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I am married because of the accident pregancy. I don’t have any love foundation for the relationship,just because I can not accepted my ex boyfriend betray me,so I am wrongly starting with this man.Sometime I convince myself to stay with the man that I not really love in life because of my kids. When my son is growing,I feeling I am really not happy in my relationship with my husband and pretending for other people that I am okay, actually I torture myself to staying in painful,just because I am losing my core confidence in my life to accept the fate of life just like that. When I am saying divorce to my husband and I want get out from the sadness condition to gain back my real happiness,but all people around is not supported me and trying to convince me to stay in this wrong relationship. My husband not accepted the divorce and keep saying me crazy , blackmail me ,using the bad words to mentally abuse me and bringing me to see psychiatry.sometimes I am so scary for this man and losing my way. I pray that God for a long time,hope this man can let me go like the butterfly to gain back my freedom of life,but he still keep holding me in his hand tightly and not let me go. So terrible for the man..
You are beautiful. Thank you for sharing your life‘s work and experiences with us. I have found your lessons are always honest, direct, kind, and even humorous. This one though, is the key. Both your explanation of core confidence and allegory about the butterfly really hit home. It is truly valuable work that you do, hence I remain a loyal follower and fan. Thank you.
So inspired by video…such TRUTH and Matthew ….amazing delivery! Thanks for sharing …caregiver right now for family member recovering from cancer and this gave me much needed boost! Sadly financially unable to attend event …this commitment is draining my finances for right now, but see you some day soon!
Thanks.I love what you shared and your positive vibes.It such a great video.
Thank you for this video. My english is maybe not good written but i understand it well. I am from the dutch part of Belgium.I am sitting here now and crying Beecause of you in what you all said ,i realise that i had lost my confidence due that man i am dating with. I think i have to deal with a narcist.I feel like a pupet on a string. I hope i get the strenght to ignore him, thanks to you i know what to do now.Thank you so much.
I’m crying…because I’m great!
Thank you. This was awesome. I live in the UK with 3 young kids and no support system, so I can’t make the retreat. I did buy one of your programs. I’d like to learn more and wondered if you do more mini purchase versus packages. Like music where you can pick tracks or albums. You have a great gift – beautiful heart & mind
This lecture resonates on many different levels for me right now. It has changed my perception from outward to inward. The key element is ME, it’s the missing component I’ve had all along. I’m really reshaping my relationship with myself that’s what I’ve been missing, that’s why it’s been so challenging to date and match energy’s with another person. And the career relationship I have with myself with both jobs and my third passion I’m trying to build myself so that I never have to “work” a day in my life, just a few hours I’ll try to start with 4 .This has really helped me put the pieces together.
Thank you kindly for your generosity sharing this video, it really made the difference for me. When family, friends, coworkers and even therapists couldn’t touch a place in my soul you found a way to melt it down and make it fit, exactly where it needed to be. To be here now is such a gift and I’m going to challenge myself this year to be my true authentic self. I sincerely hope to see you on the retreat I am going to try to find a way to make it work into my current life.
am d first woman
I love this!!! I’m always trying to “pitch” myself. I wind up hurt and empty. I love watching your videos!! You teach me hope and to value who I am. I know my worth however I cater to too many who don’t deserve a spot at my table. It only leaves me unhappy. Thank you so much!! When I’m having an issue I can always find myself feeling better, a better understanding and with more confidence to just be my amazing self!! Also, you are super dreamy!! Xoxo
I would like to have access to the video with subtitles, because I am Brazilian and my English is still bad. IT’S POSSIBLE?
Hi, Gisele! Thanks so much for reaching out and letting us know what you want to see from Matthew next. I have gone ahead and shared your suggestion with our team. However, I wanted to let you know that you can find the transcripts to Matthew’s videos under the video in a blog post. It may also be helpful to plug that into a text translator, so you can still grasp the content. Thanks so much, Sara – MH Team
Wonderfully awesome…you M. Hussey have really gone from good to excellent…. best authentic speech ever…
So wonderful awesome…you have really gone from good to excellent…. best authentic speace ever…
You’re amazing. Your work really inspires me.
Super super !!!! So important message ! Thank you sooooo much for doing all the thinking work and come up with this beautiful speech and sharing it for free. What a noble gesture ! Can’t think you enough Matt !
So valuable and so true! At the end of the day, you’re the youest you that you are. Love it!♥️♥️♥️
One of the best speech es I ever watched in my life
You are very inspiring. I always enjoy, learn and feel better after listening to you. Have a great day!
