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This video just made me cry of happiness, thank you, Matthew! I just realized how happy I am to have that core confidence, even though surface and lifestyle are not good enough yet (for me) and now I feel even more excited to level it up.
Thank you for this encouraging message!
Omg, I’d definetely marry you!
Thank you so much for sharing this video. I just now realized why I am feeling down about myself as my confidence is in my lifestyle and not my core. You show so much passion and conviction on this and it is evident you truly want to help people. Thank you for all you do.
This video inspired me to make a change today. I have been on a rollercoaster of success in my Physics studies at university. I achieved the top grade in my year and just spent the summer in Chicago at one of the best particle accelerator laboratories in the world. I met professors from the likes of MIT, Havard, Yale all encouraging me to apply for places on their PhD programmes. I met the guy of my dreams whilst abroad, someone I finally felt I could fall in love with after the suffering I went through with my ex.
Upon my return to London it all came crashing down. My budding relationship faltered at the first hurdle. The guy who was crazy about me and me him suddenly became disinterested as the distance siphoned what love had blossomed in the states. I ended it over a Skype call and the look of relief on his face broke my heart once more.
My two entrance exams for PhD’s in America were disastrous. For the last 3 years I became accustomed to academic success, achieving high 80/90s in every exam. Suddenly I crashed. With my confidence low, my grades plummeted. My heart was not in it anymore. I already felt like I’m not good enough to go for such high calibre universities, what’s the point? My motivation gone, I couldn’t work hard…so I didn’t.
Right now, I feel like I am at such a limbo stage in my life. Applying for PhD’s in the states and UK, yet everyday I feel like I switch to where I want to be. In a “situationship/friends with benefits” with a guy I have been on again off again with, yet still talking to others. I go on first dates and I feel like its almost become a chore. I feel like the excitement, passion everything I loved about myself has sapped away. I feel like a younger version of myself. Unconfident, incompetant and unworthy.
I needed this video and more to kick start my mindset and retrain myself to see all the good that I am. To feel true confidence at my core, especially at this low point in my life.
Thank you Matthew for always inspiring me and being there whenever I need your videos, your words and your kindness.
Thank you Matthew! You are spot on! Please send retreat info. I look forward to reading about it.
Thank you so much.
I started watching your videos and benefiting a lot.
Thank you for your beautiful work.
Thank you so much its helpfull
I really love what you are doing. Your work is changing lives, thanks for the knowledge and advice. God bless you
That was absolutely great! Thank you from the bottom of my heart for sharing this! I have watched this when I needed the most! You’re such a great and inspiring person, keep up the good work. I could watch your videos for hours. God bless you and thanks again!!
Matthew I watched this a year ago and needed to hear it today more than ever. I know the retreat is going to change my life. I need it. I am trying to get there. Emma is my contact, I’m paying £99 a month and praying I can come up with the rest by May when I’m supposed to go. But I’ve just had to file for bankruptcy. It’s great, it’s a fresh start. I’m a single mum on benefits who works in the arts… so I’m getting there…I’m doing ok, but I know I can fall in love with my life again if I do this retreat… my question to you, is will switching to the at home retreat create the same results? I’d love to go to Miami but unless I start to shit gold it’s not sensible to pay for flights and a hotel on top of your fee. Your fee is insanely out of my budget, but I believe passionately that your retreat can help meand will be worth way more than you’re charging if it yields the results I’m expecting – WHEN it yields the results . I’ve had self esteem issues all my life and I’m so ready to say goodbye to them and live my life! So… can I switch to the at home or is the on site going to go deeper? I’m ready, Coach me! ❤️
Wow this was absolutely amazing. Thank you.
Thank u… Its make my whole day complete before sleep…. Grateful… Love from Bangladesh
This is really helpful
This is really helpful❤️
Wowwwww….Fantastic! thank you Matthew
i am a gay want to watch this amazing things that can be help myself
Great video. Learnt a lot. Great attitude towards life.
Great video. Learnt a lot.
Great speech, and very true to the core. I like the direction you’re going nowadays, using dating advice as relatable example and introduction to cover much deeper issues. You seem to have a potential of bringing men and women together again, and you can have a significant influence in discussions about what it means to be a man in modern day and age. Feel free to give me a shout if you ever consider creating content in VR – I’d be happy to help.
