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Eureka moment, absolutely blessed to have come across this video, immense Gratitude just as when I needed it the most in my crashing life phase. Thank you so much looking forward to more
Not that I wasn’t confident… was giving to many chances…
Core confidence. “I didn’t lose the TV show. The TV show lost me.” I didn’t lose my ex. He lost me.
Thank you for the butterfly analogy! It’s exactly what I needed to hear today. I need someone like that third guy who adds value to the butterfly. Not someone who cages me in so I feel trapped. Not someone who ignores me and doesn’t get attached, but someone who is actually there for me and is willing to protect me and add value to my life so I feel the courage to try new things and not be afraid because they’ve got me. I can jump all in knowing that they are right there with me. That’s what I need in a guy. I need to feel safe. I need to know that he is there for me to add value to my life as I add value by being in his life. That’s what I need to look for in the future.
I need to maintain my relationships. “You can’t make old friends.” I love that! Keep up my hobbies.
Thank you Matthew, very nice.
I have followed you for years and so appreciated your wisdom, experience and vulnerability. I love that you got real on this intro and just want to say Thank you. Your gifts are seen and valued. I teach what you have taught me to my daughter and to any women and men who want to to learn. I too am a teacher, speaker and counselor. I’ve just begun to understand my core confidence and my true value from all my years of learning. Here’s to some great shit to come!!! Thank you!
Loved the analogy of the butterfly landing in the hand & the 3 responses one can have to it. I’ve been the person that closed my hand to keep it from leaving. I want to be – and I’ve been working towards being – the person that responds to it by it like the 3rd person would.
This is so important for me to know. Thank you so so much for making this video.
I really hope to attend your talks one day.
You are doing great Matthew, by helping me to open my mind to see the situation in a practical way and renewed myself.
This video touched my heart so deeply.
The thing at the end with the butterfly..?
That was beautiful..tears were running down my face.. thank you so much for doing what you do. This video was amazing.
Thank you Matthew Hussey.
I wish to Meet with you in the future. Thank you so much for this video it helps me and my relationship so much. Thank you thank you Mathew.
Happy always to hear the words and advice of Matthew Hussey. I am heart broken right now as we just broke up with my asshole bf and watching that video I’ve learn soo much how to value myself and being confidence . He lose me not that I lose him thank you again. God Bless Matthew!
Thanks to this video that you made sir it will help me so much . Hope to see more videos of yours sir.
Am all of the 3 women. And at times i get lost and think that nothing whatever am going through nobody understands and i often seek clarification from men telling me of my beauty. Am lost and am messed up
Really great video, that resonates with many spheres of life -relationships, friendships, career, etc. Thanks Matt!
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Inspiring as usual.
I need more videos.
I m going throigh a tough phase in life from past 3 years
I need to work on my confidence please.
Oh wow!! Just wow! This speech was GENIUS!!!! I’ve been watching your videos for years, bought all your books and continue taking your advices on my relashionship. I’m coming to understand more and more day by day and learning . There’s no one like you Matt, you are a star! I’m greatful for this vide, life changing indeed.
Thank you so much for this beautiful video Matt !
Very good and I find it very useful. Thank you.
Like Dr Phil says :u teach people how to treat u. ❤️ So damn Tru. U are my favorite teacher, Matt. I learn soo much. Thank u for being u
I really liked this video because it made me realize that I have to be more brave in life and love. I can say for myself that Im not so confident person, but I think that I will make it somehow to achieve goals I had written for myself. Also I want to say is that I have never been in a relationship, cause men dont approach to me, I dont know why, maybe its because Im not attractive, or men think Im untouchable, I dont know. Im 20 years old and recently I realized that I am slightly afraid if someone approaches me, that I will make some mistake and I will regret it, or that that someone wont love me for who I am, or maybe that I wont love him back. I hope that this feeling will fade away and that I wont be so scared of love.
P.S. You are doing your job great, continue with that! :D
Matthew..People like you were put on this Earth to make the world a better place!! Truly inspiring
I thank you for this video. I lack confidence in relationships because I give 100% of myself to someone I like and care for recently. I know im not alone on this. God bless you always!
This is just a VITAL lesson for me to take away. Value my own self and that I have VALUE to give is paramount to regaining my own core competence . Sometimes life and relationships etch away at ones core competence. This video has helped me understand how to regain it and use it in developing new relationships. Love your messages Matthew, am an advocate.
This is one if the most wonderful explanation on confidence. Yes I heard it 3 times, yes 3 times because I wanted to get every little bit of advice I could. Thank you for this! I really appreciate it Very much!
Not to be ugly, but I eish I could take your retreat home course but it’s a bit to much! Some day I’ll be able to afford it, but Overall! You are a wonderful in sharing your talent, knowledge & skills. THANK YOU! THANK YOU!
My name is Shweta and I’m from India.
I had first seen your video on Facebook. Then I subscribed you on YouTube. You are doing an amazing job. I have been struggling with life problems like everyone out there. I believe that no one else can help me but myself. But sometimes this believe get shaken due to the circumstances. Your videos are really helpful. I would love to come to your retreat program someday but right now I can’t afford them monetarily. But that’s alright. I’m a good learner and I have been learning from your YouTube videos. I will do good with my life.
But I want to say that you are a great human being and it shows in your eyes. Keep up with it.
Lots of love.
Wow amazing…I really need to get core confidence I definitely lack it. I wish I could visit your retreat unfortunately I am in South Africa and I will not be able to afford it ever.
You inspire me so much…
Just to say thank you and thank you again. You are inspiring!
Thank you for all that you and your team do! I have been in a really draining limbo relationship for the past 9 years. This video gave me what I needed to hear,and understanding of having Core confidence. Thank you for doing this!
Amazing!!! thanks for being who you are!
Hello all you dumb b-tches who follow this. Come on, this is an obvious marketing pitch lol. Anyways, I am looking for someone like you…. I’m a guy, I’m cool, sometimes. BUT and this is a big BUT (not literally) I am ONLY looking for girls who are dumb and HOT. And I mean… Hot.
So bring it. Email me in the comments.
P.S, FEMINISM SUCKS
This is so obviously marketed toward dumg girls lol
This advice can be used in so many different aspects in life. Thanks for making this free. Wish I could download.
This was great thank you.
This changed everything. Wish we could have a conversation in person.
I actually love you , thank you so much for being who you are . You have no idea what a big impact these videos are having on my life . Wish i discovered you sooner to avoid some of the heartbreak i went through . I’m already on my third fiancee.
What a powerful and inspirational speech thank you so much
Thanks Matt as always refreshing to see you
mmmm, Ironman! ;-)
The only thing I wanna say is THANK YOU SO MUCH
For this precious video And God bless you!
You are the one of the wonderful gifted creature on this earth !
God bless you ❤️
Love it when you use stories and metaphors to bring the message! Thanks!
a good video!