That was amazing! I have been out of a relationship for 2 months. I was shook by it, because we were happy and he left me in an instant. It rocked my confidence, I see now what you’re saying and what I should’ve done to bring him back (if it was possible). I really appreciate this video. Thank you for sharing it.
So super good. If this is the church of Life, you are an evangelist. And That was Revival.
I’am all the three actually. That’s me
I’am watching you currently live from Germany, from one small district of Germany known as Saarland. I for one, l have been dating my guy since 6 years, its like l have reached the deadline to leave it all beyond despite receiving an engagement rich which to me feels ao awful when l stray all over the past. Patience lays deeply inside of me but currently feel emptiness. Well l’am happy to attend this meeting.
Thanks in advance.
Can’t wait to attend the May Retreat!
We can’t wait to see you there, Cynthia! See you soon, Sara – MH Team
Amazing video! You are making a difference in so many lives !
Thanks for the great advices
Now I’m becoming an IronWoman
That video was so intense and on point. Thank you so much !
Funny, I don’t ever think of myself as lacking confidence. I mean, I’m not overtly arrogant or overly confident, but I try my best not to shy away from situations that make me uncomfortable. Yet, when I really step back from myself and take a look at my life, I am doing myself such a disservice by not allow myself to be more vulnerable with regard to relationships. I guess I’ve gotten to used to doing things on my own that it doesn’t make me apprehensive or insecure, rather, spending time with others and building real relationships which have the power to hurt me and break my heart does. It’s sometimes seemingly easier to guard against pain that it never occurs to us that without the risk of pain, there can really be no big reward either. I want wholeness in my life, not just deprivation. I’m ready.
Hi Mathew, I got to watch only a quarter of your confidence. When my son wanted to have a talk and i did get to see it all. I thought I would try watching the rest, tonight after work. But can’t seen to get it again free. What am I doing wrong? Would it be in my spam? Sorry, I’m a struggling nearly 48yr young lady whom is not technology equip .
You are very wise and inspiring young man whom is definitely not sore on the eye’s. Thank you George❤
Hi, Georgene! Here’s the link you need. Many thanks, Sara – MH Team
The ending though.
Many thanks for a wonderful video that shook me from within and I realised I still lack in confidence inspire of how much I gained.
Would love to know about your retreat.
Hi, Parul! Thank you so much for your interest in Matthew’s Retreats. Please reach out to our support team at email@example.com so we can help you further. Talk soon, Sara – MH Team
Your retreat was the best gift I gave myself …. you and your family are amazing. I will never stop growing .. life is for living.. I don’t want to waste one moment.
Words cannot begin to express how much this video moved me. It moved me to tears and left me speechless by how accurate everything you said applied to myself. I have watched every single one of your videos on social media, but this one hit home harder than any other. I have always lacked a confidence in me despite the burning passion I have for myself, my hobbies, and life overall. The idea of building myself up into the greatest person I could possibly be has always alluded me, no matter how many times I start over from a failure. You have come into a time in my life that has gifted me so many tips and guidance to progress into a better person. I admire and aspire to be as knowledgeable and helpful as you when it comes to our relationships with ourselves. I have applied to your retreat, but alas have not heard a response. Matthew, if you happen to see this personally, please know I would be more than honored to make it to one of your retreats given the opportunity. This video isn’t the first time I’ve been inspired to go. Sincerely, a devoted fan,
Hi, Megan! Thank you so much for reaching out to us on this. I’ve gone ahead and passed along your message and contact details to our Retreat Team, so one of our lovely Retreat Specialists will be contacting you soon. Have an amazing day, Sara – MH Team
Excellent video and very informative. Really makes you dig deeper into who you are and how much you bring to the table.
Thanks so much for this!
wow!that’s what i need to hear!you mentioned flaky people.i’ve been in a serious relationship for 4 years with a guy and during our relationship,we broke up twice.now we’re not in relationship anymore.i’m sure he loves me because i saw lots of signs and his friends told me that he can’t forget you.but i don’t know what’s his problem? and what does he mean to being flaky when he loves me?i know he will come back so what should i do and what should i say when he come back?
I’m here because I know how amazing you are, how much you genuinely care about women/people and our empowerment, and that whatever it is you offer is coming from the culmination of the significant amount of work you put into yourself. And that those three things alone will create a “next level” high quality contribution to our growth, regardless of the subject of the content you currently feel called to share. You have brought so much value into my world and so many women I know, it really is a privilege to support you in bringing more of your dreams into yours.