I want to keep this video as mp3 in my phone in order to listen to it as many times as i do to my favorite song- until i learn every word of it my heart
AWSOME VIDEO! As usual you are a Master at what you do!! Shows Everytime
I’m constantly learning New things from you. I am so excited each Video I watch!!!
CORE is the Foundation to ALL that you are!!! Without a STRONG CORE it’s VERY hard to be the Amazing person that you have inside you!!!
Thank you!! So VERY much!!
For your amazing Insight
I’m NOT dating at this point in my life
Because I’m working on ME FIRST
So THiS VIDEO was VERY much needed
Your talent for relationship’s is epic
Your IRON MAN
Have a Awesome Day!!
I am going to have BEST Day EVER!!!
I was texting my ex bf and he didn’t text me back. And just be confidence for yourself. And my ex has a big problem with himself and his parents won’t let him to talk or text me and his parents told him to break up with me
Extremely powerful!! Thank you soooo much
Thank you Matt, for sharing you, your energy and all you have learned. You make an uplifting difference.
I am so fuckin proud of you! I remember watching your very first video on YouTube( seems like a century ago, you was sat in a park somewhere in London ) and you was kinda cute and maybe too young to know as much as you did. Certainly too young to be giving relationship advice lol but you was great even then, and I was rooting for you. It’s amazing to see how much you’ve changed since then and how you’ve grown into your self. Thank you for this video, I love it. You are so hot btw especially when you are swearing.
The butterfly metaphor was beautiful. I was the one who was too afraid to lose the butterfly, but it just kept trying to escape. This gave me a different view and makes me understand what I was doing was unnecessary. I know I’ll find that guy who sees my value as much as I do. :) Thank you for the video!
I think it’s interesting the final scenario Matthew gave reminded me of the three human attachment styles: anxious, avoidant, and secure.
Great video. A totally new approach with the butterfly analogy.
Some people I have seen just have this inbuilt core confidence (happy go lucky folks) and others lack it and need training in order to deal with themselves and the toxicity in their life. Being high value benefits everyone.
I cant view the video. Just the audio.
Impressed by your content, keep coming up with new ideas. Best wishes.
I love the simple honesty of this
Very good and helpful !
Thank You Matthew!
This was an amazing video! I loved the butterfly analogy at the end!
Thank you! I have learned from this that I am an Asset! I am the Iron Woman that is great at her CORE!! and to let the Butterfly in me fly!!WOW!!! WOW i needed this
Matthew thank you so much for this video I am a mother of 2 and I have found it so hard to continue dating after a 3 times of being rejected after watching this video it brought me to tears and made me realise what was important in my life and realising I need to get the 3 layers to improve my life all of your videos have many things easier and gave me strength in my life and I just want to say thank you so much and I hope to one day come to one of your retreats all the best and keep up your good work your amazing xx
I Just want to say THANK YOU SO MUCH MATT, was an amazing gift this video.
Big Hug and Love from Berlin
great video ! thank you !
Inspired. Thank you. I needed this today, before going into a job where I was feeling undervalued. Now, instead of looking outward (and feeling angry, blaming maybe), I think I can look inward and be okay. Thanks again.
Great vision , great man!! Thank you so much for such an amazing video <3 It will be helpful #Love from Pakistan
I wash to follow core confident lectures
Thanks Matthew for such a great lesson. You help me so much in so many areas of my life. I really apreciate your job. And i hope someday i can meet you in some retreat. Blesses from paraguay
Thank you for all of the goodness you put out into this world. It hit strings inside of me. We always hear to be kind to ourselves but we never listen till we start looking closely atourselves. Thank you.
Hey Matt, thanks for the refresher on core confidence. I go through my notes from my 2014 Florida retreat every now and then but there’s nothing like watching you live. You’re always so inspiring!! And totally agree, you do have a great voice! Gracias Matt!
