman with a huge heart,I have the patience of an oyster and a kind soul.I believe beauty is more on the inside than outside and a heart full of love is the most precious gift you can receive because it is freely given and no amount of money can buy it. However, I live in the country in oklahoma, I do not have a vehicle and I rarely am able to get out. Besides praying…I don’t know how I would ever find who God intends on me being with, yes I have lonesome times just like every other human being,but how do you find someone when there is no possibility of meeting them? As for the rest of my life I am happy I make time for two grown children and 4 grandchildren. I am very proud of them.
I suppose what I am trying to ask is do you think it possible to find a mate in this late life? The rest of my life is perfect as can be, but seeing as how open and honest you were I believe I can expect an honest answer from you. One last thing, I had never been in love my intire life, but when my friend died I realized that I had been in love for the first time in my life…that was an awakening especially at the age of over 50 years.I hope that you answer this comment and questions personally.
Thank you so much…
Its helped me alot thank you Mathew for all your help, I wish I could afford your retreat video, I hope one day I will see it. Thank you again.
Wow so much learned.thank you ❤
I can only assume Matthew doesn’t read these as it would be quite time consuming but I assume a staff member does. Hello to you :) can you tell Matthew to come back to Australia and hold his retreat here?
I don’t know the statistics in other parts of the world but here in Australia a women every week is killed by relationship violence.
When I hear about another women killed on the news it makes me feel hopless as a single women. I don’t know the solution to fixing it but I think it’s quite possible that a massive shift in dating culture is needed. No doubt a thousand other things are needed too. But I think Matthew has a voice that could speak to this; big ask I know! But it’s just a thought I had while watching this video, and I figure if you don’t ask then you’ll never create the opportunity to receive. Much love xx
Hi Matthew, Thank you so much that was really helpful. Sincerely,jane
Wanted to a drop a Thank You to Matthew. Your videos are helping me as new, young business woman. I modified your advice to help me with my new career and it’s helped immensely. I am looking at everything through a different lens. Your efforts have not gone unnoticed.
Thank you so much. This makes a big impact on me.
This is exactly what I needed ♥️ You helped me understand what I never thought I could and made me feel better for how I live my life from now on. Thank you!
Ohhh myyyy the Butterfly ending struck my soul. Thank you Matthew
Matt, you have so many incredible videos, but this one definitely hit Home ! Thank You
It’s really nice I want to know more about it thanks
Do you ever plan on touring in Australia (brisbane) for some of your seminars or even hold your retreat in australia?
I am sure a lot of people would love to have you here.
Great video, and love love the butterfly analogy. Your messages bring me closer to having that real core confidence, a little each day with every video I watch!
So eye opening. Specially when it was right there in front of your eyes.It felt like it hit me so hard. oh,The butterfly! My Gosh. I could not have thanked you enough.
You changed alot in me through this video….thanks…❤
I really needed that
Love it. Really love and appreciate your delivery of the information. This is something I really needed to hear today
So amazing!!! I literally was into this video for the entire time! Thanks Matthew, you open our eyes to real things, to the things we never pay attention to. Thanks so much again
I feel insecure about my weight, face, facial hair, not being enough. It rose to a level that I started getting nightmares every time I slept and headaches almost every other day, could not focus on studying . I realized I’ve never really loved myself. I’m working on this. Coming across this video has really helped me. I can’t attend the retrieve , I wish I could but I hope I can one day.
Thank u so much Matthew for just helping all of us women here that truly want true in their life u give me so much hope.
This was powerful. Thank you!
Thank you. You are a great public speaker and that speech was very useful to me.
This is awesome
Well this give me alot to think and work on myself , i lost my jod today and i feel shit but now i’m great to watch this video thanke you matt ❤.
I don’t know how to or what to say…just thank you, thats all I can say
Thank you Matt! I am all 3 women & yes, I had a stinger situation happen to me. But for some odd reason you IG & Emails have been “Flashing” at me that I finally said….” Ok Hussey! What now!” This video is what I needed to hear & see! Because to be honest 2 days is all it took to get over it because before seeing your video, I felt good & that’s because your other videos have helped me developed my core confidence and get ice crap soon.
THANK YOU!!!! You helped me get over a possible long wasted grieving time!
I too am Iron Man! I’m proud of my Achivements & no one can take that away from me!
Thank you, Matthew, for always somehow knowing what I need at my lowest point. I am reflecting and learning and growing from a relationship that failed, but I have never been so inspired by the voice I found and mistakes I have made. I know I have value to give, and it is okay if that isn’t accepted! I want to continue working on myself because I know I will be okay no matter what happens. In fact, I will be much better after this. This video is so profound and powerful, and I cannot thank you enough for it!
I studied so many articles about how to boost my self-confidence, but none of them really helped me that way. Today, I felt like a baby starts learning the meaning of a new word: Confidence! Thanks Matthew for this brilliant video which acted as a turning point in my ‘the happier me” journey!
I’ve been trying to watch you’re video all day whilst having my 2 and a half year old child. Pausing and replaying your video at least 8 times since this morning. But every time I watch your video your words kept drawing me back as soon as I got the chance to. Watching you up on that stage showing so much confidence and competence was amazing. Your words are so powerful. This video definitely relates to me 100% and I’m so glad I’ve watch this. It helped me to understand how to be more confident in life. I just have to learn how to have more of that in me, not forgetting the competence too and that starts from today. Thank you so much Matthew, you are an incredible man.