I find that as I get older, my confidence in myself and dating is a lot worse. I can’t compete with younger women, even though I know I look great and younger guys find me attractive. The less I want to be seen without clothes on or without make up. I was much more confident when I was younger. Youth and appearance is valued much more now than it was when my parents were my age.
I so much needed to hear this today… and any other day! Thank you! Please come to Germany!!!
This was such a great video. I learn so much from you and I take that into all the avenues of my life.
My name is Kelly. Your videos have taught me so much, after purchasing some of your material.. I have grown quite a bit I’m a mother of 6 kids, I’ve failed at many relationships and can’t seem to get it right. The more and more I listen to you, the more confident I become. I still need you. I’m engaged and have hit a crossroad, I’m not sure if this is old behavior from me or bad behavior from him… but I’m not sure I’m going to get that “Happily ever after”. I wish I could come to your retreat, do you by chance offer a scholarship??
Thank you for all you do.
Hi, Kelly Jean! Thank you so much for expressing interest in Matthew’s Retreat. At this time, we do not offer any scholarships, but I have gone ahead and shared your suggestion with our team. I also wanted to let you know that you should keep an eye on your inbox this week for something super exciting! Trust me, you won’t want to miss this. My Best, Sara – MH Team
Great stuff, I love listening to your talks and videos. So inspiring and uplifting.. I am always sharing your videos (and dating advice to all my single friends ;))
It was amazing. So motivating.
Very insightful. I enjoyed watching your program. What do you do if the court confidence is there, but one of the outer layers is damaged now?
Absolutely loved this ❤️ 100% resonated. External factors won’t makes us happy, it has to come from within. My journey with this continues. Keep doing your thing Matthew, I get so much value from it
Dude… u rocked that presentation.
U hit me right in the feels.
I have always loved your videos and I find them inspiring to myself as well as to the woman in my life who I know need your guidance. Thank you so much! I would love for one day, even being a man, to come to one of your retreats to learn even more about myself!
I loved this. I have learned so much from Matthew’s videos and programs! My confidence has grown and have learned to set the boundaries for a good relationship. Thanks so much!
I feel that I am learning so much from you. Thank you!
Thank you for this amazing insightful video! We hear you!
I absolutely love this and really appreciate the passion Matthew gives to his mission. Thank you so much and and I’m so glad I clicked by accident on youtube link few years ago. Following since then and love each video and message that is shared. Changed me as a person. Thank you, Matthew!
I’m a married woman who loves her husband but the last few years have been very difficult for us both my husband and I have had a very traumatic time and it pulled us apart because we couldn’t communicate with each other we both blamed ourselves for the breakdown but since then I have learned that my husband had an affair with a younger women not that it matters about age it’s all about communication and I’m trying desperately to get us back on track but I feel like I’m doing all the work and that there’s no attraction left between us I have tried the putting aside time to get back to being just us around each other and booking a night away here and there but he makes no effort to touch me and I feel like I have to make a decision on whether or not we can continue to be together is there any advice you can give me that maybe I’m missing we have been married for twenty four years and I’m nearly forth two I really appreciate any advice you can give me
Hi, Samantha. Thank you so much for sharing your story with us. I wanted to reach out to you to see if you’ve considered Matthew’s program, Attraction to Commitment? This program dedicates 12-modules to offer advice to those already in a committed relationship, under the program section, ‘Making It Last a Lifetime’. This section includes quick tools on keeping things fresh and exciting, what to do if your partner is changing for the worst, keeping desire long-term and a quick tip to improve your relationship every day – and these are only just a few! This is the best love-life program we have ever created! If you want to learn more about this program, just click this link. My Best, Sara – MH Team
Thank you so much for amazing videos all the time
I love you Matt.. See you in Florida:)
I loved this video and the butterfly story is so inspiring. Thank you Matthew you are amazing and love what you do.
I have a video of that butterfly. Most beautiful just doin what it pleases going from one flower to the next. Knowing his nectar is waiting for the butterfly. i stopped my car noticing it and got out to capture it on video.
Great message!!! I was feeling down on myself because I lost my job recently and felt a bit like a failure…. I decided to make the most of it and with all the spare time I have been working on my side business in interior decor and have gotten so much done! After seeing this I realize that I am not doing as bad as I thought … and this has given me even more of a reason to not give up and know I will find something better for ME…. that I will be ok
Beutiful.you realy tuch me.it so truth
Just talking about you because of this… Thanks a lot! Is great! Congratulations <3
Damn, that butterfly metaphor was powerful.