I feel so much appreciation for your existence. You have made me tearful and full of hope. I know from within that I am moving in the right direction & you have helped me to confirm that. Due to finance I couldn’t come onto your retreat at this time but I am very greatful to be exposed to & to be able to hear and feel what it is you are saying. Thank you!
This was very great! Thanks for sharing this with everyone who follows you. I got a new insight on how to not only handle my relationship but how to take care of myself in the first place and take things more lightly. I wished you would come to Europe some time, it would be great to get to see you life on stage!!! Thanks again for being such a great eyeopener and sharing tips and advice that help in any situation of life, not only love life <3
Going through an incredible hard time in my laugh at the moment, I laughed and cried at this video. it helped alot thank you
I am so sorry I wasn’t able to attend this falls reteat, but I am happy to report that I have left my comfort zone. I am challenging myself in ways I would’ve never dreamed a year ago. Your retreat was life changing! Not only did I lose 40 pounds, and am keeping them off with a healthier lifestyle, but I am pursuing multiple business ventures that would’ve blown my mind before. Oh and I have been on several high value dates, keeping my standards high, and allowing them to do some work. I have every hope that I will meet the right man, if I haven’t met him yet.
Love and hugs to the Hussey team!
Valerie (the one who was on stage with you last fall – Emotional buttons)
F***ing amazing!!! Loved it!!!
That was awesome Mathew, my three daughters should see it…life lessons.Especially in no offense our male dominated society. Loved it.
Hi Metthew!! Loved your teaching. Thanks for this free video
I almost cried. This is the most beneficial knowledge about confidence I have found so far. I wish you do training to build confindence. Love you from Saudi Arabia.
thanku …this video does help …but i have a disability..so u tell me who is going to want to love me ..this is why my confidence is down ..but u cant tell i have a disability so i get scared to get into a reationship..guys do tell me i am beautiful but…they dont know i have a disability…i pray alot…but i cant see any man who will live me unconditionally…only God can love us unconditionally
I have been following you for months now and every time you post something new it gives value and provides a good insight into life. Keep up the good work!
Thank you Matthew for these explanations, Greetings from Morocco
Thank you so much for such an amazing video. I still have goosebumps from it.
Awesome video! Thank you so much for this
I was feeling a bit disconnected when I came across your video on FB, and on to this page….and just realized how much energy I am giving to my career. No wonder I feel this way!
I wasn’t aware I was doing it, but this video gave me a kick in my butt, I guess. Lol. It certainly snapped me out of this bubble I am in. It’s time for me to go invest in other areas of my life and leave work aside for a bit…. and yeah, I totally get the Ironman bit. It’s so true!
Thank you Matthew
Thank you so much this video is fucking amazing this video give me powerful information please send more
I’ve watched this video four times. And Matt, to be honest, when you said take your pen and paper, I was like, uhhhh, let’s see. The video ended up being a dictation exercise, at one point I didn’t want to lose a single word. I’m blown away. And I’m so grateful Matt. I have no words. Just… thank you.
I really like the butterfly story, which gave me a beautiful moment when you said Core Confidence. that is unconditional love I feel.
Love your language and the stories behind the language, I will keep on working on that, Thank you so much Matthew, you bring beautiful things to the world.
Thank you, I see so many things about myself in this video. It’s helped me put some things straight in my head. Xxx
Is the one to one consultation/ program still available, I need your help very urgently Mathew
This is so true in my life at the moment. I realise that I hold on just because I dont want to deal with the pain of letting go. Time for change, Thank you
LOVE this video! Everything about it: the intensity, the message, the straightforwardness. You are wise beyond your years, Matt. Thank you for sharing your gift with us.
amazing video! really enjoyed it!