Amazing how the video came at the right time. Thankyou
Thank Heavens for people like you Matthew. It’s inspiring, you don’t make people feel like you’re above them but that we are all the same, we just need a new outlook. I hope to be able to attend the retreat one day.
This was amazing to listen to! I listened and have worked your get the guy program. I haven’t found my guy or my “perfect” career yet but you have taught me how to improve my core confidence by valuing myself first and creating that core person that was always there but afraid to show her face. It’s been a gradual process I am ever grateful to your lessons and my acceptance of your well earned wisdom!!
Just wow! Thank you, Matthew. Your words touch me in so many level.
Thank You Mathew, you saved me. You really did.
It means so much to me. Thanks Again!
Thank you Matt for sharing this video for free! I loved every single part of it. You’re fucking charming with your vulnerability that makes your audience crack with laughter. Beautiful guy you.
I watched woman 1…2…3…
and thought… none of these.
My name is confidence!
I sh** you not Matt!
Then I clicked through to this
And watched with a resounding YES!!
Well done!! ❤️ Love it!
~ the one you called “the master”
In NY three short years ago… ~ ✨
So good , I love the butterfly example. Always worth listening to you. I have been through these moments and I am still going through. Resigned from work and I can see how much they value me. It was affecting me as I wasn’t expecting this treatment at all but yes after watching this video I feel core confidence is to letting it go if they don’t value me . Makes me feel even stronger on my decision. Thanks Matt, you always make sense.
Brilliant! So many people need to hear this. I don’t want to exhaust myself trying to be something I’m not. The one thing I’ve neglected was myself. If I can make myself happy and love who I am, nothing and no one can break me. Thanks, Matthew
Bravo…… Matt!! It was awesome! so….. edifying, powerful and transforming!! Thankyou so…..much for all you do!! I always believed that no matter who we are and what we do, the presence of passion within us is the greatest gift we can ever have in this short life on earth!! literally i am able to envision that in and through your life and messages!!
God bless you abundantly with more strength and wisdom to help and guide many like me!!
Thank you for this video. This is the missing piece that I didn’t know I was looking for.
I have been to your live retreat and it was literally the best week of my life! I would go again in a heartbeat Thanks for the reminder, I was feeling myself sink back to old ways of all 3 comfort, nice, and perfection. I’m going to review my notes again from the retreat on core confidence. Thank you for the free video-your content is so valuable Matthew…I mean Iron Man
Matthew thank you! I feel so inspired listening to you talk, as every one of your words and thoughts is amazing and has its place. I remember watching this funny video on your website about this woman and flaky guy, it is so great but disappointing to hear what happened next and yet your words would have elevated her as they did me when I got so amazingly fulfilled using it on another flaky guy of my own!
How amazing this words reach to us in perfect moments in life, so you are like God’s Instrument.
holy shit, how amazing your are!!!, thank you
I really need help, ive reached rock bottom. I cant attend the live session, not available. I need advise, and I wish I could reach to you?
Thank you Matthew!! You’re the real deal.
As I watched your Instagram video that led me to this page I was saying ok I’m a little like woman #1, then I saw I was also similar to #2, them by #3 it was oh shit I’m all 3! Thank you for this Matthew. Lovely wake up call!
I really appreciated the message you conveyed about confidence in this video. As for me, i have been living on core confidence my all life. Indeed, others’s opinions teared my mind down more than once. But at the end of the day, I would trust myself and do whatever I wanted.
So there is something I’d like to ask you. How do I upgrade? How do I get lifestyle and surface confidence on top of my core confidence?
Because it is great to be strong from the inside. But to be resistant on the long term in life, you also have to be strong on the outside.
P.S: my first language is french, so please do not mind the mistakes
This was great!! I liked that Matthew broke down the three levels of confidence and differentiated between competence and confidence!!
Thank you for allowing me to see negative situations happening to me in more positive light!
Thank you so much
This made me emotional, thank you for your wise words, it’s time for a change and to shake things up.
This is so amazing. When I watched the video on your ig, I was thinking these 3 woman exactly me and I need to get rid of them. And this is exactly what I need. I love you, Matthew. I’m sure I will make a big change of myself to my best version,and it’s because of you. Thank you so much.
Loved it <3 thank you
Awesome.. Great work!!
Moment of clarity!
Excellent. Of all days, this was the best day for me to watch and understand.
I really liked what you said and relate to it all. I am a single mom and a little difficult to come up with that much. Want to learn more about how to get my core confidence that I feel I never really had.
Thank you Matthew. You are an amazing human being. You have helped me to believe in myself and I’m truly grateful for you ever. I believe great things will come in your way.
Amazing you taught me something I was lacking, cos I was wondering why man leave me if am a good person, it means I hv been giving them lots of attentions, try my best to make them happy, please them and forgetting about me
thanks so much
Love this talk-I was enlightened and happy after watching.
Thank you ❤️
Wow I feel it, it’s like it talking me to a new path that I have to take. Thank you im pleased
Thank you for this. I can relate to so much of this. I’m now realizing that what I was missing all along was core confidence. This explains a lot of what has happened in my life. Hoping I can begin to work on building my confidence.
Thank you so much Matthew! Love the work you do!
Wow, Matthew, that was an amazing talk! Thank you for sharing it!