I listened to the 1.20 minute video but there was no link for the at home retreat. : (
Hi, Melissa! I wanted to let you know that you should keep an eye on your inbox this week for a link to something super exciting! Trust me, you won’t want to miss this. My Best, Sara – MH Team
Hi, Melissa! I wanted to make sure you received the link for Matthew’s At-Home Retreat re-launch? If not, here it is for you! Thanks so much, Sara – MH Team
This was brilliant!
Had a really rough going 2019 and this video helped me put things in perspective of how my growth and learning is going and what it means, even though it was painful sometimes, it was worth it and I am a new version of myself, with a new perspective on my life and hungry to keep growing and learning.
Thanks for this! Love your humor! ♥️
That. Was. Amazing. Thank you so much! The butterfly example will stick with me forever. I was the type of person to not get attached to the butterfly, in relationships. But now I see how to BE the kind of person that someone would WANT to stay with ❤️ Thank you, for all of your words!
Amazing butterfly analogy !! Your wisdom is beyond appreciated and transforming Matt. Core confidence- a person who knows the value they can give and fine if that value is not accepted. Beautiful just beautiful and so empowering!!
Thank you so so much
Caroline (Cee) Colunga
Wow, this made me cry! I’ve written two pages of notes
Down and realised that I need to be confident in myself and not be so sensitive in any walk of my life if someone doesn’t accept me or my views or want to be with me.
I’ve thought for far too long that there’s something wrong with me, rather than feeling like I have a lot to offer my job, partner eventually.
Thank you Matthew for opening my eyes and allowing me the option to realise what I am confident and competent in and what I still need to work on.
I just wish your retreat was in the UK because as a single mum I’m not sure I could make it to the USA.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart
Hi ! I am a 64 year old woman stepping into new and scary territory, in the form of a new relationship!! Not wishing to stamp and repeat previous patterns i sought new gurus, angels and a bit of lunar wisdom as my guide. Mathew , you are an old wise soul and I am grateful to have found your videos, affirmations and advice. Not just for the young and the beautiful , many thx , looking forward to more . Confidence hmmm what a concept!!
When are you coming to Lebanon Beirut. I wanna be your assistant here. Best,
Hi Matt, amazing video, I’m really thankful for it, helps me keep building the best version of myself in wich I’m working on, I wish I could express the enormous gratittude I feel… Thank you always!!!!
Thank you Matthew!!
I loved the video! Thank you for being who you are, sharing what you know, giving everything in abundance , and inspiring all of us:)
This had me smiling and my eyes tearing up at the same time. I wish I could get to one of your retreats but I am in the UK. Thank you so much for your videos Matthew. I hope you have a wonderful 2020!
Great video – you’re so right the asset is you. It was funny too – stand up on the cards next?! Thanks
Truly inspiring video, hits home alot with me. Putting all my eggs in one basket and one day that basket breaks. Watching this has proved how much core confidence I have, when really I thought u was doubt my self worth.
So many things to say…
Matthew you are a fabulous public speaker – the highs and lows, the stories, different tones of your voice and all while teaching us something so valuable.
I’m will be doing a small lecture in a couple weeks and this video will help me so much.
Also, gaining confidence has been a focus for me for a while. People are always telling me I should be more confident in myself. It’s hard because I don’t see what they see, but your videos are helping me so much.
I just have to be on your retreat asap, help!
Hi, Julie! To learn more about Matthew’s Live Retreat or to schedule a call with one of our lovely Retreat Specialists to answer any of your questions, just click this link. Have an amazing day, Sara – MH Team
I NEEDED TO HEAR THESE WORDS TODAY Thankyou Matthew. I was confident to the core of my being, so comfortable and content in my own skin and in who I was and what I had to offer. Suddenly life events had me engulfed by grief,guilt & fear. Depression & anxiety took hold for 2 years despite every effort. I lost sight of who I was and was scared to live & love
ever again – but also knew I wouldn’t be living unless I loved again, and that included loving Myself. Coming through the haze,determined not to let the current tragedies define me or my life’s story, I continued seeking the path that would guide me to further healing, learning and back to my core confidence,
I felt todays talk was my Iron Man moment! I needed to hear your advice. I needed to see my value once again, smile because I am alive, be confident and hold my head high because I AM ME!!…. FAR FROM PERFECT BUT PERFECTLY ME. I NEEDED THIS TALK.
FROM THE CORE OF MY BEING…..MATTHEW, THANK YOU. I HOPE YOU FEEL THE SINCERITY IN MY WORDS AND THE IMPACT YOU HAVE HAD ON MY EXISTANCE. I am Ironman….of the female persuasion
Huge hugs from afar. Thankyou