I appreciate you, your honestly, your help,your real, thank y for all your help
Confidence is only ticket for everything and competent to do everything.. You know how to do it in your life and ourself… Core level is cultivating yourself what is in my mine Myself… What Will I do for… The innermost desires the core of cure of your heart to free yourself to freely in your free zone… Squished yourself what is your want…. To become successful in everything… I lose my confidence if the expectations not materialized and if you know the truth that all of your trust respects love put in one place and still the life is unfair and no matter what people doing bad on you.. We have only one pieces in ourselves core our core confidence makes alive and fire again.. Just like the all things and non living things we saw… There is a purpose that’s why your heart your core confident is came from your heart… See the Bird in the trees… They’re sing without thinking what around us..so fly and smells the beauty of life… I accept my shortcomings but… Just like a butterfly in my shoulder saying.. Relax and be calm I’m not afraid of you.. I’m not flying fast.. I’m flying gracefully and in sway my wings because I’m vulnerable too… That’s true core of our heart the inner confident we can getting on and on… That’s true confident with competency you know how vulnerable you are you know what’s is yours you know what’s you can touch and seen… See myself… Ignite the core of my confident like you all of us because we know what’s the competence is… Thank you for opportunity to share my views and goals I know what I’m going to do and following the positives advice of the well experience people… Its not too late for me and forget everything.. Ruins or closes our core to just open and it justify everything
loved your video… esp the last example of the butterfly… i was almost on the verge of devaluing my self… your talk has given a boost to my confidence… thanks so much
Like to hear more about the confidence issue..
I learned confidence will change my experiences and transform my existence.
Thank you for this gift of information, Matthew!
I love this video ! The analogies and comparissons were beautiful.
Love you Matt !!!
Thank you Matthew. Such a process. I am amazed at how relevant this is in all parts of our lives.
You are amazing, I keep re-watching this video! I feel almost like you are a part of my family, and every word you say is reinforcing the beliefs i already hold since childhood. Thank you for being here every step of the way, every time i need to clarify my direction.
Great video! Never thought if confidence in 3 levels before. I am thankful that i believe my confidence has developed over the years.In the past, I always appeared confident as people would comment and then i would feel a bit embarrassed knowing it was a lie. Now, after many years of struggles and subsequent personal growth i am confident at all 3 levels. I am thankful i have created a well rounded life with many skills. I am so grateful for my sucessful career and i know one day i will meet a great confident man that isn’t intimidated by my life. Thank you for your great content!
This was informative and an eye opener. Thank you
I have come to like your teaching Matthew, can’t stop watching your videos
Thank you, Matthew! You are an amazing person! You are so great in what you do. I have learned a lot from you. Core confidence is the key. Love the analogy of the butterfly. I may not be able to join your retreat but I will continue watching your videos and learn from you, as I have been doing since I found you online. Continue to inspire people, Iron Man :)
THANK YOU FOR THE ability to see the length of the video & to be able rewind!
Haven’t watched it yet, but sure it’ll be amazing!
THANK YOU AGAIN FOR MAKING THIS VIDEO EASIER TO WATCH
Wow! What you say about Core Confidence truly hits the mark. I’m very grateful for your gift to cut through to the heart of this topic and communicate the three levels. Thank you Matthew!
Good day Matthew
My boyfriend and I made an agreement that on weekends that’s when we would spend quality time together…he says during the week he’s too busy so I agreed…ever since we made this agreement which was months ago he’s spending less time with me, he would rather see his friends, be out all afternoon and night than spend some quality time with me then when he gets back he wants to get intimate/ have sex with me… today he said he wasn’t going anywhere because he noticed how upset it made me that he did what I just explained the day before… while sitting with him this morning he decided to tell me when his friend was 10min away that his friend’s on the way, he arrived in the morning around 10am and he’s still here, he wants me out of the house by Monday morning every week, well because of the agreement but I leave his place feeling like I hadn’t even seen him. He has never been to my place either, he asked for my new address for “safe keeping”…I feel confused. Please help
I love the video. Matthew, you’re amazing. Thank you for being the way you are. And because you care. I hope one day I could come to see you live. You are a true giver, it’s because of people like you this world is getting better. Thank you :)
I liked your lifestyle confidence. Making friends. I strongly believe that friends are earned. And the true friends don’t come easy.
Your core confidence in me version is being a detached observer about everything. One can sense, feel, enjoy and live as lively and as truthfully but without losing oneself. That wat I always tell my little boy, See the world, learn the world and live the world but without losing yourself. The moment you lose yourself you won’t be living in a true sense.
Brilliant! Thank you Matthew for the elucidation…the value of competence and confidence in relationships is actually worth pursuing; it’s rewarding!